Sugar Babies

[hendo89]

Ive had a look in the past at SA website. whole thing seemed like a scam with fake accounts messaging me. How do you find the real girls? what % of the site would you say is real?

[MrBiggens]

To early to tell for me as to how many are fake, but I can give you a bit more intel after the next week or so. Out of the ones that I have messaged, there seems to be a 50/50 split between those that are looking for something more regular, and those that are happy with once or twice a month ppm. I have been keeping to those between 24 - 40, and staying well clear of the ones with trout pouts and big fake tits. I guessing that keeps me away from a few of the fakes. I can also say that there are also a few that are quite clearly escorts, but don’t want to call themselves that lol.

[Johnnyinnurendo]

I've been on there for two weeks now, and tbh, if I was single and had the time on my hands, I'd be balls deep in it by now... have met and had some fun with two HYTs already, one who didn't ask for anything in return - she was just super horny. Got another meet planned today with a self-described sub... should be fun...

[DrBean]

Gents I would still encourage you to read the thread of Sugar babes. Just skip the posts where few guys are having a go at each other. It’s a good start. I would encourage to read online as much as possible. I would also commit the cardinal sim here and suggest have a look at the site The Naked Truth at some stage. They don’t give you access straight away but there is option to buy their book about sugaring and get access to their reviews. They have more than 3000 reviews. I have no affiliation to the site but am only a member and have benefited from the info.

I have been on the Seeking site for nearly 7 months now. Although it’s more expensive than punting but you can have more fun without the time pressures. There are lot of scammers as well as quite a few escorts on the site also. But the normal girls are lot of fun. You may be looking at $400-$800 at average for a 5-9 girl i.e average to a hot girl spending 2-5 hours with you. You can add the cost of a hotel, drinks and dinner depending on where you meet the girl. Majority of the girls are happy to meet on “PPM” and you will hear it regularly (paid per meet). Some girls may be happy to spend the night with you also. It all depends how you connect. As for as the scammers are don’t send money upfront to anyone. Some may ask you to sign or click links on their messages. Avoid those.

The seeking site very regularly offers discounts of 20-33% regularly. So look out for those. As this is like a dating site you will have to bring out your A game. It helps to be nice, dress well and be presentable. Majority of the SD are between 40-60 year old in my opinion. If you decide to join when you are taking to SB don’t discuss financial or sex on the app. Move to another platform like kik, whatsapp, telegram or sms.

Most importantly treat the girls right, make a connection and enjoy. When you get to 50 posts on this site you will be able to send private messages and I am happy to share some profiles of girls I have met.

Agree with you John. I just treat it like a normal dating site, treat the women as I would anyone else and those who respond to that generally works out. Anyone who tries to hustle me I just move on from. I'm a little older too and so I look at the 25-33 age group mostly. They seem a bit more stable than the younger ones.

I also joined TNT earlier this year and can't fault it for the number of reviews and the culture when it comes to SBs. I have learned a lot from there including how to avoid scammers and how to pitch my ppm.

[Johnnyinnurendo]

What's TNT @DrBean?

[MrBiggens]

https://thenakedtruth.reviews/

[Johnnyinnurendo]

Cheers for that!

[DrBean]

This is the Sugarbabe bit

https://thenakedtruth.reviews/forums...rbabes.687672/

[tripitaka19]

Is there much brisbane content on TNT and their sugarbabes forums? TNT seems to be mostly focused on Melbourne.

[DrBean]

It’s definitely more Melbourne and Sydney based. But there is some Brisbane and GC content - a lot of that from interstate travel. I suppose that the more people contribute the more there is to share. I did a rough search and there are about 100 Brisbane / Gold Coast links/leads and scammer warnings in the past 12 months. Obviously thousands for Melbourne and Sydney.

I don’t really follow other guys leads myself. I prefer to find new SBs. So the benefit for me is in understanding how others are doing things / managing situations I’m dealing with - eg scams that guys are coming across, finding short stay hotels, negotiating ppm, etc I find sugaring is replicable across different markets and the learnings are helpful.

[bradpitt]

I am a regular on seeking and will be renewing my subscription later this month when I'm back in Brisbane.

Things I suggest as someone with a life partner at home

signup with a free email address and your burner number
use a dedicated new number
be ready to act as these girls are keen.
don't be a dickhead.

things I've done with seeking girls, took two on two different overseas business trips (flight only was the additional cost for me), met some stunning girls with piercings in unusual places.

One rule I encourage people to understand is it's an arrangement. it starts and ends. if you cannot handling ending or you get feelings for girls, then this is not a site for you.

[newbiejones]

Seeking has banned me a few times. Whats the point of a burner phone and email when you need to provide your ID etc to verify on seeking.

Secretbenefits seemed a bit easier.

[Johnnyinnurendo]

You don't need to provide ID... you can just send them a photo posing in a certain way and they verify...

[Falcon2005]

Secretbenefits seemed a bit easier.

maybe easier to set up profile, but lots of fake profiles that are set up for click bait in my opinion. Many do not even bother to reply, many on the younger ones seem to think being a sugar baby is providing online services - pics /videos etc. Haven't they heard of Pornhub etc.

[funinqld]

Thats it or they have platonic on their profile.....no way

[bradpitt]

Seeking has banned me a few times. Whats the point of a burner phone and email when you need to provide your ID etc to verify on seeking.
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Burner phone is for the SB contacts to use when contacting you. Like all sites, there are people that you contact that you want to be able to just cut off.

[newbiejones]

Yea called the block button for me.
Seeking has the same scams/fakes/no replies.

I have actually got access to view seeking and a lot of the same people on both. Seeking even has a platonic tag and removed friends with benefit tag a while back I believe.

Both good and bad I guess

[bradpitt]

Seeking has the same scams/fakes/no replies.

Cuts both ways for the girls also with the guys hitting on them, fakes, scamers etc. Its an Internet thing unless you want full ID Bank checks on signup.

But cut through that initial layer of BS and there are a lot of good gems to be found. Are they escort performance? ie in a fixed place at a fixed time, no. Are they normal girls that will trade sex for money, yes. Are they likely to over deliver when they are getting $400 for the afternoon instead of doing the washing. Yes.

[MrBiggens]

I concur with BradPitt, just keep searching and you will find a gem or too who will over deliver and you will under pay, compared to a private escort.

[Sydboy65]

Saw you guys were talking about this as well so posting what I also put in the Sydney forum. Johnisfun and the Dr also mentioned the resource:

This is pretty cool when you are searching through their database of over 5,000 Sugarbabe reports

https://thenakedtruth.reviews/thread...-2023.9927186/

Found one girl I was talking to a year ago and forgot about - another member had negotiated better pricing which I’ll hopefully be able to use and get the same deal! Win win.