I usually go once a week. Twice if i have the spare cash for it. I usually go the day after i do it with the wife coz i know we wont be doing it for a few days.
Like many others, I used to frequent much more often - we're talking stints of 3-4 times a month.
With the economy right now and the establishments either keeping their prices the same or pushing them up, I'm finding myself going less - once a month.
How do you guys hide any trace on you that you've been with another woman?
1 or 2 times per month usually, although through the recent holidays was more weekly.
That said, I am one of the lucky few as my wife is fully aware of the punting and has been for many years as we have been open/swingers together and separate (has even been known to contact regulars in years past and organise a birthday surprise).
Unfortunately, a few years ago she had a few medical issues and that has impacted her overall drive so she openly encourages me to enjoy myself as I feel or want to.
Feel you lads.
Stopped during covid but late 2022 got back into it and frankly have gone a little nuts, especially since I hit both the ML and WL scene. I reckon at least twice a week - need to actually tally the financial damage soon.
I was able to taper off slowly up til 2018… so plan to do the same this year once I get back from holidays.
Ideally once a week. Reality once every two/three weeks. Mainly recovering packet damage
Once a week for me normally. Doing twice a week currently while the partner is away.
Roughly every 2 - 3 weeks for me. Sometimes I stretch it out to 4 weeks but depends on what other things I am doing at the time...
Weekly. My partner thinks I gym 5 days a week Fter work. I swap one of my weekday work gym sessions for a massage.
Seems to be quite increased lately averaging at about 4 per month since Oct23 whereas in previous years it was 1-2 per month. Slot them in around my partners work schedule...
As I'm getting older my thinking is .... do it till you can't!
Economic factors impact punting more than anything else. Its harder to put away $200 without needing to spend it as opposed to finding time due to relationships
It does vary quite a bit, but on average maybe once a month
Does your wife just think you’re fapping in The shower?
When I had one partner in a two week cycle one and 3 so at least 4 per fortnight sometimes more.
Now with partners...plural...less than once a week.
Only 2 MLs in 2024 thus far
If the sex I good at home why would you stray?
Given that it’s not then the amount of punting depends on available money, time and testosterone.
Are there any other variables?
Usually doing once a fortnight. Recently, I started copy trading some traders so getting some extra money. Now, I'm doing atleast twice a fortnight.