How many of you guys message them?
How many girls do you message daily?
What is the ratio of your txts to theirs?
What messaging app do you use?
What are their response times?
Is there a language barrier?
Do you swap pics?
Wish I had one particular person share their contact details before they disappeared.
Years ago before I met my current crush, one young WL asked me for my WeChat on the first meet. We dated twice outside of her work, and met mostly at her work. Unfortunately we broke up and she left for home. She was young (10 years younger than me) and greedy.
Greed is ok as long as you are getting what you want.
Unfortunately she was squandering money from me as well. She made me book her for the hour, dressed in her lingerie but made me sit on the edge of the bed the whole hour while she played her drama. A bit of a crazy situation, so yes, I left because she didn't reciprocate anything. Would've worked out if she had reciprocated with something, which is why many of my past relationships or early dates didn't work out.
You need to give something in order to get something back. Even a Mahasiddha can't help someone who doesn't reciprocate.
The definition of greed for me is when people take all they can from you and give you nothing. Greed is the cause of suffering for many people.Originally Posted by Vincent888
If a wife takes control of all the finances including the husband's salary but gives him a warm home to come back to, that is reciprocating. A warm home with food, deep conversations and intimacy.
I only message to make a booking
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You don’t chat them up?
Why would a wife take control of all the finances?
That is total bullshit in my books. The man controls. If he makes it he controls it.
Nah, I keep it purely business. Pay, fuck, leave...no strings attaches...
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She does that so the guy can't go out and fuck around
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I don't think anyone in a de facto relationship should "control the finances". If a wife isn't working but is staying home looking after the kids, shopping, cleaning and cooking then isn't she helping the husband make that money?
Also do you ever read what you just wrote?
The cleanest is to go Dutch. But i have never been married and haven't dated for the better half of a decade so I wouldn't know what the norms are these days...I don't think anyone in a de facto relationship should "control the finances". If a wife isn't working but is staying home looking after the kids, shopping, cleaning and cooking then isn't she helping the husband make that money?
Also do you ever read what you just wrote?
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Exactly, that guy needs reprogramming.
Why are there CEOs, then a CFO in a company?
A good wife is a good accountant. She knows how much goes into building a family. Only bad wives squander money, like a bad accountant stealing money from a business.
In the old steppe cultures, the woman is equal to her husband because she warms the home. The husband's job is to go out into the grasslands for days to hunt for meat. If he goes home with nothing the wife has all the rights to make him sleep outside in the brutal steppe winters.
If you really believe that the man controls all the finances that he makes then it's probably the best thing to stay single. Marriage is a contract of intimacy and reliance upon each other. You took a Christian quote on another thread, I'd expect someone like you to be like Christ - always dependable to those who rely on Him.
I reread everything and delete half. No doubt the guy pays his wife too. She’s getting her money. Isn’t that enough?I don't think anyone in a de facto relationship should "control the finances". If a wife isn't working but is staying home looking after the kids, shopping, cleaning and cooking then isn't she helping the husband make that money?
Also do you ever read what you just wrote?
So the girl didn't even fuck? If thats the case and she took your cash...then yes, that is pure greed...
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To answer your question - yes, she didn't even fuck. She just pretended to be angry and dramatic the whole hour. Threatened to call her bouncer if I came too close.
To point out something amiss - you've quoted the wrong post lol but forgivable
Ok, yes, that is pure greed then
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I’m full of quotes.
The CFO is there to keep others happy. That is all. A pretence. Who cares what marriage is about? Only those that sign up for it.
Single guys only need a mistress and a housekeeper… like Arnold’s.
“A fool and their money are soon parted”, so sayeth a punter.
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