First no cum - is there something wrong with me!?!?!

[MrSeven]

Hey fellow brothers,

So i went to a certain shop tonite and took up another brothers recommendation.. But the girl wasnt my type.

I like a girl to initiate, instead she talked for like 20 mins and kept saying how im too attractive and stupid for spending money.. And just kept staring at me.

Finally got to the bj, it was ok nothing like what i anticipated. I couldnt get ino it and couldnt get hard. We fucked for 5 mins i was half cast for most of it and then stopped. Next thing buzzer went and all she just kept saying sorry and didnt try to finish me off - not that i asked.

She just wasnt for me.. I dont think im into jap girls.

So went to 5 star after feeling like id lost my manhood not cumming and all.
Chose whisky, knew she had good reviews. She sucked me off like a demon it was great!!!! We Went to fuck and i got soft again like immediately after she stopped blowing me!? Fucked her for a bit that was good and got a bit harder but wasnt at 100% hardness. Buzzer went - then asked if she could finish me - she did alright. Hard deep bbbj til i came - and i came rivers. Bjjj to completion.

Any way i left satisfied and good receptionist brother was on. But i cant for the life of me understand whats wrong with me??? Maybe too much wanking??

Can a brother help?

MrSeven

[wilisno]

Hey fellow brothers,

So i went to a certain shop tonite and took up another brothers recommendation.. But the girl wasnt my type.

I like a girl to initiate, instead she talked for like 20 mins and kept saying how im too attractive and stupid for spending money.. And just kept staring at me.

Finally got to the bj, it was ok nothing like what i anticipated. I couldnt get ino it and couldnt get hard. We fucked for 5 mins i was half cast for most of it and then stopped. Next thing buzzer went and all she just kept saying sorry and didnt try to finish me off - not that i asked.

She just wasnt for me.. I dont think im into jap girls.

So went to 5 star after feeling like id lost my manhood not cumming and all.
Chose whisky, knew she had good reviews. She sucked me off like a demon it was great!!!! We Went to fuck and i got soft again like immediately after she stopped blowing me!? Fucked her for a bit that was good and got a bit harder but wasnt at 100% hardness. Buzzer went - then asked if she could finish me - she did alright. Hard deep bbbj til i came - and i came rivers. Bjjj to completion.

Any way i left satisfied and good receptionist brother was on. But i cant for the life of me understand whats wrong with me??? Maybe too much wanking??

Can a brother help?

MrSeven

Too much wanking !

[rooter]

Hey man, i could be wrong about this but I have noticed nearly all your posts centre around blowjobs.

Who gives the best bj?, who gives the filthiest bj? etc.

And your ARs seem to involve more bjs than fucking.

Maybe you are just more into blowjobs than fucking.

I am not saying that's good or bad, but its the impression I get from your posts.

[MrSeven]

I think thats the case bro. Dont get me wrong i like to fuck - but i think thats my favourite thing. To be honest it concerns me because unless ur doing 69 its very selfish and one way. I dont think i can change that about me??

[gimpy]

You've probably got the AIDS.

[MrSeven]

Wtf? Thats not that funny bro gimpy. It actually errks me that i like bjs more than sex? Is this the case for any other brother? Sorry to make this thread digress

[silverfox1985]

Well. I have problem of not getting hard.

Some good bros in this forum suggested me to stop watching porn and wanking. I have been stopping watching porn for 2mths and trying to wank less and less. Hope this helps

[AHLUNGOR]

Hi Brother Seven,

Don't worry, you'll right tomorrow!

But then again, there could be other obvious reasons too, and I hope you have a good sense of humour...............lol

And this is why:

Top 3 Best Ginza Girls - Cassie/Eli/Prada - BBBJ/DTBBJ

MOST EPIC BBBJ - U Vote!

Hottest WHITE/CAUCASIAN WL's - BBBJ included

TOP 5 GIRLS. For looks and BBBJ/sex

Styles - WHO'S HOTTEST BY FAR - your pick (you didn't say BBBJ here but this is a BBBJ/CIM only shop!!)

Jennifer - Busty, friendly, great bj!

Any shops offer BBBJ in bris?

Fei Fei - WILD BJJJ!!??!! Up there with the best.

[Styles] BBBJ Bar Girls - Who's good for what

Which WL's suck like a hoover?

5 star - Best Deepthroaters??

Keen for some bbbj action.

And last but not least:

Who likes filthy Blowjobs??? I do!

I think the answer to your situation is up there somewhere, is it not ??

Could it be just toooooooo much of a good thing !!

[MrSeven]

Haha yeh probably. I think ive brainwashed myself with porn. Maybe ill try going of it too.
Nice wrap of all my posts ahlungor - im guessing u didnt write that off memory?

[AHLUNGOR]

Hey man, i could be wrong about this but I have noticed nearly all your posts centre around blowjobs.

Who gives the best bj?, who gives the filthiest bj? etc.

And your ARs seem to involve more bjs than fucking.

Maybe you are just more into blowjobs than fucking.

I am not saying that's good or bad, but its the impression I get from your posts.

Haha, brother rooter,

I think we doctors have cum up with the exact diagnosis on brother Seven's situation, but I hate it when you stole my thunder, my post just took much longer to cut and paste man!!!!!

You're too quick and too good mate!!

Cheers

[AHLUNGOR]

Haha yeh probably. I think ive brainwashed myself with porn. Maybe ill try going of it too.
Nice wrap of all my posts ahlungor - im guessing u didnt write that off memory?

