Advice needed

[CBD Posh]

To be honest, as Asian, no one can see his GF doing massage as living.
Coz we care too much abt everything , not only between u two,
Also the things & ppl around us.

But if u really into her, than u can change it in a nice way like,
Open a massage for her, hire her like a manager or something.
As human being, we all need money.

Seems like u keep thinking abt her and how embarrassing the situation was.
So didn't show up in our shop...our girls all miss u~
Oh, am I going too far? Maybe watched too many K-drama.

But if u only wanna have fun with her, why u care so much .
Just u knew her from outside of the shop ?
If u imagine it in different order then u might get used to it.
Lots of guys try to date our innocent young gals in our shop .
Hope this helps a bit, see u around ~

[AHLUNGOR]

To be honest, as Asian, no one can see his GF doing massage as living.
Coz we care too much abt everything , not only between u two,
Also the things & ppl around us.

But if u really into her, than u can change it in a nice way like,
Open a massage for her, hire her like a manager or something.
As human being, we all need money.

Seems like u keep thinking abt her and how embarrassing the situation was.
So didn't show up in our shop...our girls all miss u~
Oh, am I going too far? Maybe watched too many K-drama.

But if u only wanna have fun with her, why u care so much .
Just u knew her from outside of the shop ?
If u imagine it in different order then u might get used to it.
Lots of guys try to date our innocent young gals in our shop .
Hope this helps a bit, see u around ~

Haha, sounds like good advices !!

Or did you just give away all the trade secrets !!

[CBD Posh]

Haha, sounds like good advices !!

Or did you just give away all the trade secrets !!

Omg, u always take it wrong ~
But I'm just too straightforward.
No one made it yet...
Maybe half of the guys will try to ask our girls out,
Same things happened at nite clubs after got tipsy.
Obviously nothing serious, coz they don't lose anything after they got rejected~
Even the chance is like 99%.

Good luck wif all the boys , hope one day they will make it,
Then happily live together~ like an happy ending~hahaha

[cisco]

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[the_boss_king]

Dude call her, she isn't going to call you. Are you a man?

im a hell of a man, the name says it all

but its hard to be cool in front of someone you actually have feelings for.

[the_boss_king]

I have been following this thread, didn't think anything good is gonna come out of this - and if you ask for a quick response from me - it's simple: Move on and forget about her !

But then the replies kept coming and brother TBK saw the lady again and reading between the lines, you certainly can not get her out of your mind, so I thought, may be I can put in my few cents as a older but not necessarily wiser guy to a younger brother:

1. You really love her, and couldn't care less what she is doing, you want her ! OK if you can live with the fact that she has been a K-shop girl, then nothing or no one should stop you and you both deserve a chance, you to let her know of your feeling and your willingness to accept and support her, she may continue to work if you can live with that or you can support her financially so that she can stop working - the rest is between you too, none of our business really, and good luck to both of you !!

2. You just want to fuck her or see her naked body and play her for all you can, you don't look down on her, but you just want to have fun - fair enough, go to the shop and see her, provided that she is willing to see you too - I think you two may be living in similar social circle - both Korean or she Korean and you Asian, so this could be awkward but manageable, you can be just open and honest with her, go tell her that you are adult male and you have needs and she is an adult lady while working in the adult industry, it is just providing a service to the community and totally legal in NSW. You guys can be friends and while your relationship may not progress into a "Friends with Benefits" or "Fuck Buddy" type, but if you can remain just friends outside of work but she will be happy to see you as a customer in the shop - then this is outcome will be as good as it gets, and really close to a perfect happy ending. What happens from there, no one will know, as long as both parties are happy and open and honest - again , good luck to both of you. Just the private business between two consenting adults.

3. Any other thoughts or relationships or friendships you may be thinking but Not either of the above - then my advice to you is to move on and forget about her.


Just my three cents,

Cheers

thanks for your well thought out reply. and thanks for following the thread.

you sound like you may have been in this situation before?

is this where you get your knowledge from?

[the_boss_king]

To be honest, as Asian, no one can see his GF doing massage as living.
Coz we care too much abt everything , not only between u two,
Also the things & ppl around us.

But if u really into her, than u can change it in a nice way like,
Open a massage for her, hire her like a manager or something.
As human being, we all need money.

