Basically - whats the longest you kept going back to the same girl without seeing anyone else.
For me it was 6 months.
The sex and chemistry was so intense that it made no sense trying anyone else. I was seeing her every 2 weeks, and abstained for her that long, and only broke the pattern when she was off the roster.
I think going back for the same girl is a no brainer, if your having fun and it’s what your looking for. When you realize how good it is compared to trying out new shops/girls and majority being duds
I have a session booked today, think it’s been 2-3 weeks so I’m looking forward to it
First was three sessions (left)Originally Posted by Ghost2hauntU
Second was 12 sessions (at this point shut out)
I think for most MLs the prospect of “long term” is the pressure to perform
at many more levels than just the “job”.
Familiarity breeds contempt.
I also it is mentally challenging to keep your own mind in check - you know their schedules - and how many times a day they are probably fucking - in their 10/12 hour shifts.
The other reality is they have other regulars just like you on a “different string”.
Interesting to hear an ML/WL viewpoint.
Been seeing my regular for years, see her today soon, still having fun with her. Every few months I see someone else in between to for extra fun. And every now and then my regular brings along one of her married girlfriends. If your seeing someone for months go private with her.
5 days, only because didn't have time to punt during the work week before I could call up the next in the pitching rotation.
I never think about what she's doing outside of the time I'm seeing her, just like she should not be concerned about what I've been doing. Had one, as she removed the condom, she'd note how full it was, with comments of "oh full today, you've been a good boy", or "not too much, you've been a bad boy', with a punch on the arm.
That sounds like a lot of fun. I might try this approach too, no harm in asking for private after a good connection is sparked.
The thing is with a regular girl is you just text her or she texts you to meet up in an agreed place. You get to know each other and the sex stays good as long as your regular is someone you like and does it for you. If you make a connection those are the ones to try go private and stay friendly with her on good terms always. First you have to be able to be okay with what she does for her income. So if you can keep it going you can see her every week. Have rules. No dating just fun and sex only. Set a price your both happy with. Cash or bank transfer mine does PayPal with me. Most important rule do not fall in love with her. Though its very hard not to I've been close to losing myself with mine several times. Its very convenient having a regular girl long time. Stick to someone local to your area as well. You can go to hers or she can come to you. I recommend it. You punt less but still punt sometimes when you want extra. When you know her longer ask her for threesome with one of her friends.
I never thought about asking if that was available, I would assume to only bring it up after 10+ sessions. It would be nice to cut the shop out of the transaction but I guess that’s business
I have 2 regulars going on to almost 10 years now and still regularly see them. One has her own business now and not in the sex industry. Another is semi-retired, meaning only seeing regulars that she favours. But in the beginning, I only saw these 2 girls for 5 years and no one else. The best part is receiving that Line message middle of the work day telling me they want sex.
[QUOTE=RO1312;2823055]I never thought about asking if that was available, I would assume to only bring it up after 10+ sessions. It would be nice to cut the shop out of the transaction but I guess that’s business[/QUOTE
Worth trying for when you find you have a connection with her and you're already seeing her a lot, you have to make sure the shop does not know. With mine originally ten years ago or so I'd seen her three times before getting her number then we went private ever since. One thing tho she gives me great BJs every week by this stage thousands of bjs for me. These days we just text or email to hook up.
Yep I agree am at the same stage with mine she often sending me a sudden text asking if she can do a sausage inspection today. How could I say no
I saw the same girl 3 times in a row, but the most recent was pretty terrible. Literally felt like a waste of time and money. I wanted to leave with 20 mins left on the clock, but just laid down and she massaged my back. The first 2 times were great so I thought I found a regular but a few days ago that all changed haha. I'm pretty sure she could tell I won't be coming back as well since the conversation went to barely nothing in the last 40 minutes.
1 session, variety is the spice of life.
[QUOTE=JSteel96;2823073]Would you say the damage is less then going to a shop and seeing her, or the same? I ask because id rather the full amount going to the ML your with.
I managed to get her number on our second visit, but that’s because there was confusion when trying to re book her. In saying that. Still a step in the right direction
I saw her again yesterday and had a heap of fun, can’t wait for next week already
I experienced that just recently. I’ve often wondered where they end up? Que in the Twilight Zone theme…
If provides all service then years. If nothing more than BBJ/CIM then months for MLS.
Does 10 years with the ex count? I sure ended up paying for that.
Had a couple of goes at this and I was a fairly loyal guy with sticking with a particular girl once we formed a connection. I did have one that we would go out to dinner and have fun once or twice a week privately. I also drove her a few times when she was escorting. It got pretty weird when she got a boyfriend so we decided to stop the private visits. She actually introduced me to a girl at her work and we ended up dating long term.
What I didn’t count on was how possessive the first girl would get. She’d be calling at 3 or 4am when I’m in bed with my girlfriend asking to be driven somewhere or just to talk.
So I guess what I’m trying to say is set your boundaries and be aware of them.
WLs usually double knot mine and disposed of wrapped in a tissue in her plastic bin.
But I’ve also had a couple that just knot it and toss on the floor.
100% you have to have boundaries one of them is you don't mingle with them outdoors. You just hook up with them to fuck then she goes. She don't disturb you with phone calls especially if you have a GF or missus. Should be you text her to book her then meet up n fuck. Then you see her the next time. You let yours call at 3 or 4am for driving service that's just to far bro. Even meeting her bf again to far, I wonder did her bf know you guys were doing it and that she was a WL? Stay out of their private lives no dinner dates either. It should be sex only. If more than sex only shes your gf.
As long as they don’t end up in some half human half alien hybrid factory. Once they’re in the bin outside in the street who knows?
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