Reply With QuoteDo other activities, like sport , fishing, with friends, make more friends in other social environment and hopefully there are many girls start talking and want to start a relationship with you.
In the last 3 weeks the longest I've ever gone without punting is 2 days and only because my wallet was empty.
I've spent over 2k in punting in the last 3 weeks. in terms of income its about 80%, 15% goes towards debts, 5% for spending. i work P/T night-shift but I'm getting hooked up with a daytime FT job. The only thing going through my head was that now i have enough money to punt 7-8+ times a week if i work both these jobs. Currently i punt about 4-5 days a week, but sometimes twice in one day and include doubles.
I've punted everyday since Friday except Sunday. About a month ago I've only had sex with 4 women in my life (all long-term relationships). Yesterday my count hit 21.
So how does a punting addict like myself cut down on the number of punts without resorting to porn?
Do other activities, like sport , fishing, with friends, make more friends in other social environment and hopefully there are many girls start talking and want to start a relationship with you.
yes you have a problem and that is too much punting bro-about a month ago i spent $1000 in 1 week which is crazy. Now i have a GF and havent been punting since we met but the urge is still there. So my advice would be to find a GF or you will go broke
Yeah keep yourself occupied, lately (actually for an entire year now) I've gone nuts on my wallet.
I've filtered my list down to like 3 regulars, 2 of whom are now like hardly working and 1 is on Holidays.
Im an addict also, I punt when im happy, i punt when im depress, and i punt when im bored, the point is i always find a reason to punt, its never enough, and i've been doing this for over 10yrs, while im in a relationship,Yes its an expensive problem, but i rather punt than gamble at the casino or take drugs. on average i punt 3 or 4 times per week also, bestofmyworld bro, i dont think you can stop punting, ever !!!
I spend $700 each week on 1 girl, she is not a wl, purely become my lover. I enjoy it, money you can earn, but good girl you hard to find in this world. I no longer to brothel
I hear ya bro. I haven't been punting for that long, try to keep some type of schedule...but man...on my way home, if I'm near a spot, especially one I've yet to visit...wallet goes open. Helps a bit (not a lot) to carry just a little amount of cash (of course, that may interfere w/other things in life).
Haha for a minute there I thought I had written the OP and forgotten about it. I was actually considering finding a part time job at one point to fuel the lifestyle. That said though, I only went a bit punt crazy this month because I just earned myself some financial freedom and felt I should celebrate by sleeping with hot chicks. Now that I have managed to blow through most of my income in a few weeks, reality has set back in, and I know I could not maintain such a intensive punting schedule without some sacrifices to other parts of my life. Just went back to my old hobbies and keeping myself occupied with a new project at work.
I also realised that the constant variety of women would probably mess with my head in the long term should I ever decide to get into a serious one woman relationship. I was finding that I was unable to cum reliably for my regulars no matter how good the service they were providing was. But give me a completely new lady and I would cum for her no problem. So now just taking it slow for a few weeks to get my brain reset and dick sensitivity back up.
A gf doesn't stop you from wanting to punt
Dick sensitivity. Lol.Originally Posted by SeniorCitizen
That's true.
I stopped for 2 weeks, then last weekend I had a session.
It's totally different feeling to when I punt wildly mid January - end of february. 5 times a week.
To bestofmyworld,
You are doing very well indeed, there is no problem to resolve. What better way to spend 80% of your income then in the company of girls that are only concerned for your happiness and genuinely care about your welfare. If anything you might be able to reduce your other expenses to raise your punting budget to 90% of your income - have you ever considered a tap water diet? The only issue that stands out is that you had a day where you missed out on punting so you might have dedication issues to deal with.
I think spending $1,000 in a week on punting is quite healthy. Now Im spending that just on one of them may be a problem. Intervention anyone?
yes i agree but it slows you down a bitA gf doesn't stop you from wanting to punt
Yes, it's healthy, depending on what is your income/budget.
Why not, because if you become regular, every session you have after the previous one, is a better one.
It also depends on your preferences. Some made a rule not to see a lady more than 3 times.
If that's your rule, then it's not healthy for you. And only for you.
You are not alone, it makes you want to earn more money ...
Well punting is adictive the more you punt the more you want to best thing to do a few of the wl have told me is to just punt now and then as a treat, mind you I havent taken there advise and its certainly none of my regulars that I see these days that tell me that.
Brother, it can be a negative in your life.
To some people, punting can be on your mind every waking moment and can stop you from doing all the normal things in life and can disassociate you from your friends, family, job etc and can negatively impact your rent/mortgage, buying groceries etc etc. Having a punting addiction is no different to a gambling or drug addiction in that it can affect the people around you and the quality of your life.
It's OK to have a laugh and no one here means anything malicious towards you, but if in your real world you feel like you shouldn't be punting and it is bringing you down or having a negative impact on your financial and social life, then you should seek to get professional help.
Heroin addicts dont think they have a problem until a massive life changing event happens and then they may seek to get help before it's too late. I dont think punting can be too different as it can lead to financial issues, social issues and these problems can spiral deeper like depression and worse.
It's how you feel and only you know whats going through your mind so if you really feel like you're punting too much and can't control it, i would think you need to get some help. Don't be ashamed. It takes a big person to ask for help.
There are a lot more guys on here for whom it is a problem than we realise. And many of them don't realise it.
I didn't realise it until one day it hit me. You'd think with the amount I punt I'd have a great life, but in fact my life is pretty fucking miserable. Sometimes I wonder why I bother getting up.
Haha, punting is an addiction alright, many years ago, together with heavy gambling, the two evils really stuffed up my life.
Luckily, i think i have successfully defeated the gambling problem - although i still bet on horses and footy but thats just a couple hundreds at a time rather than thousands and i dont go to Star City any more.......haha
Well i dont know once a week massage fix ( budget $100 to $150) can be called an addiction , sometimes i believe i am more addicted to the company of the ML rather than the massage or extras itself. Well thats still big money , easily over $6,000 a year and that could be spent taking the family to Bali or QLD for a nice holiday....lol
But i think if you are actually talking about it you are addressing the issue and thats already one positive step more forward than not.
I think if you cant stop doing it, as it is a physical basic need of man, you may as well try to control it and manage your finance better,
To restrict yourself to one punt or max two punts a week is a good start,
Just my 2 cents
Cheers
the best way for me to keep my punting under control is that my VELP (any Tim Minchin fans?) can see my cash flow and can see where my dollars are spent. Some may not like this but for me, it keeps me under control. If I could do anything I wanted with my money, it would be gone each week on sex, drugs and grog. SO by being accountable to someone else, it makes it very difficult for me to just go out and make $150 disappear with nothing to show for it. There's ways around it, putting $20 or $50 away every now and again and after 4 or 6 weeks there is $150 added up then i can spoil myself. This keeps me under control.
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