Terrible service!!!

[mrnic007]

Hi all.

Keep away from sexsyd. I had the worst experience Friday night. Booked a girl named Crystal at 7. I work in IT so someone as an engineer you get production issues.

One such issue came up and I was unable to make my booking and was only able to advise with shirt notice. Crappy on my side but I did re book for later that night.

Confirmed with the lady via wechat and proceeded to make my way into the city, took me 40 min, I get there the lady calls to confirm where to meet, I'm about 200 meters away. I get another call right after that asking where I come from, I saw Australia.

When I get there I call to no answer. Finally after a few calls I get a message advising the girl is worried I might be too big.

Now why did she wait all this time to say it now? Is it pay back for missing an earlier appointment?

I advise I'm only average and she has nothing to worry about. And that I travelled all that way so was willing to compromise for a massage and hj. Still no.

At this point I was not happy, told them I would write what happened here. She advised they would give me a discount with another girl. So I said that seems fair. Messaged her the next day, heard nothing back since.

Very poor management in my opinion, not sure how other brothers have experienced this company but I won't be going back.

I would avoid if I was you!!!

[scrawley]

ok dude the thing you need to realise is that when you cancel like that, particularly at the very last minute like you did, you are costing the girl real money. Seriously, you might as well have rummaged through her purse and snatched out a handful of $50 notes, because thats the end result of what you did! And then you expect to simply book her again later in the day lile nothing ever happened and for her to act like what you did was cool and acceptable?!? I'm not at all suprised that she refused to see you bro but I am shocked that you now have the balls to go running to aus99 and write up your snotty little whinge like you are the wronged party!!!

[Rpd]

ok dude the thing you need to realise is that when you cancel like that, particularly at the very last minute like you did, you are costing the girl real money. Seriously, you might as well have rummaged through her purse and snatched out a handful of $50 notes, because thats the end result of what you did! And then you expect to simply book her again later in the day lile nothing ever happened and for her to act like what you did was cool and acceptable?!? I'm not at all suprised that she refused to see you bro but I am shocked that you now have the balls to go running to aus99 and write up your snotty little whinge like you are the wronged party!!!

That is a little harsh. I am sure you have heard the saying 'don't count your chickens before they hatch', and I know escorts know not to assume a booking is like money in the bank.

Shit happens, and all we can do is manage the shit as best as we can to try to get an amicable result for both parties. Yes, it is fucked up to cancel a booking last minute, but rejecting the followup booking last minute is also throwing money away. This situation could have definitely been handled better by both parties.

[Kromm]

Ignoring the reasons mentioned in the story, both parties canceled at the last minute on the others so it s a fair outcome.

[mrnic007]

ok dude the thing you need to realise is that when you cancel like that, particularly at the very last minute like you did, you are costing the girl real money. Seriously, you might as well have rummaged through her purse and snatched out a handful of $50 notes, because thats the end result of what you did! And then you expect to simply book her again later in the day lile nothing ever happened and for her to act like what you did was cool and acceptable?!? I'm not at all suprised that she refused to see you bro but I am shocked that you now have the balls to go running to aus99 and write up your snotty little whinge like you are the wronged party!!!

I'm sorry white knight. I wrote that I know I was wrong too, and I didn't want the girl to lose out more which is why I rebooked, I didn't really want to punt after 12+ hours of work and then drive all the way into the city.

I didn't write a post here until two days later, after they completely ignore me trying to rebook, that is poor management, if they don't want me as a customer, which it what it looks like then just message me back.

I have nothing bad to say about the girl as we just works there and if she had issues and worried about size then I have no problem with that, and too worried for even a massage and hj, she has every right to reject. The management is what is poor here.

I don't recall seeing any posts about sexsyd on here, so I also wanted to see if anyone else has had a similar experience.

[hankypanky1124]

Last minute ditches are wrong. But as a buisness, it will happen. But to take out a revenge on a customer is not something that will benefit the buisness. Especially if they rebook.
Being too big is sometimes an issue with fs or bj. Never have i heard it being a problem otherwise.

