I hate this addiction

[Potluck2.0]

And love it at the same time. I can’t go for more than a week without punting, the best I could do was 2 weeks. The lockdowns in 2020 and 2021 were hell for me. My mind goes foggy if I can’t punt, I get irritable and grumpy.

Then I have my fix and everything is in high definition again. It’s exactly what I imagine a heroin addict goes through. There’s no emotional high anymore, I’ve had too much sex with too many women. It’s just the warmth and relaxation which will last a bit and then the cycle repeats itself. I have all my regulars which I space out and rotate through like clockwork. I punt to not feel the pain of not punting…is everyone here like this?

[andrewv]

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Quote from their website: "Paying for sex promotes in sex addicts powerful neurotransmitter releases in their meso limbic brain circuitry associated with basic emotions such as pleasure, sex, moods, reward, motivation, and dominance, and is believed to form a biological basis for sexual addiction. Paid sex addiction is not gender specific, although it presents as a predominant male issue. Women too are reported to use the services of escorts and sex workers, and some sex workers may be sexual addicts themselves."

[rooter]

I love it.
I have never had a negative feeling before, during or after punting.
It's awesome.

[JohnJones]

You'd probably benefit from sperm retention exercise if you're a sex addict. Some say it's also good for people with premature ejaculation problems.

You start off by edging. You can edge yourself as many times you want but you should try not to cum at all. There's also techniques to squeeze your urethra from your perineum to stop the jizz from flowing out.

If you have a female partner you can also practice edging while fucking. You need to be real slow, practicing deep breaths and if you feel like cumming just pull out and squeeze your urethra. This part is basically Tantric sex, you may not be able to practice this sort of thing with a WL unless she's got Tantra practice which I don't really trust. And Tantric sex is best practiced bareback.

I didn't have sex addiction although I was tempted to withdraw a whole bunch of cash just so that I could punt every day for several weeks. If I'm having too much libido (which can happen during warmer seasons) I normally book my regular for 2 hours just so that she can milk me out until nothing is left. That edging thing was what I practiced during my young bachelor days to help ease the urge and to prolong sex. Women during my younger days didn't like condoms and I remember lasting only 2-3 minutes every time I get laid bareback.

[MilfMonger]

Now for the past 10 years I rarely cum myself. I'm motivated to save my loads for the ladies I see and give them the most intense fucking I can deliver in the 1 hour.

I punt every 14 days on average.

I've .

It is a glorious lifestyle.

Did I read somewhere else you never stay longer than 1 hour per punt now?

So just one intense hour every 14 days? And usually not come?

Are you really disciplined and in control like that in the rest of life?

It makes me want to address you as “师父”..

[Sibon]

Punting can't solve whatever problem we may have.

I for one have to learn to live through life mostly living alone.

There are great books to read, great music to listen to, great movies to watch etc.

Let not be punting be the one thing that be all and end all.

I'm no Sifu. I'm just like everyone here fighting the same devil.

Sometimes I win and sometimes the devil wins. Hopefully I will win more often with a strong will and determination.

[ReginaldBubbles]

There are great books to read, great music to listen to, great movies to watch etc.

Any recommendations? I'm enjoying Beef atm

[GoldfishMan]

Any recommendations? I'm enjoying Beef atm

If you have Disney+, try Only Murders in the Building. Funny as hell and great chemistry amongst the cast members.

[Pysterio1]

If you have Disney+, try Only Murders in the Building. Funny as hell and great chemistry amongst the cast members.

I struggle with this . I do think I am addicted
The only thing I can do is to try to get my endorphin fix hanging out with friends or distract myself with finding another addiction that doesn’t drain my wallet so much

But when I’m alone all I think about is punting

[keebab]

If you can't lay off something for more than 30 days then its likely tipped you into addiction territory. Give yourself an enforced break. Reset your dopamine levels. Come back to punting later.

[BobGeorge]

My advice is to move state. Far too many great punting options in all of Sydney

[Soccerfan]

I understand OP completely. I’ve met as nice lady in Sydney who cares for me greatly and is attractive and slim (not the body of a 20 something Korean girl, but hey).
Yet here I am. I hope I don’t fuck this up. The money I spend is another issue all together.

[Axeman123]

For as long as you want to do it you will. I've tried to stop many times,but can't because I don't want to bad enough.

