I work in sales as an early 30s but I’m in decent shape and there is a 21yo blonde who I get along with really well with, follow the same sports etc. I get innocuous texts from her on weekends usually sporting related but 100% I can fuck her if I wanted. I’ve got a partner and a young kid (unplanned and relationship has suffered as a result) but I just can’t do it. Not to be a good guy or anything (i punt after all) but because I don’t trust a fucking 21yo to be discreet about it and I’ve got too much to lose lol