I find my punts much better when we chat & have a fun vibe
"My soul has been spoiled by the world, my imagination is unquiet, my heart insatiate. To me everything is of little moment. I have become as easily accustomed to grief as to joy, and my life grows emptier day by day"
Definitely, if the girl is nice. It's a nice way to finish a great GFE session, them laying up on the side of your chest with a little chatting.... I'm finding I like seeing my new regular over other girls, as we have a little history, makes talking easier, more fun and relaxed.Originally Posted by Shoryureppa
I second that. Only do massages when in Thailand or similar.
Too much talking can kill the vibe for me. Some girls pulled me into really thought provoking convos about real life problems, I totally stopped thinking about sex. Ended up focusing too much on their problem, lol...
Nothing wrong with a bit of convo.
I think it makes the session more special and intimate.
Recently a J girl who had recently turned 20 told me about her her 20yo coming of age party (like a 21st in Western countries) and showed me her pics of her in her Furisode which is a special coming of age Kimono.
It was very sweet.
The thing about punting is you can have your cake and eat it too. You can have a very special intimate and passionate experience with a girl and then you can go off back to your normal life.
You just have to learn how to switch on and then switch off and then your punting pleasure increases 100%.
The mistake a lot of newbie punters make is to take one of two wrong paths.
They either 1. fall madly in love with a girl and totally lose the plot or 2. take a hard attitude toward the girl, treat it like a transaction, and take a misogynistic or hostile attitude toward the girls.
Both these approaches a will just lead to unhappiness for both you and the girl.
The middle path is to switch on and totally be in the moment with the girl and totally enjoy her company and fuck like crazy, and then when the time is up switch off and go back to normality.
Once you master this skill, punting is a beautiful and amazing thing.
Life can be beautiful. There is no need to be sad or mad or angry or bitter. Enjoy!
Wise words Rooter
It's more than just business transaction
With the right lady, it's a sublime 1 hour of mutual pleasure, and a win-win situation
Yep.... after a great session.... laying back, she's laying across my shoulder, stroking my chest, chatting about whatever. I had extra cash, would have extended to keep that little moment going if I didn't have to go back to work....
Spot on Rooter!
My regular & I always have a great time during our standard 3 hour sessions and really get into "the moment", but we are not under any illusions that we are just enjoying spending some quality time together...
Seems there are some punters that subscribe to the "bend over and brace" style; plenty of PRC's familiar with that from home. Myself, I always enjoy a bit of a chat. Why I really like my regulars; you don't have to start from zero. You treat them as a person rather than an orifice, it certainly makes it more enjoyable for me, and I think, most times, for us.
One very popular and famous BKK lady, between my yearly visits, we'll occasionally chat, or she'll send photos or videos of her civilian life. When I'm there, we'll catch up as we're getting ready, in the shower, very GFE, then service time, PSE, she knows what I like. At cleanup, shower together, chat, and with the few minutes left, show each other recent photos from our mobiles. She'll tell me good restaurants and bars I should try.
Here, I've only been turned down once when I asked for her WeChat contact, and I keep in touch with several. Helps with bookings, with notifications of service impediments, and with shop changes. Have been told I should try this restaurant, that club.
It makes her a person, YOU a person. But like I say, I like repeats. A good massage, good service, and good attitude is a winning combo in my book. A bit of chat and banter is a plus for me.
LOL!
However, it helps to flirt especially if she's very hot. That's the only talk that's really needed. But agreed - some conversation can be a mood killer if they don't know how to flirt back / read the room (or read your cock).
Ah, you've got yourself into a bit of a tricky situation there, mate! It's like trying to have a barbie with a kangaroo on the loose – a bit distracting, I reckon!
In the heat of the moment, it's important to have a yarn with your partner and make sure you're both on the same page. If the chat's got you feeling softer than a lamington left out in the sun, it might be time to have a laugh about it and steer the conversation back to a more comfortable track.
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