SeekingArrangments

[dubberjas]

Hey guys has anyone tried that site and if so whats the experience been like?

[Manackx]

I use it when my wife is away for an extended period, but it's not a cheap option unless you happy scrape the bottom of the psycho barrel.

It's a lot of effort but to weed out the crap but you can find what you're looking for. A lot of them chicken out at the last minute, so expect to be stood up quite a bit. Also it's a lot more like dating, except you almost always get laid on the first date. You don't just walk into a room and fuck, wining and dining is expected first, as well as you renting a nice hotel room. All of these costs can add up.

The upside is that for the price of a cup of coffee you can check the girl out before you put any money down.

There are basically 3 kinds of ladies you can find there.

The most numerous are the wannabe premium escorts and when you get through all the BS they are expecting usually between $300-$500 an hour.

The second most numerous are single mums which are a bit of a minefield as I've had some stalker like experiences from them but they are cheap and eager to please. Their bodies usually have some baby damage but if you can get past that I've found for around $150-$200 you can get a MILF for an entire day while her spawn is in school.

The third category and in my opinion the best are the university students. Some real gems out there. The girl I'm seeing currently from www.seekingarrangment.com I pay $300 if she stays with me all night and $500 to go away for the weekend. Plus hotel, dinner, drinks and breakfast. And don't expect she'll want the buffet. Expensive but it you're after an extended GFE with a 21 year old hottie it's probably the best you can do.

[BrainSex]

My trusty bullshit meeter is going off on this thread. Anyone with more than a few posts ever heard of this website?

[dubberjas]

BS, I understand I only have a few posts but we all have to start somewhere don't we? At least I am not asking questions that have already been asked rather than using the search button.

As for the website it seems pretty legitimate to me as a stripper I knew (wish I knew alot better) told me she saw my profile on there.

[dubberjas]

Btw Manack thanks for putting in your time on that review, I was kind of thinking along the same lines but nice to hear from someone who has used it.

[BrainSex]

I'm sure our forum will be rewarded with plenty of positive stories then.

[Puntersclub]

Had a look at the site, you can't do much for free. Most of the girls put a much higher value on their pussy than I do. ( I only want to rent it not buy it)

If you find a good WL and a good massage lady then why would you want to spend more than this on someone for dinner and a movie?

[BrainSex]

Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

[Puntersclub]

Lol, after my last massage I got lunch as well. If you are a regular you can soon find yourself spending more time than you should. I know when I am making good contact when they let slip their real name.

The point that I was trying to make is that I don't want to work for it and pay for it and I am time poor as a busy professional.

[BrainSex]

Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

[FunkyProfessor]

Howdy folks. I've had quite a bit of experience with Seeking Arrangement (SA) over the past 6 months, so thought I might be able to contribute something useful to this thread. Plus, it's either work on my thesis or write about sex. Its a no-contest really!

For the sake of credibility - yes, this is my first post on this forum however I am an active punter and contributor to other sites, with about 25 reviews to my name. Some may recognize my handle which is the same elsewhere. I have no affiliation with any site or service provider.

Since late 2011, I'd been seeing 'professional' escorts at least once a week and had developed a great rapport with a number of them to the point where I was enjoying correspondence/communication in between bookings. However, at the end of the day - none of them were able to, or wanted to maintain that level of interaction. So as much as I had been enjoying my time as a punter, I wanted something more. Not a relationship either (I'm in one), just something in between. A 'mistress' of sorts.

I can't recall how I first came across the site, just a random ad banner I suspect (see, they do work!). I'd never used a site like this and I was curious, so I joined up (in August), knocked up a profile outlining what I was seeking and paid what I considered to be a reasonable fee for a three-month membership, just to see how it all worked.

Since I joined back in August and now, I estimate that I would have met up with (just a drink/coffee) with about 30 women, aged between 18-35. Of those, about 20 progressed to the 'arrangement stage' i.e. the payment of an allowance (between $300-650 per week/meeting +hotel costs & other expenses) in exchange for companionship and 'intimate' time.

It was never my intention to see so many as I am serious about entering a long-ish term arrangement with one special person, and while I've met some great women - no one has yet to fully meet my criteria/expectations. The biggest issue that seems to get in the way, is finding mutually suitable times to meet. I am a professional that works quite long hours and studies, and given the majority of sugarbabes (SBs) I meet are students ( I was and STILL am one), I find it perplexing to find that they have such limited availability, or indeed - are quite inflexible. As the 'donor' it is my expectation that they will try and within my schedule as much as possible but to my frustration, that doesn't seem to be the case. Alas, I think it may be a bit of a Gen Y thing...

In terms of the time and effort involved in setting up an arrangement, my experience is that it really doesn't require too much. For starters I ensure that most of questions potential SBs are likely to ask are covered off somewhere in my profile. I'm quite clear, succinct and don't bullshit. I have generally found that I can progress to exchange of mobile numbers and arranging a face-to-face meeting within two emails.

I also ensure I have a selection of photos. Pics are a must. Most SB will not reply to, let alone initiate contact if you don't have at least one photo. And to me, this is perhaps where some of the salient differences between escorts and SBs emerge - that is, most will generally not establish an arrangement unless there is some degree of attraction and compatability. Or you are super wealthy! (I'm not). Despite this fact, it is still easy to argue that SBs are really only one step removed from professional escorts.

I say 'professional' to differentiate between those that actively promote and operate a sex services business (escorts), and those who generally provide sex with a one person or a select few, in exchange for an allowance to supplement/support their other income/interests. But it is a very fine line, I will admit. In fact, I have met one SB who referred to her Sugar Daddies as 'clients' as she had so many going at once. As far as I was concerned, she was a prostitute by any other name.

Anyway, I don't really want to get into a debate as to whether SBs are just another form of escort (most likely) or not, that's for another topic. I just wanted to provide an outline of my experience for those that are interested. As far as my situation goes, after kissing (and fucking :P ) a lot of (some very attractive) frogs, I may have found my perfect SB. At least, after tonight that should become much clearer

Best of luck to those of you are presently, or intending on trying SA. I've had a blast! I'd be happy to answer any questions readers may have.

FP.

[BrainSex]

Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

[FunkyProfessor]

Sure. Here's my profile on another site. Not sure if you can view it if you aren't a member. http://forums.punterplanet.com/user/...nky-professor/

[BrainSex]

Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

[Snork80]

Can you please post a link before my BS meter implodes.

I've seen the Professors user name in another forum I look in on from time to time.

[FunkyProfessor]

How's this BS. Satisfied now?

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[flamingmoose]

I'm familiar with FP's posts from other sites and this sounds like his "style" if that helps....

[BrainSex]

Decided to remove a lot of this stuff, really it's not relevant.

[brownwallaby]

I know when I am making good contact when they let slip their real name.

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true, the moment of truth is when they reveal their real name .... always love this

[wally2]

I also am aware of Funky P profile on the other forums and for what it's worth he is legit and is a great contributor.

The BS meter? Brain Sex or Bull Shite or both?

And before you make claims about newbies and lack of credibility I was on rthe format "old" forum under a different name before the new board.

Good Punting.