Losing your favourite ML/WL

[Sibon]

It seems some punters have found a favourite ML/WL or a 'Regular' lady they often like to visit to satisfy their fix. One punter in another thread claims to have visited their ML/WL 20 times. Then sadly when the ML/WL moves on without warning and disappears, the punter is left with a void and some regret.

Almost all of the MLs will leave us one day. They are not our wives.

The regular ML I've been seeing for past one and half years has told me she'll be going back to China next year at the end of her student visa. She is the best I've seen and will be hard to be replaced. Most of all she is affordable and sometimes at a discount.

[Sher1888]

Joey from snow lotus, she was my favourite for years. Irreplaceable.

You might meet one at dating app like I met someone I used to do date unexpectedly.It ended because her boss/friend got a strong influence on her.

[Nejums]

Yep. Had one regular I would often see. When she decided she was quitting for good, I got her number. We still keep in touch.

There are a few others who I would've liked to have kept in touch with though. Such is life though.

[woods23]

I always get their WeChat/lines if I like girl incase they move shop !. Most the time they give out pretty easily nd No they don't think you are special It's like given out a business card . So just ask no big deal

Most girl hate talking or texting so don't wasted your time. Don't not send texts for a chat! Don't think they reply you bc they like you. If they reply you late or one word...you just $$$ to then. Go in fck them hard enjoying the time together.

Many of my regular has moved on is sad but there are plenty of nice pussies out there also. Some you cant replace they are just special! If they do makes a come back I probably won't see them again..Maybe kyoto Summer nd SS Star !

[Rookiestones]

Yep. Had one regular I would often see. When she decided she was quitting for good, I got her number. We still keep in touch.

There are a few others who I would've liked to have kept in touch with though. Such is life though.

Good to hear Nejums. So her quitting was the trigger for the contact exchange? And this is after how long or how many sessions? Curious, post ML work you guys just platonic friends now?

[Rookiestones]

Also a lot of the girls just see you as a customer ATM, you are a way to fund their life here in Sydney,

It’s transactional so better not getting that attached

I always get their WeChat/lines if I like girl incase they move shop !. Most the time they give out pretty easily nd No they don't think you are special It's like given out a business card . So just ask no big deal

Most girl hate talking or texting so don't wasted your time. Don't not send texts for a chat! Don't think they reply you bc they like you. If they reply you late or one word...you just $$$ to then. Go in fck them hard enjoying the time together.

Good advice here treat these physical interactions with ML/WL simply as 'transactions'. Go in, pay for service and leave. Any contact provided are merely 'business cards'. Critical mental reminders to keep emotions in check.

[HardCore]

Pretty easy to move past losing a favorite, simply get yourself a couple of new favorites. There is plenty of fish in the sea, enjoy the fishing journey to find some new favorites.

[J3ffrey]

Pretty easy to move past losing a favorite, simply get yourself a couple of new favorites. There is plenty of fish in the sea, enjoy the fishing journey to find some new favorites.

That is so true, no point dwelling in the past just enjoy the memory and create new ones.

[Vincent888]

Getting a W/ML girls number is not that simple because they build up a defensive wall to protect their privacy, because they don't want work life interfering with their personal life, Also a lot of the girls just see you as a customer ATM, you are a way to fund their life here in Sydney,
but if you think that girl is special, you need to become friends with them, which isn't hard, just find out what their favourite snack is and bring it with you next time,
also in general conversation find out their roster and if they work at any other shops, if they are working like full time 6 days a week at 3 different shops, don't waste your time they are only after money,

Everyone is after money. It’s the basic need. Some just need it more than others.

[earl9122]

It seems some punters have found a favorite ML/WL or a 'Regular' lady they often like to visit to satisfy their fix. One punter in another thread claims to have visited their ML/WL 20 times. Then, sadly, when the ML/WL moves on without warning and disappears, the punter is left with a void and some regret.

So I'm wondering:

1. What held you back from asking your go-to ML or WL for their contact details? If an attempt was made, what was the ML/WL reason to decline the request?

(Note: this is assuming both parties have established a rapport.)

2. If any punters here do have their ML/WL contact details, how long or how many visits or bookings took place before making the decision to exchange contact details? Who made the approach?

Good question! I think it’s often a combination of factors that determine whether or not punters get an ML or WL's contact details. Generally, if the two parties have established a rapport and trust each other, there is likely to be more familiarity on both sides. If this is the case, then typically the ML/WL would be more likely to provide their contact details. On the other hand, if there is no indication of trust or a strong rapport between the two parties, then it’s more likely that the ML or WL would decline any request for their contact details. Ultimately, though, it really comes down to what both parties are comfortable with and willing to agree to.

[JSteel96]

It seems some punters have found a favourite ML/WL or a 'Regular' lady they often like to visit to satisfy their fix. One punter in another thread claims to have visited their ML/WL 20 times. Then sadly when the ML/WL moves on without warning and disappears, the punter is left with a void and some regret.

So I'm wondering:

1. What held you back from asking your go-to ML/WL their contact details? If an attempt was made, what was the ML/WL reason to decline the request?

(Note: this is assuming both parties have established a rapport)

2. If any punter here do have their ML/WL contact details, how long or how many visits/bookings took place before making the decision to exchange contact details? Who made the approach?

3 visits and I had her phone number and email about ten years ago. Been seeing her for years, seeing her tomorrow. I don't think there is any chance of her vanishing. She keeps messaging. It also makes a big difference if they know your well off I think they will more likely stick with you.

[Vincent888]

3 visits and I had her phone number and email about ten years ago. Been seeing her for years, seeing her tomorrow. I don't think there is any chance of her vanishing. She keeps messaging. It also makes a big difference if they know your well off I think they will more likely stick with you.

I’ve offered plenty of money to one WL.

It’d shock everyone on this site how much.

It got me nowhere.

She declined.

Money is worth zero until someone values it.

Very frustrating.

[JSteel96]

I’ve offered plenty of money to one WL.

It’d shock everyone on this site how much.

It got me nowhere.

She declined.

Money is worth zero until someone values it.

Very frustrating.

Maybe I just got lucky with the one I got we have a good secret friendship. I am sure If I was broke she would not have been interested though. She loves that I am a rich business man.

[apokalypse]

i was wondering any of you guys ask your fav to have session outside working hours or private?

[Vincent888]

Maybe I just got lucky with the one I got we have a good secret friendship. I am sure If I was broke she would not have been interested though. She loves that I am a rich business man.

Well you lucked on, I didn’t. I have other irons in the fire and just may go with one of them if I don’t get a result soon from her. As the sailers say “any port in a storm”.

[Vincent888]

i was wondering any of you guys ask your fav to have session outside working hours or private?

No. I could but chose not to. Silly but I have loyalty to many businesses and I support them. If I want private I go to privates. Last private was almost two weeks ago.