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    Quote Originally Posted by krnboy View Post
    Not me, she did. For me it was simply more sex.
    Yup that’s the right attitude, you should only be there for the sex. If there’s feeling involved you need to sort it out or just abandon the ship

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    Quote Originally Posted by krnboy View Post
    Not me, she did. For me it was simply more sex.
    Don't think it was "just more sex" for you when you were thinking about her "being smashed by other dudes". Those were your own words, mate.

    Face it, you couldn't desensitize yourself from the relationship, it wasn't a real FWB thing you had. So why lead other punters to think that you actually did?

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    I feel you bro. My ex senior coworker once told me that don’t try to change a girl’s mind. If you can’t convince her to sort it out in a convo, it is best to move on. I’m glad you figured it out and do the right thing for yourself and your mental health.

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    Im just waiting for the poofter to come back on line saying he’s falling in love with papasan at a brothel and needs our advice

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    FFS give this a rest
    Very tedious

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mark Cassin View Post
    can you share the name of the marketing graduate at 647, important to me
    Who said anything about 647? I can walk to half a dozen shops from Redfern Station?

    Have you got a special thing going with one of the 647 ladies? Why else would it be important to you what she’s doing for me? I wouldn’t want to provide information to get any lady into strife with her bloke. Especially in return for the free fucks she’s gifting me. That’d be a shit thing to do.


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    Back when I had first got into punting this did happen. Her name was Abby and she worked at Rydalmere around 2010 or so. We would go to McDonald's, get ice creams or mcflurry's (she paid every time) and snuggle up in my backseat. She taught me some basic Chinese and I learnt a lot of other things from her, as she was about 10 years or so older than I was. After three months she just disappeared, phone disconnected and Roger (if anyone remembers) told me she had gone back to HK as her visa had run out.

    During that time I would also be a customer, I'd go to Brodie St once a week or so to see her and book a couple of hours.

    Looking back on this I think she valued having some type of contact with a man that wasn't completely sexual, and she must have been really lonely being in this country, sharing a house with strangers/other WL's. Every time I picked her up from her place I'd get out of the car and she'd run into my arms.

    These are good memories, but there is that part of me that wishes she'd stayed in contact (perhaps she cut it off for my own good, who knows?) or at least said goodbye.

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    QUOTE=MilfMonger;2543371]Who said anything about 647? I can walk to half a dozen shops from Redfern Station?

    Have you got a special thing going with one of the 647 ladies? Why else would it be important to you what she’s doing for me? I wouldn’t want to provide information to get any lady into strife with her bloke. Especially in return for the free fucks she’s gifting me. That’d be a shit thing to do.


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    Quote Originally Posted by 17012430 View Post
    Back when I had first got into punting this did happen. Her name was Abby and she worked at Rydalmere around 2010 or so. We would go to McDonald's, get ice creams or mcflurry's (she paid every time) and snuggle up in my backseat. She taught me some basic Chinese and I learnt a lot of other things from her, as she was about 10 years or so older than I was. After three months she just disappeared, phone disconnected and Roger (if anyone remembers) told me she had gone back to HK as her visa had run out.

    During that time I would also be a customer, I'd go to Brodie St once a week or so to see her and book a couple of hours.

    Looking back on this I think she valued having some type of contact with a man that wasn't completely sexual, and she must have been really lonely being in this country, sharing a house with strangers/other WL's. Every time I picked her up from her place I'd get out of the car and she'd run into my arms.

    These are good memories, but there is that part of me that wishes she'd stayed in contact (perhaps she cut it off for my own good, who knows?) or at least said goodbye.
    I think you could well be right. In each and every case I’ve experienced the free sex only became a thing after i found myself making visit or extending them to just hang out a bit. One lady worked in a slow shop on the slowest days and in 24 hrs sometimes only had an hour or two of time with customers. She texted me a lot just chatting and when i noticed she seemed to texting me all night i’d ring the shop make an anonymous booking for 2 hours and go surprise her with something she liked. It was a banana paddlepops for a while. And that it’d be it. Until on one of these occasions she said stay another 2 hours and she’d pay the room. Which I didn’t allow her to do but was happy to pay myself.

    The biggest challenge I faced in these kinds of relationships is that the ladies are paranoid about anybody finding out. i’ve seen it happen that another girl in the shop starts maliciously putting it about to customers that the girl has a ‘proper boyfriend’ / ‘fiance’ . It seems that many previously regular and loyal customers go cold on ladies when think she actually has a man man she loves or is an otherwise committed relationship .


    Which in my case was never the case or what I or any of the girls wanted.

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    A ML told me she has a string of BFs. All of them were her customers.

    It looked like she was collecting them as trophies.

    She said at one time she had several BFs at the same time.

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    These ladies are human and have emotional needs like everyone else, and they want it outside of their regular business transaction.
    Companionship is a big thing, I think it’s been mention on a few threads before, these ladies don’t have family or many friends (outside of the girls they work with in the shops). A lot of the times they want someone to chat to and talk about things that aren’t related to sex.
    Just don’t have any expectations or preconceived ideas of free sex and massages 24/7 because that is not what they are going to give you (why when they get their fill plus money). Most are looking for things outside of that

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    I had been offered to be a male sexual escort once. Not because of my looks but because of my deep voice. The agency didn't specify how much I'd be paid per customer so it didn't pique my interest to try.

    When I think back to "what if" I had taken up the job I started imagining what most of the MLs and WLs we see go through each time they're at work - they need to make both our dicks and ego satisfied to ensure they get more customers from positive ARs.

    Working as a male escort, unless the customer specifically ask you to cum for her (hopefully you don't get 10 customers wanting you to cum in the same day), your job would be to satisfy her ego and make her cum. I haven't experienced being a male escort but then again I have dated and fucked women with almost impossible desires to fulfill. Kinda similar to femdom, they want you to beg for their pussies and you can't cum before they reach multiple orgasms.

    An ML/WL looking for a boyfriend may treat you like a male escort. Both my WL & ML ex treated me exactly this way. One time my WL ex made me book her for the hour, wore only panties and a oversized T-shirt, sat on the bed and didn't let me near her. She let my hopes up, making me think that if I was obedient she would finally undress and we would have sex in the final 15 minutes. When the sex never happened at all, I walked out the door and broke up with her. She begged me to get back with her and I told her that I would only go back to her if she agrees to have sex with me without paying for the hour. She didn't comply or even gave me a reply so I pissed her off with a dick pic. She blocked me on all channels soon after.

    It's a bit of a long reply but I hope you see the reason why I stopped dating MLs and WLs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shinraman View Post
    These ladies are human and have emotional needs like everyone else, and they want it outside of their regular business transaction.
    Companionship is a big thing, I think it’s been mention on a few threads before, these ladies don’t have family or many friends (outside of the girls they work with in the shops). A lot of the times they want someone to chat to and talk about things that aren’t related to sex.
    Just don’t have any expectations or preconceived ideas of free sex and massages 24/7 because that is not what they are going to give you (why when they get their fill plus money). Most are looking for things outside of that
    This.

    Have seen two girls that worked a short time as ML (under 3 months in industry) and companionship was the common overarching theme. Both lived in share accommodation and had only a small number friends in Sydney, so just needed someone they can talk to and spend time with. Yes there was sex involved, but it was only a small part of the picture.
    Of course, this kind of situation only ever works if you're both single, have common interests or common background, and if you both go into it enjoying the time together but at the same time not expecting it to last forever

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