I head to the gym quiet frequently and play sport. And I agree, it feels good when a ML complements your body
I am in my 40s, not very fit, and have an average body to be clear. But about a year ago I started hitting the gym just for general heart health. A lot of cardio and some weights, but again, I have a "dad bod" and the closest I've been to a 6 pack is at the bottle shop.
But at my last ML visit, she was massaging my back and said "You go to the gym. Nice." I said, "You can tell?". She said of course she can tell!
Now I've been complimented by MLs for (that's part of what we pay for, right?), but never in this specific way. And my wife certainly hasn't made any mention of any changes to my physique since I started at the gym.
So boys, go to the gym for your self esteem boost when an ML notices!
I head to the gym quiet frequently and play sport. And I agree, it feels good when a ML complements your body
And that's why we visit the girls, they stoke our egos.
I take the piss out of myself as much as possible, but I'm very aware not many guys in their late 40s, in fact not many guys in general, are in good shape, let alone in as good shape as I am. Arrogant? Maybe, but just being honest also, and the girls do comment on that. If I had a dollar for every time a girl had commented on how most guys that visit the shops are, quote unquote, "fat" as she ran her hand over my shoulder or back, yeah I'd have made a lot of money in a very strange way.
Wives see you every day, and familiarity breeds contempt in some cases. When was the last time your wife complimented you on anything? (And you her? But that's another conversation).
Gym is great for so many things, yeah self esteem, health, anti-ageing etc, and yes the girls can easily tell when not presented with abody that's like 120kg of chewed bubblegum...
Ya! wife are not much of a compliment only when they were your GF before you married them. WL/ML is their job to up your ego so you come back and give a bigger tips like you have a big dick and strong one or you can last long time.
Simply might have been because she could feel tight muscles and nothing to do with looking more muscular.
I get asked if I go to gym all the time but don'tdo any exercise. Their next question is do you use a computer.
I've been lifting since the start of this year and my ML said I have nice strong arms. She then started playfully rubbing my bi's and tri's. Feels good knowing your hard work gets acknowledged.
Public gyms are for gays who want to attract another man. Why would anyone think the only one woman in the gym will suddenly wet her yoga pants and pass on your number?
The worse thing about gyms these days are the YTbers, TikTokers and IGers who bring their camera & tripods to the gym, being a nuisance filming themselves up as if they're celebrities.
You want a gym? Go join a Greco-roman wrestling gym and get smashed. And enjoy being teabagged while holding out a leg choke.
I'm sure the MLs care about the Pineapples than your muscles.
I must be going to the wrong fucken place....all the gyms I go to have have a massage table and a mirror on the wall.
Invest in your health looking good fit & healthy makes a big difference
Been going to the gym and doing sport for best part of 30 years as I enjoy it anyway and feel better, think better and fuck better (last longer too) when I'm physically fit.
It has worked to my benefit many times on punts over the years, as I have been complemented on "having a sexy body" and received some "benefits" as a result ("only for you" - yeah, sure darling ).
But gym works for me .... I always enjoy my punts more when it is after a good exercise session.