While you’re thinking of her, think about how to express your love to her, she’s blowing another guy, getting her pussy pounded, probably sticking her tongue up another dudes arse. It’s a tough thing to mentally get over. Been there lol
As s seasoned QLD punter who is going to his first punting trip in Sydney next month, I suggest not to confess your feelings to her. If she is always on your mind, the best thing you could do is try not to visit the parlour for a while. Similar to girls we can't be with in real life, the only way to heal is through distancing.
While you’re thinking of her, think about how to express your love to her, she’s blowing another guy, getting her pussy pounded, probably sticking her tongue up another dudes arse. It’s a tough thing to mentally get over. Been there lol
Confess to her jokingly and see how she reacts hehe
She's an Angel sent from heaven a messenger if you like. Sent to you to show you that "pussy"is real........REAL fuckn' expensive!! What price U wanna' pay?
OP has not spoken out the name of his Love. Nothing to be afraid of. We don’t know who you are. But we are curious, as the mamasan is, about who you fall in love with.
If you fell in love within the confines of a punting room, you might want to see what love feels like with her outside the building....
Perhaps first get to know each other while you are getting served for a fee, as in swap your stories about who you are and who she is in the real world.
Then the next step is to see if she "likes you" (not love you) by asking if she would like to meet for lunch or dinner or a walk around the Opera House one day. If she says "no" then it's case-closed with your love. Move on. If she agrees, you then spend time together and discover the real you and real her. You can offer to pay her outside -- as in an escort fee -- so she doesn't lose her income when not working.
Statistically, most "love" feelings and shared evaporates over time, as proven by the rate of relationship breakdowns, including divorces. Love definitely dies when it is not reciprocated.
The bottom line is, what do you want to achieve with your love feelings of love towards this sex worker?????
OP better be earning around $1m+ if he wants to comfortably cover for the lost income by his WG. Id imagine a popular girl would earn anywhere between 300-500k+ a year. Maybe she’s willing to give up half that if it means not having to service 8 different guys a day.
Andrew tate,
The good news is that all the advice above is probably good advice, so you can choose which one you want to take. If you want to follow this through, then the advice to ask her out is the best next step. But, the questions around how would you feel about her sucking and fucking another 5 to 8 cocks every day she works needs to be considered. i.e Would you ask her to stop? How would you feel about the mandatory (and somewhat turbo-charged) non-exclusivity every day she works and therefore almost every week? We are talking 30 to 60 guys a week. How would you handle that, week after week? Month after month?
And how would you feel about her being recognised when you do take her out? Does that mean you can/can't take her to public places? While the chances are slim, they still exist. How would you feel if your friends and family found out about her job?
Like any new love, it is probably a rush of emotions now. But you are visiting her to get sex for money. So you are getting immediate intimacy (within 0.5 to 5 minutes of walking through the door) with her and she knows if she treats you very well (+/- extras) then you may become a regular customer. That is both nice and financially valuable for her. I am sure she enjoys seeing you, too. Or it may be an act. Who knows. You may find out.
Girls in this job tend to get addicted to the money and not the sex or the customers. They start a job where they can make more money in a day than a regular job pays in a week. Most of them put the downside of servicing .... less attractive, rough, smelly, nasty customers .... by focusing on the upside of their newfound income. This 'addiction' to the $$ becomes very strong and they may find it difficult (or impossible) to go back to regular work at least for a while. How will you feel about this in 6 months, 2 years? 5 years?
Bear in mind, if they are from overseas, most of these girls don't pay tax. So, it is extremely well paid for them. If from overseas, the Visa issue will eventually have to be addressed. That may not be a problem these days with Australia wanting to attract migrants. But, ..... a partner Visa costs $8K to $9K. Who pays for that?
If it is your first time to 'fall in love' with a WL, then ask her out and see what her answer is. But be aware of all the advice from Forum members above. This is not an easy road to navigate for either party. Although, emotionally, it will be more difficult for you than for her. She can always go back to fucking 5 to 8 guys a day and earning big bucks.
Good luck with it. If you ask her out, you will see if she feels the same about you.
The ladies have also learnt that they don't need a man in their life to get by.
This is a tale as old as time.
Everyones giving good advice here.
As @whoremanger &@abovetherim, pointed out, if u take her out the job for exclusivity. Be prepared to support & provide for her + maintain her standard of living for what she was earning. And this is a girl who has had thousands of cocks.
Like I said before, this has happened to many older Farangs/white guys in Thailand who got into a "relationship" with a Thai WL/ML
And he is sending her money every month so she doesnt have to "work bar". But always ends in a disaster when he finds out she isn't exactly faithful & continues to see customers for extra money. Some may even have a BF/husband u dont know about. And ends up buying her a house, cars etc. Even sponsoring for a Visa.
Axeman, you make a good point, Suddenly, these girls get catapulted into a financial stratosphere which includes nice clothes, shoes, handbags, luxury hotels, travel, etc. Some even have share portfolios and I met one who was trading currency futures. One girl at 42G was quite public about her wins and losses on the share market and shared that info with the customers she held close.
Another girl I met at Ginza prior to Covid has her own apartment in Osaka and a 300Z. (ok, ok, she also has her own pet snake). All her family and friends know about her job, which they know includes travel overseas to fuck foreign guys.
She's not going to give up this lifestyle .... But she is happy to be taken out for dinner or even travel, if punter san pays for it....
(No I didn't fall in love with her - but she was very chatty and answered all my questions). After years in the business, she wasn't a very nice person. But, great service .... from the first 30 seconds in the room right to the end. Great DFK and ...... everything else. I am sure most of the Ginza regulars fucked her. Good for her. She has probably upgraded her car by now..... LOL.
And then there is a beautiful girl who worked for 5-6 years in a less salubrious shop, got ripped off by the Manager and now lives in a housing commission home as a single mother with a baby and no partner. She didn't invest well, unfortunately.
There is a vast range of stories in this industry.
Stay safe and treat everyone with kindness.
Haha, too funny, Axeman. Maybe the fellow accounting students were not her type? She certainly got a lot of cock once she started in this industry, though.
So, will we ever find out which girl is 'treating Andrew tate nicely'? Errr, I think that is what she does for a living. But, there might be a special connection - so he should go for it and see where it takes him. Strap yourself in!
Definitely do not confess your feelings. Unless she really does feel the same way, people are generally self-interested and she will use it against you
+1 to the J girl at no 5 who can easily make even Mr Tate fell in love. Pretty sure its the same girl, she is indeed very very girlfriend material. I met her once and i couldnt resist myself to ubereat a treat for her.. and ive been punting for 15 years too scared for return visit tho.. i know i wont be able to resist.
Yea DM me too I want to know