My Seeking.com (sugarbaby) experience

[peripel]

You're mistaking ridicule for obsession. Instead, what really is an obsession is yourself with this forum. That's plain for everyone to see but yourself. Think hard on that, my fellow.

Sorry, my phone screen brightness is set to the lowest to save battery so I can't really read all that. Been working 2hrs 30 mins and my battery has only drained about 15% which is not bad.

[thelastdance]

What does any of this have to do with SBs? Who needs ad breaks with you boys around 😝

[Anonymous Stranger]

Thanks to the OP for this thread! Always been a customer of shops and WL for the ease and anonymity but this thread got me interested so will share my experience.

Created an account and started exchanging messages with women. After a week of various exchanges (lots of pros and scammers) I managed to arrange a meet with a 22 year old.

No expectations for the meet (bar somewhere in the city) and she walked in - my lord she was a stunner! If you know French Chloe from Ginza, it's that level of beauty in a smaller frame.

Had some drinks, and it was clear we were aligned in a lot of things so it was her who asked if we should go somewhere quiet. Who am I to say no?

In the hotel more chat until she actually started kissing me - obviously that led to other things 😊

Very happy. I didn't even pay her anything although I did get her her fav perfume as a gift ( which is way less than a punt). Will be meeting with this young thing more of course, so the shops will have to take a backseat 😂

[thelastdance]

Thanks to the OP for this thread! Always been a customer of shops and WL for the ease and anonymity but this thread got me interested so will share my experience.

Created an account and started exchanging messages with women. After a week of various exchanges (lots of pros and scammers) I managed to arrange a meet with a 22 year old.

No expectations for the meet (bar somewhere in the city) and she walked in - my lord she was a stunner! If you know French Chloe from Ginza, it's that level of beauty in a smaller frame.

Had some drinks, and it was clear we were aligned in a lot of things so it was her who asked if we should go somewhere quiet. Who am I to say no?

In the hotel more chat until she actually started kissing me - obviously that led to other things ��

Very happy. I didn't even pay her anything although I did get her her fav perfume as a gift ( which is way less than a punt). Will be meeting with this young thing more of course, so the shops will have to take a backseat ��

Fantastic story AS. Can you provide a bit more detail - was she an in and out on the sex, or did she stay for the night and do multiple rounds? When did you get her the perfume, before or after the date? Could be risky buying expensive perfume upfront

[Anonymous Stranger]

Nah mate, can't do evenings so this was a day meet. After the bar we were at the hotel for 3 hours before I had to go. We went twice with lots of chatting and cuddles in between. There was a Myer close by so we went there to get her a gift before we went our separate ways. Just to be clear, the perfume was my idea, not her suggestion at all.

For full disclose I wouldn't call myself a handsome man, but I do have a lot of things I can talk about, which is what I felt closed the deal.

[Aussieguyinsf]

Hey, if you are active on Seeking Arrangement with a paid account and willing to swap tips please dm me.

[andrewv]

I wish Australia had the "Love Hotel" culture of Japan, where people pay by the hour.

Even with dayuse.com it is becoming expensive with nice hotels in the CBD charging around $200 and there is a limited number of options.

[dotcumdotinyou]

They also have love hotels in Korea, basically one on every corner

[andrewv]

I am really struggling to understand why you guys go through all this stress and research and disappointment and scams just to get a fuck.
Why not just go to an established brothel or a reputable escort agency.
Stop kidding yourself, it is the same thing, you are paying for sex, you are fucking a young hot girl who if you were not paying would not even look at you.
I thought the whole point of paying for sex was to not have all these complications and stress.
Just pay and have sex with with a young hot chick, cum in her mouth and fuck off.
But you guys want to have coffee and dinner and shopping and the zoo and the aquarium and Luna Park and fuck knows what else.
It seems to me like you are in a lose lose situation - you are paying for sex but there are still strings attached (actually it more like ropes or steel cables attached) and you get all the shit that comes with a relationship but you are paying for it. WTF? It makes no sense at all to me.
Anyway maybe it's just me. Enjoy whatever you are doing bros. We are all punters.
Just maybe take time out to think about what you are doing.

I have been through both avenues for sex. Sugaring and going to brothels and massage shops.
Question: Why choose the $700 sugarbaby option ($500 for the girl plus $200 for hotel)???
Answer: because for some psychological reason I don't like the idea of going to a shop and having sex with a girl, knowing that in the previous 4+ hours she had sex with 4+ other guys, and in the next 4+ hours she will fuck 4+ other guys --- all on the same day.

You see, with a sugarbaby, there is no clock ticking (60 minutes, 59 minutes, .... 15 minutes, 14 minutes...) and it feels as close as a couple/boyfriend+girlfriend hooking up as possible.

Having said the above, there is room for each of us punters to choose what we like, and what we can afford.