Un-healthy Relationship

[Shinraman]

Now I’m sure we can all admit to have fallen (even for the 30 minutes during a session) for a ML or WL.

It must be the ego stroking they do so well, or just how overly friendly and “caring” they are.

Sometimes you catch yourself thinking about them at work or at home, the drive home or on the train… a very unhealthy relationship (if you can call it that) as it can be very one-sided and you never know the true intent from the other side $$$.

Please share your experiences and maybe some advise for getting out of this head space, I feel like many in this community are living this right now.

[1inchguy]

Advice for getting out of this head space, see another Wl/ML and you'll find yourself forgetting the previous girl.

[Sibon]

A new WL told me her boyfriend was one of her clients. And a few of her former BFs were her clients too. Wow!

And she told me her friend who was another WL married one of her clients. And he let her continue to work in the parlour. Another Wow!

I guess if you want to have a relationship with a WL it's possible but many brothers here would tell you not advisable.

[Somebeardyfella]

The main reason I don't let myself have a "regular" ML

[Sibon]

The main reason I don't let myself have a "regular" ML

I have a regular for more than 1 year.

She is for sex.

It's a transaction. There is no emotional attachment to it.

Regular or not. It's how you handle it.

We don't see each other outside the parlour cubicle. And never go out shopping or having a meal together. And very rarely exchange SMS or Wechat messages. We think that's a waste of time.

I don't need to fantasize about her. Anytime I want her body I know where she works.

[hatter]

sound advise to be followed

[DayMan69]

This has been covered a few times.

You are clinically insane to think there is a chance in hell of a sustainable relationship with a sex worker. Not because of them (although they are undoubtedly genuinely interested in you for you, not your $$ or visa status), but because of you. You won't get the 10 dicks she's already serviced that day out of your head. You can't make up the $$ she earns. You won't get the insecurities out of your head.

Do not get into a relationship with an ML.

They are like a physio for your dick, once your done, thank her and let her get on with the next client. Just like a physio for your back. And just like a physio for your back doesn't need a love struck client, nor does your ML.

[Puntonthego]

This has been covered a few times.

You are clinically insane to think there is a chance in hell of a sustainable relationship with a sex worker. Not because of them (although they are undoubtedly genuinely interested in you for you, not your $$ or visa status), but because of you. You won't get the 10 dicks she's already serviced that day out of your head. You can't make up the $$ she earns. You won't get the insecurities out of your head.

Do not get into a relationship with an ML.

They are like a physio for your dick, once your done, thank her and let her get on with the next client. Just like a physio for your back. And just like a physio for your back doesn't need a love struck client, nor does your ML.

couldn’t have said it better.


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[DayMan69]

This has been covered a few times.

You are clinically insane to think there is a chance in hell of a sustainable relationship with a sex worker. Not because of them (although they are undoubtedly genuinely interested in you for you, not your $$ or visa status), but because of you. You won't get the 10 dicks she's already serviced that day out of your head. You can't make up the $$ she earns. You won't get the insecurities out of your head.

Do not get into a relationship with an ML.

They are like a physio for your dick, once your done, thank her and let her get on with the next client. Just like a physio for your back. And just like a physio for your back doesn't need a love struck client, nor does your ML.

[Shinraman]

Hey Fellas,
I should have prefaced my OP, it was supposed to be a light-hearted convo.
Nothing to be taken so seriously 😂 Just sharing some funny experiences or stories
A lot of times threads get too real in the community. 🫶🏻

R.I.P Takeoff 🕊

[AHLUNGOR]

…………. Double posted

[AHLUNGOR]

This has been covered a few times.

You are clinically insane to think there is a chance in hell of a sustainable relationship with a sex worker. Not because of them (although they are undoubtedly genuinely interested in you for you, not your $$ or visa status), but because of you. You won't get the 10 dicks she's already serviced that day out of your head. You can't make up the $$ she earns. You won't get the insecurities out of your head.

Do not get into a relationship with an ML.

They are like a physio for your dick, once your done, thank her and let her get on with the next client. Just like a physio for your back. And just like a physio for your back doesn't need a love struck client, nor does your ML.

Prudent advises. But far from the day to day reality .

If you spend enough time with the people in the RnT industry (mamasans and MLs), you will know that the majority of them have husbands, partners or boyfriends, whom may or may not know of their profession, and many of them could well be their former clients).

So while the general opinions have usually been a resounding NO, Don’t do it. The fact is differ and many people are in it and whether they are happy or not, that’s the million dollar question?


Ps. I have talking about the RnT section of the industry here, not the FS brothels as I don’t know anyone or anything from that sector.


Cheers

[Sibon]

If you spend enough time with the people in the RnT industry (mamasans and MLs), you will know that the majority of them have husbands, partners or boyfriends, whom may or may not know of their profession, and many of them could well be their former clients).

And those MLs we have Part 2 or Part 3 with most likely have 2 or 3 kids too. They could be in secondary schools.

