I cut punting right back
It's the higher costs of punting, and rent increases in the south making life difficult. Once the recession is over in a few years, then things will improve
Yea I know what you mean about the connection part. They are there to work and with work it always comes with slacking. It's human natural. The girls out there aren't really making building a connection as a priority of their job. I usually barely make any connections with the WLs. While some are easier to talk to and some are smart and funny, but most just want to get you out. The only one I really felt a connection with, well, we all know where that led me, so I'm not setting a good example lol. I would say 98% of them would really just want you to get in and get out. I'm sure you know that too given that you've been punting a lot longer than I have. So I guess don't give up, keep punting until you find your next regular.
I cut punting right back
It's the higher costs of punting, and rent increases in the south making life difficult. Once the recession is over in a few years, then things will improve
Ugly women and poor value would cause me to give up. Sydney gets close sometimes. I tend to take a break or try a new burb
The good thing with me is that I'm not really an "emotional" punter, I think I'm lucky in that regard, the emotional connection so many talk about I don't really care much for that, in fact it's quite the opposite for me lol (more physical and tactile), although I do appreciate a good "chemistry" with the WL/ML, that's the right word for me, but if it's not there then so be it, a pussy is a pussy for me haha, as long as I find her somewhat attractive and she doesn't turn me off.
Also I think "give up" is probably not the right word to use, maybe "taking a break" is the more appropriate word to use in this market/economy for me, IF it ever comes down to that lol...
If I get a GF that gives me sex everyday after work, and she does CIM and Rimming. I’ll quit 100%.
… but I probably have a better chance at winning the lottery..
A new missus....
Other than losing my penis, then absolutely fuck all…
Don’t get me wrong, I’ll be in a relationship but I’d still fuck around. If I felt like I had a bad conscious about it then I’d bring it up with the Mrs, tell her what I’m doing and it’s only sex. I’m not falling in love with a WL. If the Mrs was uncomfortable with that then I’d end it there and then and revert back to just being friends because I wouldn’t want to hurt her feelings
I see that being in love and fucking someone are 2 different things. One is an emotional and deep connection, the other is a once off desire
I’m on a long “pause” because of fucken interest rate rises. Just don’t have the coin for it anymore
That sucks man. I’m still trying but finding it difficult to even get a booking. I only punt late nights and the lower end shops I target attract lots of punters in this economy. Plus the women there are very average at best so even when they’re available, I shudder to part with $170 for the hour.
I have tried a lot of different things to stop and nothing has worked. Going out with friends, new hobbies, seeing family more, dating (some worked, some failed) etc. All it takes to see a hot Chinese or Japanese chick walk past and within a hour, I'll be at a shop.
When I was going on my usual walk around the city, I saw a group of Japanese girls and my goodness, they looked beautiful. First thing that popped into my mind was how long until they start working at Ginza or shops around Sydney. Went back home, messaged 42 and made a booking all because I saw a group of fit Japanese girls !
I think if my dick suddenly fell off I would consider quitting punting.
But then again I probably wouldn't.
I would still see the girls and give them a good licking.
I would have to get my dick chopped off
Tried to stop & within 4 months I was back into it 🤣