Originally Posted by
paranoidpunter
The most times I've seen someone is 4 times. The service was great and kept me thinking about her. All day and night. I was sleepless as I was excited about the sex, and it was depressing knowing it was only temporary. It feels a bit awkward to do the same thing with the same girl, so I try to do different things, but by the 4th time I ran out of ideas. I was still infatuated by her but the sex did seem a bit boring and samey. I decided to stop seeing her for my own mental health.
I also realised I actually liked variety. Doing the same routine with the same girl was boring and known, but doing the same routine with a different girl was different. It's like the magic is gone.
But sometimes I still get infatuated, maybe 15% of the time. And it makes me do stupid things, has a net negative effect on me. These are life lessons.
So I haven't had a regular per se. So far my experiences have discouraged me from doing it. Maybe I'd get sick of the uncertainty of trying someone new and try seeing someone regularly.