A gentleman doesn't negotiate with his pants around his ankles
He negotiates in the room, and up front, with the cash in hand, so he is politely able to walk out, if the deal doesn't suit him
The key step in negotiation in business is respectfully showing the other person in the negotiation that you ready to walk away from a deal if doesn't work for you, especially if you have other options on the table
Respectfully, as you may do business again in Future
Respect and walking away are both part of the process
It would be great if someone else paid your bills and expenses in life. The ML/WL doesnt
Any other thoughts to help those who hate the haggle?
Also, gentlemen pay cash and pay up front
A gentleman doesn't negotiate with his pants around his ankles
He negotiates in the room, and up front, with the cash in hand, so he is politely able to walk out, if the deal doesn't suit him
Lol frisson you are answering your own Q&As, you must be a sole trader
More often than not I've booked the girl ahead... so I know the basic cost of the session is paid for, I respect that as a risk I've taken. I'll ask the girl about her extras, then decide if I'll pay that part - I almost always do though.... I'll always have at least $150 ready for extras (generally GFE), with a reserve extra extra of 100+ in case she is a real gem and the little brain grabs the wallet!
I don't know what business you are in, but comparing the two is ludicrous. Do you actually do either?
Not too sure commercial negotiation principles will get much traction in a jig jig shop...
That said, I've been known to walk away!
Don't mistake negotiation with haggling they are two totally different things, and most people just haggle eg the first ppm between a SD and a SB that's called haggling.
And don't confuse the two things with a bargain either. A bargain is something you don't want with a price you can't resist, eg that cheap punt with an unattractive GILF that you regret afterwards.
And some people will even confuse a bargain with TOFTT.
But imo there's nothing more despicable than haggling on a bargain....and certain races come to mind that do this more than others.
Regardless, if you're still uncertain which of the above is applicable to your situation, then use YMMV as that term can cancel out and neutralise anything.
I go to a shop I pay $350 and I know roughly what the outcome will be.
I ask the WL if I can finish her off with a facial, she hesitates and suggests that I can give her a pearl necklace instead, not happy with this outcome I ask her if I can CIM instead to which she agrees, that is called negotiation (the price is fixed and money is not discussed). If she was to ask me to pay an additional $50 for a facial and I suggest $25 instead, and she agrees....that is haggling.
If I was to pay her $250 upfront and she gave me the works including MSOG, facial, pearl necklace, CIM, bareback and anal then that's a bargain.if I get an STI as a result of the encounter then that is TOFTT.
if another punter pays the same $250 amount expecting the works but only gets a cbj then that Is YMMV.
You're right that demonstrating a willingness to walk away from a deal is a crucial aspect of negotiation in business. This approach can be a powerful tactic when used strategically.
While demonstrating a willingness to walk away from a deal can be an effective negotiation tactic, it's important to be aware of the potential downsides and risks: LOST OPPORTUNITIES!
The thread was based on negotiations in RnT, where nothing is guaranteed and everything is negotiated
Waking away is a part of the negotiation strategy. It does not have to be always carried out. By mixing the two you are missing the point. Most of the time it would be an extra like dfk, bbbj or CIM. If the WL dies not provide something that you want normally you can’t negotiate. It could also be the WL wants extra for that service. For a successful negotiation both parties have to feel they won. Otherwise one wont be happy and you don’t want the WL or ML not happy as the service won’t be that good and you will regret not walking.