Thanks for the words. Brings to mind several cliches:
You'll catch more flies with honey than vinegar (and no disrespect meant to the ladies). Just
common sense. Some of us work in the service industry. You give good service to all, BUT the customer always on your back... maybe strictly to spec. The one who's nice, polite, respectful, maybe offers you a soda while you're working? Those you're happy to see, do a good job fast. But even if you don't work in the service industry, in a big office, who are you more likely to help? The guy from another department banging on your desk, yelling that you need to do this or that. Or the guy who politely asks for help?
Knowledge is power. As stated, this forum is about helping and sharing info. The question one should ask themselves is if you're not getting the same prices as others, why? Now I'm not talking about some non-standard service. If her standard is a CBJ, you want a BBBJ, you can always ask. She can always say no. If she does provide a BBBJ, I'd expect that to cost extra. But with the DEFAULT standard NHJ service... One thing if she's a 21 year old BEAUTY, face AND body. But standard? Should be standard.
Nature abhors a vacuum. MY experience, most girls will deliver for the standard price. But certainly some might take an opportunity to increase their take-home pay. I'd be cautious of a repeat with that type, and as I said, I'd politely decline, prepared to walk. No hysterics, just a silent departure. It's not a negotiating strategy, merely a statement of fact. If she chooses to make another offer, I'll listen UNTIL I start to put my shoes on. At that point, I will be leaving regardless. Just my own personal red line.
Shortstack: It's all just learning experiences. I've certainly overpaid for substandard services. I'm not hostile, just make a note, and NO repeat business from me. Here's my path HERE:
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread...cs-by-a-Newbie
Left clicking my handle in the leftmost window pane will bring up a pop-up, select "View Forum Posts". Not that I'm a pathfinder, I'll leave that to
AHLUNGOR; he's provided any number of
useful posts. If you're looking for a simple standard NHJ from a busty masseuse, Pen or Maggie (Summerville) or Coco at 208 Stanmore immediately come to mind. Pen is legend. AR's have been written...
Myself, I remember names, and when memory fails, I keep a note. Certainly the great ones, the regulars, those I REMEMBER. But also the duds... The mediocre ones, I might not remember off hand, but hopefully I did make a note just so when I ask who's working today, I'll recognize names... It certainly helps to know a name just so others can agree/disagree with your experience. Won't change YOUR experience, but might shed some light on it (she's like that with everyone, or perhaps you just didn't click...)
One last thing (really): once you establish a price, on repeats, that will be the price, in my experience anyway. Just easier that way, nothing needs to be said. Some might be able to get a lower price, especially if the original price was OTT, but then it seems like human nature for the other party to be wondering why. Just like if you've been paying $50 for part 2.0, then, suddenly, she ups the price. Two sides, same coin. For me, I don't as long as nothing has changed. If her
experience was worth $xxx one time, it is worth $xxx the next time for those SAME services. Now, if I decide to
upgrade, then I'd expect an increase, and if I downgrade, less, but I would FIRST tell her on the downgrade so there are NO surprises.
She certainly has every reason to expect the same price for the same service. Certainly many choices, so it's not like you're stuck...