No sex before marriage, does this mean they can't masturbate?
I'm generalising and stereotyping like how you generalised all Muslim men by saying, "yet many Muslim men would take the virginity of their own women before marriage."
If you feel like that's respectful disagreement then go to a Mosque and say it. The ultimate test between "respectful disagreement towards the religion" and islamophobia is the pub test. Is it something you'd say publicly or is it something you'd only say anonymously on a punting forum?
The troll shit I say are definitely for the anonymous punting forums. What about you?