yea I should've changed my wording, when I say "fit" I meant people who takes good care of their physique, have a solid routine, and training multiple times a week, a guy here mentioned that he weight trains 5 days a week and plays sports on the weekend, have a good diet, if I hear someone says that then I'll probably assume the guy's reasonably fit, and probably not obese etc...
Regarding the "too fit" comment, maybe some WLs just prefer chubbier/softer types, but I think that's rare, also depends on the age/cultural background of the WL, a young/toned WL may prefer fitter guys, an older Asian MILF/GILF may think you workout "too much" if you have a 6 pack and very low bodyfat lol, there are always exceptions...