"The punter who thinks himself as good looking, attractive and handsome and tall doesn't have a mirror at home."
- Miyagi Sensei.
So many variables. Doubt if looks is one of them.
At 51 i know i can't compete with 21 year old studs, so i need to be the best peacock that i can,
and focus on my presentation and technique to make myself more desirable as a regular,
so that means exercising daily, good hygiene, wearing clean and presentable clothes, speaking too and treating the women with manner and respect,
and of course use gentle but effective erotic techniques to hyper the woman's sensors and desires so she climaxes,
when you speak to these women most of them just want to be treated with respect, and some do and some don't enjoy rough fast sex
Looks do matter, but also hygiene and appearance. Need to keep nails clean, make sure you shower and brush your teeth. Wear some decent clothes and not look like a bum.
Basically, yes, but like many of the other bros have said, manners, cleanliness etc. go a long way...I know I am definitely pretty ordinary, but I at least make the most of the factors I can control, and most girls respond pretty well.
Likewise, I find the MILF's, amongst many desirable qualities for me, is that they are realistic in their expectations and appreciate repeat business.
Myself, I'm way past my prime though I HOPE there's a ways to go on the expiration date. But being clean, respectful, and a reasonable human being goes a long way. As the Thai's say, khun jai dee, a good heart, tends to be greatly appreciated (which only goes to show there must be a lot of assholes out there).
Finally!!!
I am in my 60's but look younger (doesn't mean I am better looking.. lol) and fully agree with bro Old Snake !!
Every point he tells will make you a winner each time if you are willing to look hard at your own attitude first.
Be the Gentleman, be Respectful!
It comes down to having a good first Impression (clothes, smell, manners etc) and then a bit of sexual compatibility and banter, always smile when you meet her for the first time. You get all 3 right then you will find you have some good punts with special perks that others don't get (after seeing each other for a while and trust is built) or she enjoys your company to the point where she wants to fuck you for you being you. where as all other punters fail with the girl so it's not always about looks matter.
At the end of the day, looks are a matter of perspective for the girls. For one girl you may be okay looking and for another girl she will find you handsome, with the WL in their late 20's to early 30's, your looks take a back seat if you can make make her laugh, have some decent flirting and hold a conversation with her but also pleasure her instead of that "wham bam thank you mam" and you will have some great sessions.
Depending on why they’re here, some have family back home to take care. If you’re willing to show some interest in sponsoring then you will turn handsome to them even if you look like a pile of crap. Used to see this private for a while, later found out she have two kids back home so she’s willing to sell her body to get them over here. Some of these girls life is so complicated so no way I would even want to get involve.
I think that looks, being well groomed and charm count more than money. Money will by you the service but it cannot buy the passion. A girl gets horny only if she likes you. Money gets you a mechanical service.
Money talks.... I had one girl - she was pretty new. Blonde, uni student, easily 18-19yo. Drop dead gorgeous. I only ever book 30min with new ones, did here too (regretted later!) - then she asks for $70 for GFE extras - kissing/DATY etc. I came prepared for $150 for extras, so gave her that, saying 'you are the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen here, you're worth more than 70' - she. went. off. The best $80 I've ever spent in my life I bet. Of course she disappeared shortly after. I regret not going the full hour!
Compliments and tips gents.....
It's only human nature... If they like your appearance and you are polite and not pushy, most of the time you will get good treatment. I exercise regularly and usually got compliment from Japanese and Chinese girl, with some Thais as well, but never with Vietnam or Korean...not sure why lol. But 90% of my punt i always get good treatment (not always good punt, but its delivered)
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One time I was complaining about MY expanding waistline and she said, "That's not fat, that's prosperity".