Reply With QuoteWould stop immediately and not look back until she was gone.Originally Posted by manjuice333
If you had a hot gf, who was a bit of a nympho, i.e. you had fairly regular passionate sex.. Would you stop? Could you?
I'm asking because this is my situation. I have a young hot GF who would be, scratch that, IS, better than most girls you'd find in a shop, even the pricier shops (e.g. Stiletto). In fact, from the frequency I visit shops and escorts, I'd place her in the top 1% in terms of looks compared to WLs. When I say looks I'm including face and body.
And yet, I can't seem to stop. Anyone else have this problem? I find myself having sex with girls who are nowhere near as attractive as my gf and after thinking wtf is wrong with me??
Clearly it's a compulsive addiction. HELP lol
I don't think I can stop. Would you stop if you had that GFE at home already? Are you already in this situation?
Would stop immediately and not look back until she was gone.
Sage advice as always.. Thank you sir.
Mate everyone is running their own race, we're all wired differently, so what works for me may not for others. For me, what you described would keep me off the streets and very happy, provided of course it was emotionally fulfilling as well. Maybe that's the issue. Or maybe you're so used to punting that it's hard to change habits. Or maybe you're sabotaging it, God knows I've got a history of that too.
I did that with an exGF. Definitely exactly my taste in body shape and looks. Sex... come on, it's sex with a partner, of course it beats any sex with WLs.
BB everything, creampie everywhere (when it's safe!) and the passion, OMG, the passion was intense!
I completely stopped seeing WGs for a long time. Probably 2+ years.
Don't sweat about punting. It will always be here, there will always be hot girls around to be paid for and fucked. Just enjoy your hot GF, don't risk losing that for WGs. That'll be the dumbest thing you can do.
GF for years then she moved back overseas for work & here I am
"My soul has been spoiled by the world, my imagination is unquiet, my heart insatiate. To me everything is of little moment. I have become as easily accustomed to grief as to joy, and my life grows emptier day by day"
From what you've said.... I'd probably stop, at least for a bit. But it would still be on my mind!
Go for broke son, enjoy yourself....
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“I've been thinking with my guts since I was fourteen years old, and frankly speaking, between you and me, I have come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains.”
― Nick Hornby, High Fidelity
I'm in a similar situation and have been for a long time and I am in way to deep as some have mentioned in this forum. Stop punting whilst your ahead it only gets worse. To the point where you can't go by a week without doing multiple pussies. I think on stopping to but I can't give it up. Try to be faithful to your hot young GF and keep pleasing her. Don't end up like me where you want to fuck every hot Asian girl you see and you can't tell which is a WL and which is just a normal girl anymore. Get control bro before its to late.
Bro. If you are in a loving relationship and the sex is good, my humble advice is to leave punting. Leave now
Karma will eventually catch up with you and it will affect your relationship badly in some way. It will. Unless your partner is fine with your hobby. Rarely they are
Understand the problem. The next punt will be a great punt and you will lose some feeling for your partner. Karma will bite. It absolutely will
I'm single
I would absolutely quit punting in an instant if I had a good lady who sincerely cared for me and not just my wallet, that had a job and we were sexually compatible. A woman who I'm proud to take our to dinner with friends and who doesn't share her body with other men. One million times better than a WL or mistress or a money hungry sugar baby
Unless you are one of many men who are slaves to their basic genetics and just want to spread their seed to every gaping hole they can find. It's the promiscuity pursuit and many men get off on that until karma slaps them in the face. Karma may cast a blind eye your way so you get away with it
I recommend spending zero more money on punting, and $2000-5000 a year on a holiday with your special lady to strengthen the relationship
There is a difference between love and lust, and lust always over powers love any day of the week,
So if you crave different pussy than no matter how hot your lover is, you will still want more.
Thinking back to young GFs I really loved.... I would never have punted.
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“I've been thinking with my guts since I was fourteen years old, and frankly speaking, between you and me, I have come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains.”
― Nick Hornby, High Fidelity
So what happens when you have a really great regular girl you are probably feeling a bit too much for, and then a really great GF comes along....
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“I've been thinking with my guts since I was fourteen years old, and frankly speaking, between you and me, I have come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains.”
― Nick Hornby, High Fidelity
if that happens then you're totally fucked as you can't say no to either girl. But I think most of us are totally fucked on here with no self control.
Enter song: Ohhh It sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_pYmcz0EgJ0
Well, I'm definitely guilty of these two things. There is definitely an allure to punting that has a hold over me, no denying that and it's a habit that is deeply ingrained. Self-sabotage is also my middle name :P
I will try to adhere to this advice, it's definitely the right thing to do. The only question is, can I do it?
lol thanks for the advice bro but I fear it is way too late. We're probably well down the same rabbit hole. I know exactly what you mean about thinking every second girl is a WL! It does happen mostly with hot Asians in the city but also occasionally I get a vibe from a non-Asian as well.
I might be doing multiples today! Not just in 1 week lol. Well technically I have done 2 but the first was a complete failure that I ended early so it's more like 1.5, really when you think about it... Right?
This is the exact kind of moral support I was after, someone to tell me I'm totally fucked just like they are hahahaha
That is a good point. The amount of money I've spent over the years would easily be enough to get me several of those $5000 holidays.
Okay I have to try.. Maybe starting in like 2 weeks or something..
Exsctly right. Stop. Re start if it falls apart. You may be on something great. I was for 30 years.
Having the extra money to punt is one problem if you have to much money you will continue to punt. Its the good feeling of being with different women that's near impossible to control. You may lose your GF if your not careful. You have to have your straight poker face when your with your GF. The other problem I have is if I do my regular in the day and the misses wants to do it with me when she gets home. I have to come up with excuses why I don't want to do it. Cause its already been sucked dry that day and no power left for a second round.
When I am in the shops the food shops the regular Asian girls many give me that eye contact stare of lust. I want to bang em all.
Multiples are dangerously addictive. I suggest you don't ever get married because that's a whole new game. I hope your GF don't find out. I think your screwed like I am and can't stop going with WLs.
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