[1inchguy]

Yup in the past it started out one punt every few months.
Eventually it became one punt a month.
Not sure what happened but then two punts a month. Eventually a punt a week. Sometimes twice a week if I feel up to it.
Maybe it's cause of opportunity, it's on the way home or maybe it's near by after shopping. I do find myself okay I'm at this location what's decent nearby?

[Massagecreep]

Spend more time reading about it on this website. Just fuels the appetite, I guess!

[Markus24777]

I'm right where you are mate and glad you brought this up I actually wanted to start a thread about this as I have been struggling but I swear I saw a previous thread about this and didn't want to repeat. I've sought to have a partner for so long but being the nerd I am haven't really been successful with that so punting is all the physical attention I've ever had and till today I regret losing my virginity this way as it felt so cheap and I personally value it more than that.

After getting fed up with pursuing a partner from mid last year I just thought fuck it and have literally been punting weekly since I would say I've spent somewhere in the thousands and for me because it's so momentary it seems like a huge waste of money that I could have spent better in many ways.

I know that help out there exists like counselling or even group therapy I remember a love and sex addiction group similar to AA but that was way too intense for me but if need help then get help and has been advised by others enforce a break if you can. Maybe even get someone to help keep you accountable

[Axeman123]

Spend more time reading about it on this website. Just fuels the appetite, I guess!

Yeah!! Those pics of Japanese Ladies in their floral panties.

[rooter]

I don't understand what you guys are stressing about.
It's not the punting that's the problem, I think we are all agreed punting is awesome.
The problem is you guys are stressing over it.
So simple solution is don't stress over it. Just enjoy it. No guilt. No shame.
Have a punt, have a drink, have a feed. Don't worry, be happy

[dudelove]

And love it at the same time. I can’t go for more than a week without punting, the best I could do was 2 weeks. The lockdowns in 2020 and 2021 were hell for me. My mind goes foggy if I can’t punt, I get irritable and grumpy.

Then I have my fix and everything is in high definition again. It’s exactly what I imagine a heroin addict goes through. There’s no emotional high anymore, I’ve had too much sex with too many women. It’s just the warmth and relaxation which will last a bit and then the cycle repeats itself. I have all my regulars which I space out and rotate through like clockwork. I punt to not feel the pain of not punting…is everyone here like this?

I know exactly how you feel, back in my early 20's i use to punt everytime me and the mrs had a fight.
We broke up , but now i been with my wife for over 12 years and i still punt weekly. While with my wife 2 to 3 times a week.

I don't know why but i am so addicted to it, sometimes I'm driving home and instead of going home i drive to a brothel.

I dont think i will ever stop.

[asiafever]

I'm right where you are mate and glad you brought this up I actually wanted to start a thread about this as I have been struggling but I swear I saw a previous thread about this and didn't want to repeat. I've sought to have a partner for so long but being the nerd I am haven't really been successful with that so punting is all the physical attention I've ever had and till today I regret losing my virginity this way as it felt so cheap and I personally value it more than that.

After getting fed up with pursuing a partner from mid last year I just thought fuck it and have literally been punting weekly since I would say I've spent somewhere in the thousands and for me because it's so momentary it seems like a huge waste of money that I could have spent better in many ways.

I know that help out there exists like counselling or even group therapy I remember a love and sex addiction group similar to AA but that was way too intense for me but if need help then get help and has been advised by others enforce a break if you can. Maybe even get someone to help keep you accountable

Mate, on the other thread you said you're turning 35 soon, so as an old-timer I'll ask some questions, and when I feel I have the lay of the land I'll throw some ideas, suggestions, advice and so on and you can take it or leave it.

So when you say you've wanted to have a partner, what are we talking here, you've never had a long term meaningful relationship? Or you had a break up and never got back on the horse? Where or how do you conduct the "search", dating apps, go out to bars etc? What are your social circles like?And how about you yourself, how would you describe yourself, like someone describing you to a potential girl?
And how about female friends, do you have a lot of girls you can just hang out with and talk to?
You can PM me if you like, but speaking generally, trust me, if my overweight, hairy, sad-sack, dumb as pigshit, Hodor-lookalike yokel cousin, who I love dearly, can find a girl to marry him and have 3 kids, anyfuckingbody can.

But yeah, as rooter said don't stress. Don't overthink things. We live just the once, and on your death bed I'm told it's the things you didn't do that haunt you rather than the things you did and might regret.