Originally Posted by
JohnJones
Chinese... They always come up with the same excuses - no time for boyfriend, I need to be greedy and suck all the money I can in the world.
For Chinese people, face is more important than relationship. Some Chinese WLs showed me the items they're shopping around - $10k Cartier bangles. And I just told them what if someone comes up to you and says that Cartier is fake? Of course she gets the shits right after.
Why do you want to make an ML/WL your girlfriend? Are you aiming for a relationship where you'll have kids together or are you just wanting to get a girlfriend to cope with loneliness?
Any girl you date, sex worker or not, will always make you feel lonely 5 days a week at least. She is not there as your sex toy. You need to learn how to live a lonely life unattached to people. To be honest in my previous marriage there were times I didn't even want to be with my ex-wife or sleep with her. When she went back to her home country for 2 weeks it was almost like heaven to me as I can see other girls without creating any suspicions.
In my current relationship I made sure that my partner accepted my proposals. When I asked her to be my GF she said yes, when I proposed to her to be my fiancee she also said yes. Because before I met her I had an ML ex who made our relationship vague, wanted me to buy a $2mil apartment in Darling Harbour for us to live together yet rejected my marriage proposal. I left and never saw her again. You can't have vague relationships, it must be clear between both parties what is the goal of the relationship and if any open relationship arrangements (seeing other people while in the relationship) can happen without it being kept a secret.
I'm currently in an open relationship but I had made a promise to the partner that I proposed that once we get married I will stop seeing other girls. We agreed on having kids, and that I will focus on them both. And she didn't protest against me going to brothels since she knows it's purely just for the sex.
Not saying you should also be in an open relationship but you need to make your relationship goals clear and be okay with only getting intimate one or twice a week at most. And don't fall for bitches who make your relationship with her sound vague.