Reply With QuoteThe Older guys are right, whether your pay for sex or get jt from you wife/GF, your still paying for it one way or another.Originally Posted by RO1312
What is the point in being married or in a relationship if your still going to punt? Punting is expensive, with a wife or girlfriend ontop of that, I don’t know how you do it!
Seriously though, I’m interested to know as I’m not in that position myself
How I see it is, I’m single, I can do what I want, when I want, WHO I want and not have repercussions or hiding it behind somebody’s back
The Older guys are right, whether your pay for sex or get jt from you wife/GF, your still paying for it one way or another.
This pretty much exactly sums up my situation too!
I suspect we all punt for the same reasons deep down. Being married/attached doesn't change your deeper desires.
We could say to you - why do you punt? If I were single I could be trawling bars and tinder for free!
Point is when your married you love your wife but for many guys the sex becomes limited, in some cases there is not any. So what if the guy has a good sexual appetite but his wife does not? Should he just give up his sex life? He loves his partner don't forget this but shes not putting out. So for any of these guys as long as their wife don't know then punting is about the only option. Then there are guys like me who are just horny all the time and need more variety of Asian gals. The sex is good with my partner but at this stage mainly on weekends, so for me I have the chance to see a regular and I do. Its expensive yes but I am financially well off, I have investments, a business and properties. So I can afford. Its harder for the guys who have to save up from pocket money for weeks to get one punt. Keeping all this from your wife is easier for some I have a straight poker face. But I think many wives know somethings going on but don't confront their partner for one reason for another.
Its a small world many guys crave the touch and sensations of other girls. Single or married. If your single and get married you will end up going back to punting if your already punting when your single.
Because its less headache and hassle for me, once I leave a shop that’s the end of it untill next visit.
Not having to tell someone where I am at all times. What I’m doing, who I’m with ect.
I’m very anti social and lack confidence, but I’m
working on that
The massage is also nice to wind down after a stressful week, the extras are just the cherry on top
I'm hearing you - I'd do the same if I were single now.... Sorry - I hope you don't think I was having a go, just turning your question around...
Maybe I should look at massages too! At the FS places most of the massaging is done by me...
You may have taken my reply in the wrong way also, we’re cool mate. Everybody’s situation is differentI'm hearing you - I'd do the same if I were single now.... Sorry - I hope you don't think I was having a go, just turning your question around...
Maybe I should look at massages too! At the FS places most of the massaging is done by me...
I’m more a massage guy, havnt been to a FS shop in a long time. Maybe I should change things up
looking for sexual variety... as is the case for 99% of males (we're hardwired like that!)
Probably for the same reason all guys like watching porn.... this is just live....
Variety, nothing beats it.
yes I need Variety of Asian ladies in my life it keeps me happy.
Exactly! Plus sex is a great emotional release. I thrive on stress and I don’t carry it per se. So it’s not a stress release as such. Just emotional content, being happiest for those few hours.
I'm always horny. Wife is too tired and kids just make it worse. Rarely any opportunities for the two of us, and when there is, I get turned away.
Because I can. I don't try to rationalize it one way or the other, I just enjoy the moment and if the last moment was sub - par there's always the next one.
Easy, don’t submerge or go down too deep.
For some it’s a one way ticket.
In 2017, when I was separated for about a year, punting never crossed my mind. Was rooting women i met on dating sites and Tinder. Its only when i got back with my wife did I start punting.
Today with an abundance of pussy available i have never understood why a single guy would be punting
2 more cents to add. What I find amusing is that guys who have never been married are marriage experts. Just like people who have never had children of their own give advice to parents on how to raise children
Did it work out, getting back with the missus?
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