Now I don't believe JJ is a legitimate account, never have, but let's assume he is legit on this occasion, then this line is actually quite concerning;

"one is chasing and the other is pretending to disappear."

Mate, that's not pretending, that's realising you've crossed the line from infatuated to obsessed and cutting contact before she ends up in 27 different pieces in your freezer.

All the karma bullshit and wannabe enlightened guru crap coupled with this stuff is coming across as, you know, more than a bit bunny-boilerish.

Time to walk away, she ain't interested.

Thinking Meng was on to something in another thread...