I don't have any real regulars yet, but I was disappointed to see one girl who I had only seen once disappear from the roster, as my sesh with her was amazing and I was keen on revisiting...I agree with what has been said about it being best just to enjoy the moment because we do not know what lies ahead.
Had a few regulars/favourites and experienced it in various ways:
1. She told the shop and customers that she was leaving. So the shop posted "last week/day" on the roster.
You can imagine all her regulars wanting to book her during her last days.
2. A few just vanished from the shop.
Some girls, i have their contact info and i ask if theyre still working and what shop.
Some girls, in my early punting days, i didnt ask/get their number or they didnt want to give it to me. And i just hope to see them again in the shop roster.
3. Some girls pop in the rosters every now and then. The annoying part is when they move shops, change names, change pictures. Cause youre never gonna know its them unless you get some kind of info.
Girls do come and go, but do they really not come back?
I can imagine some would pop in every now and then, if they need quick cash.
Or some would just contact their top customers, so they dont have to go to the shop.
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Regulars moving on can leave a hole in your punting cycle. I had 2 depart recently and my punting dropped off. I was doing the "regular newby regular..." cycle.
Important to apply the pay fuck leave maxim, but regulars can get under your guard sometimes and the connection can become unhealthy imo..
Yeah she msg me that she will be leaving and gave me the date. Was surprised and felt kinda sad, I knew she would leave one day but seems to have brought that plan forward. I think she expects me to visit her more often. We kinda connected on a few things but I know she only sees $ sign when she sees me. I’m thinking of cutting her off early and mentally move on from her.
My greatest anguish for a regular leaving suddenly was unquestionably Yoko from Tokyo Cats.
I have posted previously about the brutal treatment she endured from the female 'madam' whose name I can't remember (Wilson seemed to treat her well). She was beaten severely. I saw photos of the aftermath. It was awful.
She was an incredibly resilient person with an infectious positive outlook. I continued to see her in many different places after she left Tokyo Cats. She generally used the name Hanna.
I think it was 2014 when she disappeared suddenly. She had overstayed her Visa, and I expect the Department of Immigration eventually caught up with her.
While I regarded her as a real friend and she meant a lot to me, I accept she owed me nothing, including any explanation about her sudden disappearance. On the contrary, I owed her.
I would give my right one for any news about what happened to her. I hope she was just deported. She was very vulnerable, and I have feared that something nastier might sit behind her disappearance. I sincerely hope that wasn't the case.
If anyone knows what happened; particularly if you have news that she is going well; I would appreciate hearing about it.
As a rule though, if a regular disappears without warning, remember that is their prerogative. They owe you absolutely nothing.
Yep same. Since June this year when my last regular WL left the shop. Since then I’ve been trying old haunts and new alike, hit and miss and even returning back home to jerk off without making a selection. This time last year, I still had 3 regulars. Now I can’t even find a WL worth seeing a second time.