I got pulled up by Mrs for regular atm withdrawals and I thought I was fucked until she asked me “have you been playing the pokies?”. Saved my ass. Of course I told her all about my gambling addiction…
My "lovlie"once just asked out of the blue if I went to brothels. Of course I shit myself in the moment but just came back with " I wish we had enough money for me to even consider it , of course I don't." Well I'm still here n still married. To this day I don't know what exactly she was thinking.
Very handy tips there ColesBag. Thanks for sharing.
The body wash and scented massage oil even scented wet wipes are dangerous pot holes. Which could go as far as the perfume or deodorant the ML or WL might be using on their bodies too.
Let’s be very careful out there.
Ps. Then of course, if you are single or unattached, then the world is your oyster ……… haha
i buy second hand stuff all the time from marketplace and gumtree, good excuse if the cash withdrawals are spotted on the statements... close call mate lucky pokies were her first thought, fucked if she asks for a share of your winnings :P
So far this year, I have spent well over $5,000. Since the beginning of the year, I am averaging around 3 per week. Punting for me had turned into a real addiction just like with smoking, gambling, drinking or taking recreational substances. I am not concerned about the $$$ factor but the fact I am going so regularly, its not normal. Even this WL I have been seeing at No 5 (Liliana), said to me you have visited over 3 times this week lol. And apologies in advance for not sharing with my fellow brothers. I will get around to posting AR's.
don't u guys feel bad? couple of times have masage with ML and offering HJ part or part 2 while knowing they have husband at home...feel bad for their partner and plus seeing Chinese dude as many of you aware they have multiple partner, this chick have that attractive look which i'm really into but she damn so loyal..
Often men and women do not feel bad at all because they distinguish between what is purely physical and what is emotional.
A wife or partner would likely think less upset if her man has been for a massage and a happy ending, but much more upset and pissed off if her man went out to dinner with an attractive woman younger than her and only kissed and held hands.
_______stay on topic and we will all enjoy the thread______________
Sex work in Australia is a choice, it's not out of poverty. With unemployment rates as low as 3 percent anyone can find a job to make their bread and butter, yes they can't make a 6 figure income but they can get by. As for students, if they come here they should have enough money to.cover their expenses, if not then they shouldn't be here in first place. So when punting here I don't feel bad, but if doing it in a poor country then it's a different story.
I might be wrong and I'm happy to hear other arguments!
The only thing I feel bad about when I indulge in this activity is that by doing so, I am spending a lot of money on nothing but myself. This is an extremely “selfish” hobby we’re carrying on with here, There’s nothing about it or cumming out of it that you can actually share with your loved ones, family and friends alike.
Say you indulge in a very expensive car. It’s showy, very luxurious, you get to enjoy it yourself, but so do the people around you that you bring around in that car.
Or you splash on some fancy hair treatment. You look good after that, but your missus will be glad that her man is now a better looking bloke too!
Punting? No way to share it. All that $&$ is spent for only you to enjoy.
Very true GFishman, it is narcissistic and selfish and I don't attempt to rationalise or justify that aspect, but simply acknowledge and accept it as it is ....
It's about me.
My approach is that I'm unfaithful for a reason : my partner is frankly a clear 10/10 body/looks, but that doesn't translate into sexual connection and thus I seek it elsewhere....
When I'm 80, if I get there... and they wheel my wheelchair into the sun at the oldies home, I'll think back to that gorgeous lithe Japanese girl at Ginza in 2024 .....with a bloody grin!
Anywhere between once a fortnight and once a month.
Thank god for Return To Office mandates, especially if they dont line up on the same day as your partner so there is at least a day or two I can head out at lunchtime for a sess.
Now the only hassle in my punting life is decreasing use of cash so my ATM withdrawals are starting to stand out.
Punting does have aspects of sharing; we share the same chicks and on the odd occasion an STD/STI
We shouldn't see the $$$ spent on punting as frivolous indulgence, the health benefits from sex and punting alone outweigh all the other concerns eg it lowers blood pressure, boosts immunity, reduces the likelihood of prostate cancer, great for reducing life stress, burns calories, good for heart, a boost for cognitive functions, helps with myocardial infarctions, treating pain relief, prevents incontinence, helps you sleep better, reduces psychological stress and depression, produces a youthful glow, great for cardiovascular diseases, extends life etc
Only when she is not available, which is about once or twice every two months. Just to scratch that itch.
When I first started punting a few years ago I did not feel guilty for the amount of money I was spending on punting. At most it was $120 a week habit at a massage shop for Part2 only. In recent times I have progressed to a sometime 2 times a week FS punts spending in excess of $500. And as money has been a little tight lately, yes I feel guilty, especially as I feel I now have a problem controlling my punting.
As far as cheating goes, I look at it this way. Most married men masturbate to porn. And their wives know they do. I know I did. Atleast once a day. Not any more since I started punting. But for me punting is like masturbating. Its like a virtual wank for me. I very rarely routinely see the same WL. Yes I have my favourites but after seeing them 4 or 5 times the novelty wears off and I don't see them any more.