Working in a massage parlour is just a profession. Saw a ML's boyfriend drove to the shop to give her a lift home. A ML told me her BF still visits her in the parlour. Many men have lived to get used to it.

[asiafever]

Whenever this topic comes up I remember the old Greek mythology story of Icarus.

Daedalus, father of Icarus and a master craftsman, fashioned two pairs of wings out of wax and feathers for himself and his son, so they coukd escape Crete. Before trying to escape the island, Daedalus warned Icarus not to fly too close to the sun, as the wax may melt, nor too close to the sea, as the salt water would dampen the feathers, but to follow his path of flight. Whether it was hubris, complacency, or just being lost in the excitement while flying, Icarus disobeyed his father and soared into the sky. He flew too close to the sun, and the heat melted the wax holding his feathers together. One by one, Icarus's feathers fell out, until he fell into the sea and drowned.

Don't fly too close to the sun, nor to the sea...

[Double_Adapter]

Whenever this topic comes up I remember the old Greek mythology story of Icarus.

Daedalus, father of Icarus and a master craftsman, fashioned two pairs of wings out of wax and feathers for himself and his son, so they coukd escape Crete. Before trying to escape the island, Daedalus warned Icarus not to fly too close to the sun, as the wax may melt, nor too close to the sea, as the salt water would dampen the feathers, but to follow his path of flight. Whether it was hubris, complacency, or just being lost in the excitement while flying, Icarus disobeyed his father and soared into the sky. He flew too close to the sun, and the heat melted the wax holding his feathers together. One by one, Icarus's feathers fell out, until he fell into the sea and drowned.

Don't fly too close to the sun, nor to the sea...

That is some fucking deep shit you're preaching Mr Asiafever....unfortunately most simps here wont fucking understand the message. So I will summarise it for them - Never ever trust anything that bleeds for 7 days and doesn't die....that includes all MLs, WLs, sugar babies, wives, mistresses, girlfriends, partners, ex-wives, FWBs et al!

[Hung-wolf]

Never ever trust anything that bleeds for 7 days and doesn't die....that includes all MLs, WLs, sugar babies, wives, mistresses, girlfriends, partners, ex-wives, FWBs et al!

I don't trust and would never trust a woman related to such industry in any way. As a matter of fact I won't trust any woman at all like our fellow punter mentioned above. I completely agree with him.

I do believe in trust and love and caring for each other but we are living in time where such characteristics aren't appreciated and more importantly more than rare to find.

Because we live in the time of sugar babies, onlyfans, female only approaching or entertaining you for fake partner visa relationship and much more as it is just a glimpse.

[rubit moore]

I don't trust and would never trust a woman related to such industry in any way. As a matter of fact I won't trust any woman at all like our fellow punter mentioned above. I completely agree with him.

I do believe in trust and love and caring for each other but we are living in time where such characteristics aren't appreciated and more importantly more than rare to find.

Because we live in the time of sugar babies, onlyfans, female only approaching or entertaining you for fake partner visa relationship and much more as it is just a glimpse.

Completely agree.

[Jamez11]

Now I’m sure we can all admit to have fallen (even for the 30 minutes during a session) for a ML or WL.

It must be the ego stroking they do so well, or just how overly friendly and “caring” they are.

Sometimes you catch yourself thinking about them at work or at home, the drive home or on the train… a very unhealthy relationship (if you can call it that) as it can be very one-sided and you never know the true intent from the other side $$$.

Please share your experiences and maybe some advise for getting out of this head space, I feel like many in this community are living this right now.

It’s in the girls best interest financially to have you wanting to come back and see her. More than likely they act/say/do the exact same things with most of the 5-10 other punters they saw that day.
The good ones make men feel special as well as getting rid of their blue balls.

[Sibon]

It’s in the girls best interest financially to have you wanting to come back and see her. More than likely they act/say/do the exact same things with most of the 5-10 other punters they saw that day.
The good ones make men feel special as well as getting rid of their blue balls.

Don't think too much or read too many ARs.

It would be a shock to read in ARs that a ML we have kissed have sucked many a cocks and balls.

But it's their jobs and a way to earn a living. We have to learn to respect that.

One ML told me some of her clients especially white males had told her, "No kissing."

[bobbybrown]

There have been many, a ml and I clicked after 1 session and we exchanged numbers she had an amazing porn star body. We went out on 1 date and all she did was gossip about her friends. I got bored quickly and didn't seek a second date or another session. A few months after, my second brain wanted a release. Suffice to say, going back to her wasn't an option.

Another time I was absolutely smitten with a ML that was quite popular, we hung out for weeks until I got too attached and ruined everything. I still feel like she was the one that got away. I would have bent alot of rules for her. Funny thing was I was kind of dating this ML and a WL at the same time and I broke it off with the WL because I wanted to get serious with the ML, so I ended up losing both, although I still am friends and still meet up with the WL to this day.