How do you reduce nervousness on your first punt?

[Double_Adapter]

Lol thanks. Except I have a uno problemo-
I no comprende any of that fucken terminology!

My rule is that whatever you think is the WLs are, ad 10 years if you’re sober. And 20 minimum if you’re wasted.

You are right with the +10 years, and this applies to most Asian girls.
If they look after themselves, eat right, exercise, laser out skin blemishes, use botox and expensive anti-wrinkle creams like La Mer, La Prairie et al then you can add 15-20 years to the presumed age.
I'm smashing raw a 50+ Korean sugar mama that looks and feels like a 30yr old (a good thing she owns her own cosmetics and beauty treatment biz)

[earl9122]

Reducing nervousness on your first punt is a bit like preparing for a rollercoaster ride. Take a cue from the adrenaline junkies – practice deep breathing to calm those pre-ride jitters. Visualize success, just like envisioning conquering the loop-the-loop, and imagine yourself with the comedic confidence of a stand-up comedian; after all, laughter can be a great icebreaker! But while you're enjoying the ride, always remember that safety, consent, and respect should be your top priorities, just like the safety measures on a rollercoaster. So, have a good laugh, enjoy the adventure, and make sure you're in a safe and legal situation!" 😄

[11Bravo]

Lol thanks. Except I have a uno problemo-
I no comprende any of that fucken terminology!

My rule is that whatever you think is the WLs are, ad 10 years if you’re sober. And 20 minimum if you’re wasted.

Myself, I go by "looks like"; the actual age is immaterial. Skill sets are also applied to the go/no-go equation.

[bung72]

Reduce nervousness.... who knows!
I'm about to leave home for my >20th punt, my watch says my ECG is inconclusive due to high heart rate! 133bpm.... its nuts!

[ditchtheboss]

Reduce nervousness.... who knows!
I'm about to leave home for my >20th punt, my watch says my ECG is inconclusive due to high heart rate! 133bpm.... its nuts!

AR PLEASE. Have fun

[Abracadabra]

Heightened anticipation yes, which pushes the heart rate up, but never nervous...... too many times, i guess.
Focus on relaxing, enjoying the physical connection and letting the session flow.

[bung72]

Once inside a shop I’m definitely relaxed… it’s the buildup that stirs me up…. Don’t get me wrong, I love it!

[Shoryureppa]

"My soul has been spoiled by the world, my imagination is unquiet, my heart insatiate. To me everything is of little moment. I have become as easily accustomed to grief as to joy, and my life grows emptier day by day."

[earl9122]

Once inside a shop I’m definitely relaxed… it’s the buildup that stirs me up…. Don’t get me wrong, I love it!

That's a fantastic perspective! Keeping things relaxed, enjoying the physical connection, and going with the flow can indeed lead to a more enjoyable and stress-free experience. It's all about being in the moment and savoring the connection, much like sipping a fine wine or indulging in a delicious meal. Here's to stress-free enjoyment and memorable moments!

[yaminkim]

Have a wank beforehand mate

[bung72]

Have a wank beforehand mate

I like to be fresh with a loaded chamber punting.....

[imyouraussieguy]

Pray to the God of cocks to grant you the stiffness and hardness like no other

[TheBigChungus]

I was pretty nervous leading up to my first punt in a shop a few days back, super nervous so got there early and decided to just sus out the location, the outside of the establishment and walked around for 10 min or so.

Before 10 min of the actual booking it was now or never so I just went in, and after that I was calm af, the build up for me was such a nerve racking aspect.

Privates on the other hand is super simple, just think as if you’re going there to meet your mate. Anybody you meet at the apartment or outside they don’t really know where you’re going, who you’re meeting unlike shops.


Meditating 5 min before helps as well!

[RO1312]

Something that helped me was this-

You know why you are there
She knows why you are there

Keep it simple. No need to wind yourself up

[CFH]

don't take it seriously. sex is supposed to be fun, right?

[Double_Adapter]

Something that helped me was this-

You know why you are there
She knows why you are there

And the wife doesn't know where you are

[RO1312]

And the wife doesn't know where you are

Haha, it’s not an issue for me but I feel for the bro’s

[huskywesley51]

Plenty of dudes like to imagine they’re the most confident Don Juans around—even though they’re actually pretty damn anxious when the clothes are about to come off.
Let's keep this thread rolling by providing newbies with vital information.

So what do you do when having sex with someone new gives you a major case of anxiety?

First, it's important to remember that anxiety is completely normal! Everyone feels some degree of nervousness when engaging in activities outside their comfort zone, such as having sex with someone new. That said, it doesn’t have to stop you from enjoying the experience.