One of the most humorous posts I have seen here so congrats on that.
What shops are you going to that do not offer BBFS?? or is it the way you ask?
I get the feeling we are back in the early 80's when everything was BBFS or BBBD (bare back back door) from my most recent punts.
Up until Christmas there were a dozen or so who had offered me BBFS and one BBBD in 2022 but this year I have had more offers than I can count including a couple of ML's as well. Not old dried up ones, 19 and 24 yr olds. In fact it is rare that I don't feel as though it is on the menu or offered.
Probably a money issue TBH. I honestly do not see the problem. If you enjoy it and are willing to take any risks onboard then by all means do what makes you happy.
I have declined every offer this year for the simple reason I have a regular partner who is the only one I do anything BB with. I would NEVER put her at risk.
Whilst our relationship is not monogamous and only casual she pays me the same respect and to date we are both STI free.