Reply With QuoteKeep us updated on if its worth it. Average cost etc
I ended up on secret benefits and def a lot of bots.
I've just signed up for a new account with seeking.com and busy working my way though a set of 6 solid prospects plus bouncing around 30-40 others.
I'm interested to get a DM from other current seeking.com subscribers that we can shares notes through DM.
My target range is 25-35 SYT, Brisbane CDB within 10kms.
Keep us updated on if its worth it. Average cost etc
I ended up on secret benefits and def a lot of bots.
SYT? - Sxy young thing?
SYT - Sweet Young ThingOriginally Posted by gpeck80
So here I am three days in. I had to deactivate my profile as there were too may prospects.
Had a meet and greet with one girl today. not exactly my type so we had a polite coffee and went our separate ways.
There are a few different profiles of girls.
Full time employed girls - going to be available at night (doesn't suit me)
Full time students - say they are flexible but are juggling work, study and all these guys
Escorts posing as sugar
Lots of other variations on the above.
Of course there are some crazy valuations which I just shrug off.
I've had good experiences before. I know the right girl(s) will come.
And then there's the women that just use it as a dating site and the ones that want platonic friendship only (which are fun to convert).
yep, it took a couple of days for the quiet ones to emerge. i ignore the platonic part and just push ahead with coffee (not paid!) and decide on the vibe.
I'm conscious of not mentioning sex in the online chats. I just leave that hanging in their mind and let them be the one to raise it. so, number of males on the site, mentioned sex/money in the first few messages 99.9% then there is me.
Guys I’m trying to sign upto this but keep getting invalid email. Anyone have a solution for this at all? Email was entered correctly and even created a new free one and still same issue. Wish they had an app
Prospects ?? or too many fakes ?? That was the issue I had with Secret Benefits at least.
Genuine prospects for what I'm looking for.
Obviously easy to get PPM at sort notice with offers between $300-$800/hour. but that's also variable depending on their availability and schedules. One 40 yo lady offered to see me on her WFH day and see me either side of her lunch break for $600. How generous. Hopefully she splits that with her employers. But for $600 might as well see an escorts.
I haven't seen evidence of bots on seeking. they have unlimited messages so there is no inventive to get paid per message as is the case on secretbenefits. What seeking will do is towards the end of each subscription period they 'feature' my profile which generates last minute messages and excitement.
What I'm looking for is a girl that is not sweating on this allowance to dig themselves out of the financial holes they continue to dig. I easily ignore the last minute request for groceries, uber eats, paid coffee dates and of course 'rent'. I'm looking for a girl that will host regularly or at east alternate weeks. Most likely the girl I snag will be on the site only a few days before she gets pissed off by all the trash.
Yep. Never lead with money. In your deals with women (except for escorts).
As for the women that need a man that can dig her out of a financial hole, such women are irresponsible financially and thus are irresponsible in every other facet of life. Sleeping around. Getting STIs. Lying. Drug use. Criminal behavior. The list goes.
Sorry but I have been on there a few years back and I found that the best way to get rid of fakes is to get straight to the point.
I want to fuck. I want this and do you do that. Not in a rude way but be precise with your requests. Anyone that asks for money to meet up....get rid of them. There are alot that want to be treated with respect and taken out to a good place for dinner and a good nightclub or bar and they will give you what you really want (sex) in return. But there are alot of princesses that believe they are better than every other person on the face of the planet and you barely deserve to give them 100 bux for sweet FA.
Get rid of the fakes straight away. Then go for the real ones and you will do well. Ps the best ones are the girls who want money but also love fucking.....little secret......girls love fucking too
Sorry I meant barely deserve to give them 1000 bux for sweet FA
SYT is 18-21
MILF is 25-35
So t's up to us to choose which path we are going down.
a) easy to find sex for money - but I can get that in shop or brothels a lot easier.
b) over-paying for princess eye candy - not my thing
c) finding an innocent sweetie that just wants a reliable guy and doesn't know her worth - good market for me
d) corrupting an innocent sweetie that ahs just joined he site. - god adventures for me
They all exist on there, which ever you choose, just avoid the other buckets.
C and D look good. Lol. I did find a few of those. No princesses. The good thing is I built up a good rapport with at least 2 of them and was getting a few freebies in there too for a while.
C and D got me through my teens and 20s. Ha ha.
Hehe its much more fun when you are older.
Pretty well narrowed my field down for the current batch of prospects. Each day I have a coffee meets ( I don't pay for coffee meets BTW). Common theme is the cost of living as to why new girls have entered the SB market.
I only ended up having my profile active for a little over a week. Its been deactivated for the past week while I worked through the prospects I have.
I gave up on the younger uni student types. Too much age difference and very little to talk about plus they want top dollar just for being young. Better value elsewhere.
I do have a 30 year old foreign student that is on for fortnightly meets. Mainly I just want to try her out in bed, not very exciting conversationally but I can sense she is keen to lease.
There is another 28 yo student I've met but haven't cracked her yet. no money has changed hands, no DNA has been exchanged yet. She's simply in the might come off pool.
None of my selections are born in Australia.
So in summary the one month subscription I only had to use for a week by which time I had found a new roster to keep me going for a few months. Maybe next time I can go halves with someone to take over .
Good value for me.
38 and no kids and "career focused" - or so she says. No condoms = you'll be a sperm donor
Posting Permissions
|
|
|
|