I did remember the last one off the top of my head though, you filthy little Blow Jobee ............haha

[cisco]

All the thread were there, i will see the answer. Whats next?

[MrSeven]

Hhahha ahlungor. I like to write a good "head"line bahaha.

[Clinton]

It happens sometimes. As long as it is less than half of the time, there is nothing wrong with u. Just don't let it get into your mind, next time you punt because it could reinforce itself.

The baby member who talked about AIDS is totally insane. It is not fun to scare people like that.

[AHLUNGOR]

There was one day recently (within the last month), I went to the pub, had a beer, then went to a shop and had a session with one of my regular MLs, had a nice massage as usual and then just a quickie HJ. She is usually very good with her hands and always gave me a very happy ending, but for some unknown reasons, I couldn't cum that day and she was going to try a few other tricks on me..............that could have been great but her next booking was already waiting as we had over run so we just left it at that.............lol

A couple of weeks later, back for another session and we both laughed at what happened last time, didn't try to do too much too differently and I cum right when she wanted me to. Mission Accomplished !!

There you go, it happens, and no names mentioned of course...........haha

And this is not a review, although its a true story

Cheers

[igloo]

Wtf? Thats not that funny bro gimpy. It actually errks me that i like bjs more than sex? Is this the case for any other brother? Sorry to make this thread digress

Wtf? Thats not that funny bro gimpy. It actually errks me that i like bjs more than sex? Is this the case for any other brother? Sorry to make this thread digress

Generally speaking I like getting a bj from a WL more than sex with a WL. Actually I do enjoy both, but If I had to choose its BJ all the way!!

The bj can be great/filthy/sensual/deep/loving etc... even a combination. Then if she has given it her best I will have developed some temporary feelings or whatever and can fuck her in a way that is better for both of us.

I don't enjoy the sessions where its lie down, on with rubber, short, mechanical unenthusiastic bj then legs open and fuck. This seems to be more common at Cauc shops (my experience), but that was all I knew for most of my life.. Then one nite I was holed up at some Sydney hotel (for work) and pulled out the daily telegraph, called a girl and a walking disaster turned up, for some reason I paid and after 3 minutes with her sniffling and trying to get me hard by telepathy I got up called the boss said this wasn't right...refund all but $50 and rang the next advert.

As luck or fate would have it, I spoke to a Japanese chick (who I now know is Chinese) got her to promise promise promise she would send what she described and 25 minutes later Sakura from the old Tokyo Cats lobbed up in an overcoat covering a white vinyl jumpsuit... She sucked my cock and balls dry for my first and third shot We fucked brilliantly for the second> I was really happy.

As she was leaving Sakura told me to come to the shop coz she had friends... and that was that good bye Charlie. I got addicted to doubles... I was never dished up a unenthusiastic girl and was copping blowjobs from 3-4 chicks a week plus the most exciting sex of my life when I was home... I was coming so much that each shot was 1/4 of what usually came out

Over time I found that going from bbbj to condom application for f/s became more and more of a hassle with flaccidity... So if there was a delay or sometimes even without a delay I went soft, it was off with the dom and back to suction, and back to wood. Definitely a mental thing because in my mind I was not going up in excitement but rather going down a level. So the fix (for me) was stick to bj to completion. Plus I was weaning myself off the doubles. Doubles can be a mugs game where 2 girls each do half as much a they would normally do, but at TC it was romper stomper, debauchery like the Roman Empire times, the effort was squared fantasy sessions, the likes of which I had never experienced before or since.....

Lots of positives came from this, in particular I got into the habit of discussing the need for anyone I saw to be skilled and actually enjoy, or pretend to enjoy sucking cock. One thing I found was that from this time on, if I was with a regular WL say 4 or 5 times and then on the sixth said I want to fuck you today ..there was something supercharged about that sex.

I guess everyone deals with things in their own way, I have compartmentalized punting and that together with the fact that punting was mostly blowjobs (things change) made it easy for my Swiss cheese like consience to deal with whatever it needed to deal with.

As you say it probably is a little selfish, but but at the end of the day at $150 or so for the hour it is about you, but the good girls become your regulars and things change there as well.

Nothing wrong with you, Gimpy on the other hand needs a bullet.

[santos]

NO. nothing wrong. i am the same with you...

[Littlewonder]

90% of good sex is in the mind so getting hard is mostly in the mind particularly as you get older the thing is not to think about failure just be positive think of the things you like the things that turn you on and picture the girl as the greatest prettiest thing you have ever been with think how lucky you are to be with that girl and why you picked her and dont be selfish look after her it always works for me.

[the wizard]

90% of good sex is in the mind so getting hard is mostly in the mind particularly as you get older the thing is not to think about failure just be positive think of the things you like the things that turn you on and picture the girl as the greatest prettiest thing you have ever been with think how lucky you are to be with that girl and why you picked her and dont be selfish look after her it always works for me.

Good advice Littlewonder, if is something does not go to plan, stay upbeat and positive, don't be hard on yourself and the girl, don't dwell on it, try to make the best of the moment.
It can be a mind game
If you start to worry then your "never gonna finish the business"

I only need to have a young beautiful naked body next to mine, on top, below and I'm happy

I'm easily pleased !!!!!

[jellyshots]

Maybe it's an intimacy thing. I enjoy BBBJ way more than CIP with condomn on but if the girl lets me DFK while covered CIP, everything works out fine. When I do FS, I bring my own condomns (Crown) so I don't have to put up with the crappy rubber glove ones - and to prevent the WL complaining if we happen to go through a few during our session.