4FoW2. As you know I am a similar age and situation. I have accepted the fact that I'm a boring wrinkley old man. You appear surprised that girls don't want to "get into it" anymore so I'm assuming you don't have a mirror. Please, I'm not trying to be nasty. Honest opinion, you are living in the past regarding services provided and prices charged. We older gents need different techniques. Said it before, clean, respectful and lotsa money.