I have hardly ever been massaged by a male, may be only three times from memory:
One was in Sydney last year when my back was really hurting and my family doctor referred me to this Physio clinic, there were quite a few Physios there (a couple of reasonably hot looking Chinese lady - I am sure they are professionally qualified but I probably won't mind meeting any of them in some of my massage shops and have a RnT .............lol) but you don't get to choose who will treat you, I end up getting a guy from Taiwan, he was pretty good but I believe some of my favourite MLs such as Lisa and Candy would do a better job, but the visits were just to make the Mrs happy - well, I couldn't tell her where I go for all my massage treatments can't I !
A second time was earlier this year when I was in HongKong and my in laws recommended this elderly Chinese doctor to examine my back and gave me some treatments including cupping and acupunctures. It felt great during and right after the treatment and I went there twice but honestly, not much difference the next morning.
Another times was a few years back when my family was holidaying in Malaysia and I organised a massage session in our suite, but apparently in Malaysia or at least in this hotel, we can only have same sex masseures, like two female masseures were massaging my Mrs and my daughter in one room and a male masseure was massaging me in another room. it was all very enjoyable but I would much rather not being massaged by a guy !!
So, in response to your question, if I have a choice, I will never have a massage with a male !! I just can't feel totally relaxed under some guys hands............lol
It's just me.
Cheers
PS. Just to clarify, I had my pants on during all of the above circumstances !!