Reply With QuoteDo something til you sick and tired about it.
Eg,. Go msg place 3times a day. 7days in a low...
When i was addicted in laksa.. I did it and i nailed it.
Every time I go to get a massage, I walk out afterwards feeling horrible and like I wasted my money. On rare occasions I feel content afterwards, if the massage was good, but even then I still feel deep guilt and regret. Every time I go I say this is the last time I will ever do this, and then a few weeks later the feeling comes back and I tell myself that I said I would never do it again, but can't resist the urge. Please help me as I desperately want to quit doing this. If anyone can offer any words or things to try I am open to everything!
thanks
Do something til you sick and tired about it.
Eg,. Go msg place 3times a day. 7days in a low...
When i was addicted in laksa.. I did it and i nailed it.
I am sick and tired of it - but when the urge comes back it's SO hard to fight it.
Try a 30 Day Challenge
Whether your addiction is sugar, or junk food from McDonalds, or anything, make the committment for the next 30 days to find alternatives for what your are addicted to
Instead of sugar, eat something healthy
Instead of spending your time getting a massage, take time to meet new people, maybe finding a girlfriend
30 day challenge. Even if you fail, you have made it a medium - long term objective to change
'To change your life, you have to first change yourself'
Peace
Its funny how we start to hate ourselves, when really we need to be loving ourselves
We all have bad habits
Change is difficult, particularly when bad habits give us comfort
Love yourself no matter what the flaws
You deserve a good life, no matter what other people think
Inner strength is elusive, once you have lost it
But it is regained with determination and optimism
But you need to first be your own best friend
Peace
try a tranny, it will put you off for months at least!
You have friends here bro
Maybe not in the best position to be helping you
But friends nevertheless
Haha ! That was what I was about to suggest, you beat me to it !Originally Posted by Christmas
Or switch to FS instead of massage, go see Christmas first up !
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Identify why you feel bad: is it the perception you've wasted money?, do you feel somewhat guilty because of your upbringing? (you're not a catholic, are you?), do you feel like you've been exploited or that you've exploited someone? But you need to work out why you feel bad before you can work out what to do about it.. Like Harmony said, just replace it with other stuff if you feel so bad about it.. If you can't break the habit look at it like a service, you're just outsourcing a wank, what's so bad about that? Anyway, good luck with it
I don't know what to say to you bro.
I always feel fucking fantastic after a punt.
Why the guilt? Why the regret?
You are doing nothing wrong.
Just enjoy it.
Have a punt today, shoot a load, and then just strut down the street, feeling fucking awesome!
Good idea! Gam sam nee da~>_<Haha ! That was what I was about to suggest, you beat me to it !
Or switch to FS instead of massage, go see Christmas first up !
Interestingly that you come to a punters website to get help from other addicts! Haha
Maybe you should start at home and spice up your sex life with your partner.
If you are married and have family to raise and mortgage to pay off - you should stop punting
If you are single and in "sincere" relationship and yet to own your home - you should stop punting
If you are single and have no girl friend , plan to flirt around till ..... then continue.. Otherwise stop and save up!
If you want to stop punting then all you need to do is don't hold too much cash on you. Since most massage places accept cash only. don't withdraw more than $50 at any time.
If you frequent a joint that accepts cards, put a small limit on your credit card per transaction. If you can't pay for it, you can't punt.
Info provided is based on my limited knowledge and personal opinions and may or may not be correct, please do your own research and make the phone calls to double check.
Happy punting!
Self control??
Do you smoke or gamble ? Can you quit ? Hard to right ?
No harm to your health with a bit of RnT so why quit . Enjoy it..😋😋😋
May harm your pocket but for me it beats smoking or gambling.
i fap to korean fancam girls when i want massage / fs but too lazy to go out
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d3lD...qOcZsw54Nxhnmh
works everytime but the only side effect is u become a koreanphile
Good luck with your quest bro.
The advice I can give you is to keep your mind busy and whenever you feel the urge to go for a punt do something specific like exercise or go for a walk, this will keep your mind clear. I'm making use of my Ps4 and extensive media library myself.
For me I want to stop because it doesn't feel right and not satisfying any longer. Add the money and moral feelings and I'm closer to quiting for good then I have ever been.
You can always rub one out too!
Find another hobby and just get full on with it ...
Like fishing ...
In my opinion,
Just go with the too expensive to punt option.. Put all your money in term deposits or share market or just spend it can do much without the $&
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