Seems like u keep thinking abt her and how embarrassing the situation was.
So didn't show up in our shop...our girls all miss u~
Oh, am I going too far? Maybe watched too many K-drama.

But if u only wanna have fun with her, why u care so much .
Just u knew her from outside of the shop ?
If u imagine it in different order then u might get used to it.
Lots of guys try to date our innocent young gals in our shop .
Hope this helps a bit, see u around ~

hahahahahhahaha how embarrassing you know who i am.

i really didn't expect that, your actually quite smart !

and you watch korean dramas? aren't you chinese though?

[Bawal]

Just move on TBK. ALG has a god status for a reason

[the_boss_king]

Omg, u always take it wrong ~
But I'm just too straightforward.
No one made it yet...
Maybe half of the guys will try to ask our girls out,
Same things happened at nite clubs after got tipsy.
Obviously nothing serious, coz they don't lose anything after they got rejected~
Even the chance is like 99%.

Good luck wif all the boys , hope one day they will make it,
Then happily live together~ like an happy ending~hahaha

you should think of me as that 1%, shouldn't you be worried I'm gonna woo your girls away lol

[aznbreaka]

Damm brother you must really like her

[garfield]

i still haven't decided whether or not to call her yet, or wait for her to talk to me.

i probably could support her, but thats a big step for anyone in a relationship, don't you think?

and one of the things i respected about her most before we met, was that she was a strong independent woman.

i don't know if it would be the same if i were to do that for her, she'd be like every other girl then

You need to understand what you are prepared to do. Talking to her prematurely will only get worst.

If you truly love her and willing to support her then tell her your proposition so she can decide.

Otherwise best to leave her alone so she can have peace in doing her work without being reminded of the shame she felt about her line of work.

I found that many girls working in this industry aren't proud of what they are doing and psychologically they will reject anyone who will remind them of that fact.

[lockhart]

$$$$$ is the only motivation(objective) that girls get into this industry. To support or not just be prepared that they will disappear once goals are met!

[cisco]

They will be back to the job once the one who support her is disappear too

[pepefirstlove]

Just move on TBK. ALG has a god status for a reason

Classic!

Me like.

[lockhart]

They will be back to the job once the one who support her is disappear too

So TRUE! SAD?!

[jediknight4ever]

Ok so if you and her are both Korean or from the same Country in Asia.
Then don't call her, who knows you might bump into her one day
when she'll actually not a ML. She would appreciate your patience
and understanding whatever reason(s) she had. That been said
yeah just move on and forget about her, plenty of octopussy in the sea.

Otherwise if she's Korean and you're not then you can do whatever,
cause it's highly unlikely that you'd end up together in the long run.
I'm Chinese and I know that most Koreans tend to stick to their own.
If you get past the first round, you'd still have the big boss (in-laws) to face.

Also if you can't get her out of your head then it wouldn't hurt for you to just
text and ask her if she wants to chat. Her response(or not) will be the answer.
No good things come to those who wait. (I know I just contradicted myself but meh)

[the_boss_king]

i like this, a lot of honest opinions. thanks for all the advice. they will all be considered thoroughly.

[Spe]

Good luck bro tbk... Your happiness is in your hands. There is no right or wrong answer. Live life with no regrets...

[cisco]

Good luck bro tbk... Your happiness is in your hands. There is no right or wrong answer. Live life with no regrets...

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[TMC (free cage girl)]

yeah if any of the bros could ever be so kind, and help a brother out with his thoughts on something...

i was seeing a girl at the start of the year, and i really really liked her.

we broke up because she said she was starting anew job and she was really ashamed of it.

(have in mind that she was a normal girl the whole time we knew each other.)

anyway she full stopped talking to me and messaging me as she said from now she will be busy.

i haven't heard or seen her for many months.

than BOOM ! last night i went k massage. she walks in the line up. she sees me and runs out the room faster than the flash.

i was shocked, i couldn't believe it. the whole day night and even till today I've been saying "NO FREAKING WAY".




Has this kinda thing ever happened to any of you guys?

how do you react to this?

do i try call her or message her?

please tell me your thoughts brothers

how did you meet the girl?
why you still like her? and why didn't talk with your GF at the massage shop?

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