Reply With QuoteProbably a day or two before I take one last ride in a large slow moving black Limo.Originally Posted by Sibon
Taking a break from one mundane desire and redirecting it to other mundane desires doesn't really help. Our five senses will always bring out that urge like a pent up depression or anger that has been suppressed for a long time.
The problem is in how we perceive ourselves. If we still feel shame and the need to be defensive, we will never be able to abstain from anything. Our five senses feeds our inner addictions, and the only way to stop relying on our addictions is to focus outwards by thinking of the welfare of others. We can do that by giving to charity or the homeless people with the motivation to see them happy. When we tune our minds to always make others happy without expecting anything in return, we would've defeated our addictions and need for validation.
Once we get there, the sex gets better because we are learning to activate our inner bliss rather than have a blissful moment that only lasts as long as the physical orgasm. Inner bliss can last for days or weeks if we can successfully activate our motivation to see others happy without expecting anything in return.
Probably a day or two before I take one last ride in a large slow moving black Limo.
In reply to ditchtheboss
So far my SB only comes over at agreed time during the week days. Shes never shown up out of the blue. I am not tired of her yet. But out calls with others WLs used to be a lot cheaper before covid. Quiet a few places around Chatswood / Artarmon but I am trying to not go to often. If you have to book a place to see them that becomes to pricey. Last week SB bought another Chinese WL with her don't even know the other girls name. Her tits were like EE size huge I could hardly breath. That girl was horsie with me the whilst SB sat on my face. If you can see SB in their place that's even better.
You are doing well. I should have been more careful. I had a threesome with 2 really hot Aussie girls and it was the first time I met them. One of them showed up about I’ve week later late at night. Not a big drama but enough to throw me off bringing them home. I should only host the ones I know for a while,
None of my SBs host at the moment. Yes it is s bit more expensive but I just can’t be bothered at the moment. So much easier to just go to a shop but the experience is different.
You have done well with your SB and even better with the busty Chinese one, good on you. SBs are great fun just more work than the shops
Absolutely can see the day when I stop and expect it more to be age related for me.
As I am getting older, many urges remain but some thing get further apart in terms of the need.
Hopefully it is some way off yet as I still want to 'live life' and have fun but I also know a time will come when I just will not have that capability
SB is good if I want a threesome she can bring another Chinese girl when I want. Some of those other girls no English. The problem with shops you can get some medioka WLs some good ones but some just average. And you don't know if the girls in a shop will even like you. Its good when you get one you like. Also having an SB you trust not to overstep the boundaries is good. I would not want her just turning up so far shes never done that she cums only when I book her. There's to much pussy around in my area its hard to stop.
No, there is no day I will stop punting
No, I'm single (divorced) and too old for the dating game, so I'll keep punting till the day I die...
One thing is my SB knows I am hitched so she knows not to just show up at night and only messages me when on the way after booking her week days. I work online sales at home so I can easily get her here on week days when coast is clear. We have a good system and a good rapport. She lives close by to so its easy if I wanna pop in her place for a cuppa tea. Sometimes I just could not be bothered going to the shop other times I go when I feel like trying a different WL. That EE Chinese tits WL last week that came along with my SB for party of three I would never have found her if not for my SB. We do threesome every few months she brings a different gal. And the rest of the time I see her alone every week and occasionally punt. I can't see me stopping this the sex is different with each girl to. Years ago I used to see Aussie gals but in shops then I got the Asian fever. Haven't banged an Aussie gal in 10 years all Asian women since. I have also a big problem with several Asian shops in Chatswood and close by so the urge never goes away. I'm one horny middle aged dude.
Yeah for sure I'm going to slow down but going back at it.
When my regular quits/can't find a regular of the same quality to replace her
"My soul has been spoiled by the world, my imagination is unquiet, my heart insatiate. To me everything is of little moment. I have become as easily accustomed to grief as to joy, and my life grows emptier day by day"
The day I did I will stop punting👍
No - just enjoy the world’s delights
Still looking for the perfect ebony RnT - the hunt continues
Quick short answer: Yes
Great question. If my salary doesn't increase but the cost of punting keeps rising, it's easy now for me to make it an occasional hobby only
Just like the airlines, the sex industry can damage itself if it wants to raise the price to greater than the market is prepared to pay
Thursday. I woke with an epiphany and a magical reconnection with my wife. I'm out.....
Good luck guys!
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“I've been thinking with my guts since I was fourteen years old, and frankly speaking, between you and me, I have come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains.”
― Nick Hornby, High Fidelity
Money, Time and Energy plays a lot in here. for sure there will come a time for everything.
I think I'm there i.e
Done. I had an opportunity to go to 227 Broadway but wasn't feeling it. Also walked past both CBD style massages and wasn't feeling it.
I have had a blood test for testosterone and it's all normal. I don't jerk off at all. Don't watch porn.
I am in my early 50s. So perhaps libido is slowing down. I hated it even in my late 30s being so horny all the time and unable to focus at work. Now i miss that feeling of wanting to fk anything that walks.
I have tried horny goat weed. I'm back into exercise and eating well. Sleep well.
Can't seem to get it up during punts. The only time recently was 1 month ago and there's an AR in the private section. But that was a one off and an exceptionally hot and willing girl.
Can't seem to get interested. I'm partly jaded as prices are so high, girls very plain, service mainly bad and far majority don't give good tackle tickle build up.
It's bad when i walk past so many shops these past few weeks and most times not interested to enough to be bothered going in even for a scout. The excitement is no longer there.
It's been a gradual decline these past few months loss of libido and interest.
In fact most of the time i punt is to see if it's possible for a ml to get me hard or whether i have a problem. Hence the blood test after multiple sessions where lil rodger failed to rise to the occasion.
I was even going to start a thread about whether there is a correlation between mamasan owning and traini g MLs and good cinsistent TT but so disappointed I couldn't walk into 227 broadway so i didn't bother.
Maybe I'll be back but looks like I'm getting too old for this sh.t and signing off for now. (Yes there were 2 movie quotes!)
Maybe you’re just going through a phase?
I don’t know if I will completely give up. I used to punt 2-3 times a week and the thrill of what the next girl would be like was always on my mind . I seemed to have found in the last year especially is the quality of service that has been provided has gone down hill or it’s all in my mind I’m not sure . I would often more than not have great chemistry will new girls and would be border line of passionate gf feeling. Now with the last few it hasn’t been there . I have a regular which she is great but to far and can’t be bothered with traffic , so now I just read what you guys get up to lol . It’s already been a couple of months no punting and still not even sure when the next will be .
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