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Thread: As regulars, do you let the WL/ML know if you won't be able to visit them anymore?

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    Quote Originally Posted by frisson View Post
    Every day on here, someone kids themselves they are a woman's only punter
    Do they? I thought they’d fool themselves into believing they were the “only punter” that meant something to a WL?

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    Quote Originally Posted by frisson View Post
    Every day on here, someone kids themselves they are a woman's only punter
    what about punters that feel up a pussy thinking he made it wet...yet its just lube from the previous punt...

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    Quote Originally Posted by jedibear View Post
    what about punters that feel up a pussy thinking he made it wet...yet its just lube from the previous punt...

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    There’s a brand of lube called “foreplay”. It’s very popular amongst some punters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jedibear View Post
    what about punters that feel up a pussy thinking he made it wet...yet its just lube from the previous punt...

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    Indeed, that's why I don't even bother these days...as soon as they see my cock they will lube up, some of them will squeeze a whole pump in their vagina.

    And to answer the OP's question, no I wouldn't tell a regular that I'll stop visiting them, why bother? I'll just disappear quietly into the shadows and let someone else take my place, I hope you didn't expect to get an reaction from them, we don't really mean much to them besides incoming cash...

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    Quote Originally Posted by l337dude View Post
    And to answer the OP's question, no I wouldn't tell a regular that I'll stop visiting them, why bother? I'll just disappear quietly into the shadows and let someone else take my place, I hope you didn't expect to get an reaction from them, we don't really mean much to them besides incoming cash...
    The more this gets propagated, the more likely this will become true. Be careful with your words no matter who you are, it will come back to haunt you.

    If you want to encourage good clients to stay you have to treat them with respect. And if you want to have something more than client-escort relationship and make it official, don't make the testing phase too intense. Not everyone is as patient as a high Lama, many are struck by past childhood traumas that they will walk away as soon as they're treated like how they got treated by their parents in the past.

    Nobody likes a game that is super difficult to play and costs both arm and both legs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vincent888 View Post
    Do they? I thought they’d fool themselves into believing they were the “only punter” that meant something to a WL?
    Those who wish they were the "special punter" to their regulars are those who probably saw something inside that person and wanted to show her how special she is to him.

    If they were only interested in sex they wouldn't even bother having a regular - just rotate girls every now and then. I think the problem is that many girls just don't appreciate their regular customers and think that they can manipulate the hell out of them.

    I know what my choices are, but I reckon not many guys can follow my example, nor many girls in the industry can follow my advice on how to treat a man properly if they want to quit the industry and start settling down.

    Like in one of my life story told recently, I dodged a bullet coming from a Thai girl who was after me for 10 years. I could've "saved" her from getting pregnant and living a life of hell but she took me for granted. She got what she signed herself up for - the karma for taking someone for granted.

    Lesson to learn here is to not take anything or anyone for granted. Do not listen to friend's advice on over-testing your potential partner, grab him/her immediately as the opportunity will never come around twice.

    With my crush, she's different. 3 years and the opportunity came around twice, I didn't hesitate on my second chance with her. I just hope she also feels the same.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bleekpit View Post
    i'm not really someone that has any regulars, but curious if you guys just stop visiting out of the blue or if you actually let the girls know whatever the reason may be. I imagine some girls may wonder or even get upset especially ones that have been very long term.

    I know that when i leave a city, i usually tell people i built rapport with that i am leaving. how does the punting world work? do the girls even care? do the punters?
    Nope. While I like to have a regular as a backup and/or when IÂ’m lazy to punt, as soon as the service or connection is not up to previous standard, I donÂ’t see them. ThereÂ’s just no point. Do you tell your greengrocer or shopkeeper that till no longer go to their store?

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    Nothing stays the same forever.

    WL’s have seen numerous punters disappear. We only think about it from our side.

    Unless they’ve chosen to connect with you then your departure means nothing.

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    Of course I do. It’s only right to not leave them hanging.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vincent888 View Post
    Of course I do. It’s only right to not leave them hanging.
    You're begging to be noticed, to be heard, to be begged to stay even when you reach 2K posts.

    Edit out the F word in your previous post and I'll beg. I have no tolerance for vulgarities.

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    Would say it's entirely dependant on your rapport with them.

    At the end of the day though, if you feel like you should then go ahead, no harm in it. Just don't go in expecting her to care and you're set.

    Anecdotally I'd have told my only regular if I was going disappear but it just so happens I ended up seeing her on her last day in the business. We now occassionally chat and catch up, so you never know how they may view you, they're human too after all.

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    Rapport?

    How many guys have stayed with a ML or WL and lived happily ever after?

    Tell me one, anybody?

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    I did...
    When i got engaged, i told her one day i wont be seeing her after i got married...
    The last month before i got married, i increase my visit in seeing her to like 3 times per week, its almost like saying my heart wants to get married, but my brother wants to keep seeing you hahahaha...

    Im just now a frequent visitor on this site.

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    I've left FWB's without saying a word - so there's no way I can be bothered doing it with an ML or WL

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    Quote Originally Posted by charmingninjaman View Post
    I've left FWB's without saying a word - so there's no way I can be bothered doing it with an ML or WL
    Your loss. A WG I knew, when I visited her country, made contact, she showed me around, very convenient as I couldn't speak or read the language. I set the itinerary, she handled logistics. Never paid tourist prices either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bleekpit View Post
    As regulars, do you let the WL/ML know if you won't be able to visit them anymore?
    Leave softly like the quiet of the night.

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