As a customer you should have advised them sooner and apologised.also you should contact through the buisness phone not this chatting. Other than that you have others if you dont like.
But thanks for the notice and heads up, though thr buisness will still run. If it happens again at least you can say 'i told you so'

[wilisno]

Yep ! Canceling a booking at short notice will directly cause the shop and the girl to lose money. If you're a regular and the shop knows that you're not a serial offender, then they might just put up with it. Also it depends on how you approached the cancelation, if you made some effort to explain your difficulty and apologize sincerely, they would usually accept it, shit happens anyway. But if you gave them the impression that you're taking this cancelation lightly, then this is a polite way to say you're banned !

[mrnic007]

Yep ! Canceling a booking at short notice will directly cause the shop and the girl to lose money. If you're a regular and the shop knows that you're not a serial offender, then they might just put up with it. Also it depends on how you approached the cancelation, if you made some effort to explain your difficulty and apologize sincerely, they would usually accept it, shit happens anyway. But if you gave them the impression that you're taking this cancelation lightly, then this is a polite way to say you're banned !

I did feel bad and explained why I had to cancel. But like you said shit happens, and I haven't seen any posts before so might have just been a bad night for all. Definitely don't think my post here will impact their business, and hell we all have to eat and have bills to pay so I wouldn't want that anyways, so I would like to take my statement back of avoiding them. Take this as a cautionary tale.

[AHLUNGOR]

I did feel bad and explained why I had to cancel. But like you said shit happens, and I haven't seen any posts before so might have just been a bad night for all. Definitely don't think my post here will impact their business, and hell we all have to eat and have bills to pay so I wouldn't want that anyways, so I would like to take my statement back of avoiding them. Take this as a cautionary tale.

Hi brother nic,

I felt for you, this happened to me once through some mis communications between the shop and the lady and I ended up waited in the shop for an hour - why I didn't see another girl ? - well, lets just say that this young lady has very special talents and I only wanted to see her. Anyway, no hard feelings, I rebooked the next day and we kissed and made up - that's me and the girl of course!

BTW, you mentioned a few times that this agency has No previous review and yet you gave them a try, won't it be safer and more reliable if you made your booking with some of the more well known and well established shops of agencies like 5 Star Penthousr and MOC ??

Better luck next time!!

Ps. Just one more point , you mentioned in you OP that you told them if they don't accept your booking. You will be posting your treatment in Aus99 or something like that right ? That sounds like a threat to me and that could be the reason why they didn't want your business - so you can't even write a bad review about them ! Just a thought !

Cheers

[hankypanky1124]

Oh the might ahl to top things off. Btw where is your usual 2 cents? Just spent it on a punt?

[aussiegaigin]

Cancelling a booking at short notice is not good form, but sometimes it is unavoidable. At least he did the right thing and let them know as soon as he could. Ask any restaurant owner how many bookings they have taken and the customers don't turn up and don't even bother to notify.

And let's not forget how many shops take bookings, then allow the girl to extend or leave early, leaving the customer in the lurch.

[GoldfishMan]

I'm not so sure that the shop canceling on the OP was revenge. It was an assumption on the part of the OP.
Looking at the sequence of events, I'd say the only thing the shop did that may have been faulted was not checking if the bro was Western before accepting the booking. If they had checked earlier, this drama would've been averted. Also the OP's threat to write a bad review wasn't nice at all. So I'm with the shop here.
On a side note, I'm always intrigued by girls who don't allow western customers for fear of them being too big. That must mean the girl is too small.... Must be a tight fit!! ;-)

[CunningLinguist]

Cancelling can happen, as long as you let them know it should be ok.
If you get a reputation for cancelling you should be banned.
If the shop treats you bad for cancelling then avoid the shop and let everyone know ...
Personally I have never cancelled, I delayed once by 30mins and the shop was happy I let them know.

I remember a private WL telling me once that 50% of her clients cancel.

[fggd]

If you can't make it by the appointment time but thinking of book again, guess better tell the shop you want to reschedule rather than cancel, that way seems more reliable than cancellation in short notice.