Going out with ml/wl

[Footballpunter]

speaking of which, I saw a big bunch of flowers delivered to SBM the other day. was wondering if it was one of the punters here was dating a ML. lol

yikes, is it me or is sending flowers to a shop kinda cringy? I wouldn't mind sending flowers to a girl's office, but the shop, I'm not sure about that one.

[ditchtheboss]

yikes, is it me or is sending flowers to a shop kinda cringy? I wouldn't mind sending flowers to a girl's office, but the shop, I'm not sure about that one.

No it is not you. Sending flowers to the shop is 1000% cringe

[ditchtheboss]

I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic, always have been since I was a teen.... I'm probably in the wrong 'hobby'!

Watch yourself. They don’t love you and not every Asian WL will fall for you. You are not a god, from their perspective you are just a bastard paying for sex.

[Footballpunter]

Don't be a knight in shining armour

quite frankly, some of them don't even need a knight in shining armor

[Axeman123]

quite frankly, some of them don't even need a knight in shining armor

That's because there's plenty of everything to ride 'em like a horse.

[TheOtherI]

quite frankly, some of them don't even need a knight in shining armor

More often than not, that knight in shining armour turns out to just be a retard in tin foil. Haha

[Nelly69]

No it is not you. Sending flowers to the shop is 1000% cringe

Yeah I didn't find out which ML or mamasan the flowers were addressed to but yeah a big cringe.

[Footballpunter]

More often than not, that knight in shining armour turns out to just be a retard in tin foil. Haha

Haha you got that right, retard indeed

[Footballpunter]

Watch yourself. They don’t love you and not every Asian WL will fall for you. You are not a god, from their perspective you are just a bastard paying for sex.

True, once a wl told me that once you paid for sex, they will always just see you as a punter

[gedinsyd]

yikes, is it me or is sending flowers to a shop kinda cringy? I wouldn't mind sending flowers to a girl's office, but the shop, I'm not sure about that one.

Totally agree that this is hugely cringe...

[gedinsyd]

These girls are working to provide a paid service. They're not doing it just for the fun of it even though there may be a few that might go out with customers for some benefit. Sending flowers to a shop will attract laughter and probably no respect from the shop owners or staff.

It is true that once you pay to be with a girl, she will always see you as a customer even if you do her many favours. More importantly, she won't care about you. It's more likely she will look down on you as a loser who couldn't get laid with a normal girl and had to pay to see her. As one ML said to me about customers, "I don't give a fuck about customers. I will never see them outside the shop and if I run into someone in the street, I will ignore him". That basically sums up what many girls think about customers.

Don't take flowers or chocolates to a girl in a shop. Go meet a real girl if you really want a proper relationship without the headaches and worries when dating these working girls who see many customers. They will only bring you closer to being a wreck. Best to follow wise words of Brother Rooter when punting. You pay your money to be with a hot girl. Have your fun, leave everything there and walk out as a new man knowing you did the deed with a hot girl.

So true...well said

[MrSmashOrPass]

I've made friends with girls who quit working as WL/ML and those who are still in the industry, for those who still work as WL/ML I put boundaries in place where I don't involve money with each other, don't see them at their work & no sex. They tell me stories on how their work is at the shop and I share my shop adventure stories.

For girls who quit the industry then we don't discuss to our mutual friends how we met, some of the girls find a guy for a Visa or have a genuine relationship they don't want an ex customer causing drama for them.

[the_champ]

yikes, is it me or is sending flowers to a shop kinda cringy? I wouldn't mind sending flowers to a girl's office, but the shop, I'm not sure about that one.

You can't get much cringier...

[bung72]

It’s weird… we meet in these bizarre intimate situations, but both sides probably look down on the other? It’s all very hypocritical…

[AJJ]

Fuck im enjoying this thread! It's definitely putting everything into perspective for me, especially if I am starting to get a little too close to these girls. I have had a couple of relationships with ML and it has never gone well for me. Actually it's nearly done my head in haha!!
I just follow the golden 3 F rules now and enjoy a much better life.
Find them
Fuck them
Forget them!!!!

[BDU]

Fuck im enjoying this thread! It's definitely putting everything into perspective for me, especially if I am starting to get a little too close to these girls. I have had a couple of relationships with ML and it has never gone well for me. Actually it's nearly done my head in haha!!
I just follow the golden 3 F rules now and enjoy a much better life.
Find them
Fuck them
Forget them!!!!

Then every now and then one comes along that you cannot forget

[bung72]

You wouldn’t be human if you didn’t get a bit too attached at times lads….

[ditchtheboss]

You wouldn’t be human if you didn’t get a bit too attached at times lads….

Some of us have been super humans at times. I am more than happy I am no longer one

[asiafever]

Then every now and then one comes along that you cannot forget

(Turn around)
Every now and then
I get a little bit lonely
And you're never coming 'round

(Turn around)
Every now and then
I get a little bit tired
Of listening to the sound of my tears

(Turn around)
Every now and then
I get a little bit nervous
That the best of all the years have gone by

(Turn around)
Every now and then
I get a little bit terrified
And then I see the look in your eyes

(Turn around, bright eyes)
Every now and then I fall apaaaaart
(Turn around, bright eyes)
Every now and then
I fall apaaaaaaaart

And I need you now tonight
And I need you more than ever
And if you only hold me tight
We'll be holding on forever
And we'll only be making it right
'Cause we'll never be wrong

Together we can take it to the end of the line
Your love is like a shadow on me all of the time

I don't know what to do and I'm always in the dark
We're living in a powder keg and giving off sparks

I really need you tonight
Forever's gonna start tonight
Forever's gonna start tonight

Once upon a time I was falling in love
But now I'm only falling apart
There's nothing I can do
A total eclipse of the heeewAAAAAAart

Once upon a time there was light in my life
But now there's only love in the dark
Nothing I can say
A total eclipse of the heeeeeeeaaaaaaart

Sorry, little karaoke interlude. That song instantly came to.mind when I read "every now and then"...


Yeah I know what you mean but you've always got to keep your feet planted in reality.

You ever see Top Gun?
You know the scene, after Goose dies, they've conducted the investigation, Maverick is cleared, he's in the bathroom and Viper comes in and tells him about his squadron in Vietnam and how they lost so many men etc, and at the end he says "There'll be others, you can count on it. You've got to let him go."

Same deal. There'll be others, you've got to let them go.

[BDU]

All true peeps and I can relate with past eperiences.
It is a cliche for sure but my current relationship (ex ML) is working out just fine even if it is hard work some times.