I've just signed up for a new account with seeking.com and busy working my way though a set of 6 solid prospects plus bouncing around 30-40 others.
I'm interested to get a DM from other current seeking.com subscribers that we can shares notes through DM.
My target range is 25-35 SYT, Brisbane CDB within 10kms.
Keep us updated on if its worth it. Average cost etc
I ended up on secret benefits and def a lot of bots.
SYT? - Sxy young thing?
SYT - Sweet Young ThingOriginally Posted by gpeck80
So here I am three days in. I had to deactivate my profile as there were too may prospects.
Had a meet and greet with one girl today. not exactly my type so we had a polite coffee and went our separate ways.
There are a few different profiles of girls.
Full time employed girls - going to be available at night (doesn't suit me)
Full time students - say they are flexible but are juggling work, study and all these guys
Escorts posing as sugar
Lots of other variations on the above.
Of course there are some crazy valuations which I just shrug off.
I've had good experiences before. I know the right girl(s) will come.
Prospects ?? or too many fakes ?? That was the issue I had with Secret Benefits at least.
Genuine prospects for what I'm looking for.
Obviously easy to get PPM at sort notice with offers between $300-$800/hour. but that's also variable depending on their availability and schedules. One 40 yo lady offered to see me on her WFH day and see me either side of her lunch break for $600. How generous. Hopefully she splits that with her employers. But for $600 might as well see an escorts.
I haven't seen evidence of bots on seeking. they have unlimited messages so there is no inventive to get paid per message as is the case on secretbenefits. What seeking will do is towards the end of each subscription period they 'feature' my profile which generates last minute messages and excitement.
What I'm looking for is a girl that is not sweating on this allowance to dig themselves out of the financial holes they continue to dig. I easily ignore the last minute request for groceries, uber eats, paid coffee dates and of course 'rent'. I'm looking for a girl that will host regularly or at east alternate weeks. Most likely the girl I snag will be on the site only a few days before she gets pissed off by all the trash.
And then there's the women that just use it as a dating site and the ones that want platonic friendship only (which are fun to convert).
yep, it took a couple of days for the quiet ones to emerge. i ignore the platonic part and just push ahead with coffee (not paid!) and decide on the vibe.
I'm conscious of not mentioning sex in the online chats. I just leave that hanging in their mind and let them be the one to raise it. so, number of males on the site, mentioned sex/money in the first few messages 99.9% then there is me.
Yep. Never lead with money. In your deals with women (except for escorts).
As for the women that need a man that can dig her out of a financial hole, such women are irresponsible financially and thus are irresponsible in every other facet of life. Sleeping around. Getting STIs. Lying. Drug use. Criminal behavior. The list goes.
Sorry I meant barely deserve to give them 1000 bux for sweet FA
Guys I’m trying to sign upto this but keep getting invalid email. Anyone have a solution for this at all? Email was entered correctly and even created a new free one and still same issue. Wish they had an app
Sorry but I have been on there a few years back and I found that the best way to get rid of fakes is to get straight to the point.
I want to fuck. I want this and do you do that. Not in a rude way but be precise with your requests. Anyone that asks for money to meet up....get rid of them. There are alot that want to be treated with respect and taken out to a good place for dinner and a good nightclub or bar and they will give you what you really want (sex) in return. But there are alot of princesses that believe they are better than every other person on the face of the planet and you barely deserve to give them 100 bux for sweet FA.
Get rid of the fakes straight away. Then go for the real ones and you will do well. Ps the best ones are the girls who want money but also love fucking.....little secret......girls love fucking too
So t's up to us to choose which path we are going down.
a) easy to find sex for money - but I can get that in shop or brothels a lot easier.
b) over-paying for princess eye candy - not my thing
c) finding an innocent sweetie that just wants a reliable guy and doesn't know her worth - good market for me
d) corrupting an innocent sweetie that ahs just joined he site. - god adventures for me
They all exist on there, which ever you choose, just avoid the other buckets.
The economic realities of the new academic year are looming fast. The university campuses are still quiet. There are a few summer students around.
There was also a recent news.com article about some retired dentist's SB that was clearing >$5k / week. These sort of articles usually drive new talent to the sugar scene.
I took the opportunity last week to kick off a new seeking.com subscription.
NO shortage of girls that are asking >$800. Ignoring those dreamers there are nice foreign students that will "everything except anal" for $400 staying overnight.
Thanks CumShot, interesting thread, definitely seems like an option for those who want an ongoing arrangement. After getting out of a long term relationship and not knowing what I want, this might be the way to go. The escort scene in bris is pretty bad these days.
How long would you say each arrangement lasts before it falls apart? Do you need to constantly search for new leads
Best I have had was one year.
Usually I will take a one month membership with enough leads to work through for 2-3 months. The problem with the girls they know if you don't follow them up you are fucking someone else. So to put the girls on the back burner for later reheating I tell them I travel a lot overseas and will call them when I'm back.
Not all the girls want to do overnights. These are often good for a dinner together and back to the place.
If they are too transactional then they are the same as escorts, so why bother.
There are so many sweet foreign students round that are happy to hang around, understand how it works and they don't complicate things. TBH it's been a long time since I have fucked a aussie born white girl. Maybe that should be my Australia Day pledge, bonus points if she works at Woolies.
chappie do start with signing up for a free membership so we can share a few links. I can send them a message for you if you are interested and until you get your own subscription.
there are a few members sharing intel by DM already
One thing I do enjoy is the girls that think they can play with the mind. One Latina I was chatting on whatsapp we got to the point about allowances and I always leave it for them to place an opening bid.
For this girl her line was something like "Depending on how comfortable you are with your own financial security you might like to consider giving me an allowance, gifts and helping me with some bills."
Obviously it was some attempt to belittle me into paying an unemployed foreign student stupid money for sex. I think I replied with something like "Well my financial situation is pretty comfortable. How will you be paying your rent this week?" Needless to say I wont be meeting her.
The reduced student working hours is really starting to bite these girls.
i don't think so. if they were going to be doing this, the money is much more that that work you are talking about. why do they even need to be doing that job in the first place even they have this ?
You have it the wrong way around. Let's say a girl comes from Asia to study here. Until July this year she was able to work 35+ hours per week. With a share house and student life, they can survive with that money. Now that the student visa hours are max 24/week that's a lot less cash and no surplus. Can't take a second job but can accept cash for sex.
Two of the girls I met said that they were referred to the site by their friends whom are also doing it. For the right student it's going to be a workable thing. Realistically they only need one regular guy and catch up once per week. It is hard if they were having to find a new SD each week on PPM basis. Some play for more than one.
If you don't have time to try seeking, the student ladies at Sushi Train might be interested.
they will need to have regular employers in their life.
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