Originally Posted by
JohnJones
My ex wife also had her PR already when I met her so I didn't expect much. Wasn't a looker but for some reason when I met her several times during an outing with mates where they brought their wives and partners, and the wives brought friends she was the only one single and was trying to chat me up. She persistently chatted me up until one day I decided to try her and see what she has in mind.
From a simple meetup several times to her inviting me over to her place to help build some IKEA furnitures, we started dating. Then comes the sex. Didn't even think of marrying her, was happy to stay in a simple relationship where we go out on dates, sex and started living together to reduce the income pressure of renting and doing chores separately. I was thinking of making it an unofficial de-facto relationship where we'd live together, have sex regularly but not register our relationship nor have kids, mainly because of the financial constraints I was having and her telling me that she's not going to support me financially when one day I lost my job due to my idiot mate getting caught embezzling stocks.
I got trapped in the marriage thing as her friends started pressuring me into marrying her, coming from her asking her friends for help. Guilt ridden since I had been living in the unit she paid mortgage for, I agreed to marry her. My life turned upside down since then.
I'd say be careful of your FWB even when she already has a PR. She could run a tactic of pressuring you into marrying her if one day she makes you go on a date with her while accompanied by her friends. Even if you're hardy about your decision she might start withholding sex or even worse, get you into a position where you'd accidentally CIP her during the right time of month.