Reply With QuoteTo be or not to be!!Originally Posted by xxbbccxx
To fuck or not to fuck??
What would you do if you encounter this situation?
Your thoughts please...
To be or not to be!!
To fuck or not to fuck??
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My side of thinking is:
To say or not to say!
It all depends on my original question, did you fuck her?
If you did, then better keep quiet.
If you didn't, then depends on your friendship with your mate, if you are true buddies, you have to tell him mate!!
Or ask yourself this question: if your girl friend is working and you didn't know, would you prefer your mate tells you the truth before you're in too deep?
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Give her the porking you always wanted, then go have a beer with your mate, then pat yourself on the back about what a fantastic day you've had.
As the old saying goes, "Nobody thanks you for bringing bad news"...I'd steer clear and play dumb regardless who's GF she is!!
Whats the question?
You saw her at a shop, do you tell? Does your bro know you punt? does your bro punt? I would wana know if was me, wouldnt want a working GF. Lots of concerns around dating a working girl. Her safety, his safety, his health (you could say her health, but she is taking a known risk, he isnt, maybe). having a GF that is willing to fuck other dudes whilst in relationship and activily doing it and Why would you be willing to let your GF fuck other dudes. I suppose it all depends if you happy to say how you found out? You could ask him to go with/take you to the shop for a punt. She might come out in line up, probably cause a scene though and most shop have cams in waiting room, she might not come out.
Or You found out she's a working girl and you wana fuck her? Regardless if WL or not you shouldn't cut your mates grass, ever.
The best solution is to organise a night out with the boys and pick the shop to go punting... have your buddy there and have him find out that his gf is WL! then its not your fault is it??
If she is hot, i'd do her first, then tell him! haha
I'm with Chucky on that one.
I disagree i would hope my friends would tell me. For a WL to be in this industry and have a BF and he has no idea is just wrong. Also the unsuspecting BF is at risk of catching something. I know of one WL who worked Valentines day till from 10 till 6 and then went out on date with BF. Thats just not right.
The question does not clarify if the friend knows that is GF is a WL.
he says to say or not to say-so the friend doesn't know
I think that if he's a friend and you should tell him, if he doesnt know that you punt then I guess its up to you to decide how good of a friend he is to you for him to know your secret. I know for some men its a fantasy to bang a friends gf but I think if he's a good friend you shouldnt cross that line.
Yes the question is: "he says to say or not to say-so"
But that does not necessarily mean the friend does not know. He may just not be advertising it. Which would be understandable.
The question is: How good of a friend are you?
If you want to address this issue without hurting your friend, irrespective whether he knows or not, what you should do in my opinion is...
Ask the girl whether he knows or not and tell her about your dilemma.
If yes, then you can talk to your friend (if you're ok to tell you punt).
Just make sure he knows you're happy for him if he's happy with her. Also that the word does not get around from you, if that is what he wants.
If not, then ask her what her intentions are:
Is she serious about it? Is she planning on telling and when? Is she planning a career change?
What are her actions after the talk?
Consider also how long have they been together? Is this time enough to make decisions on career change?
Based on her answers you then have to make a decision on whether and when to talk to your friend.
If you want to stay friends... regardless whether you talk to him or not...
don't go banging her... don't try and squeeze her to have sex with you.
There has gotta to be plenty of other girls, so that you don't have to take advantage of the situation.
If he finds out (and believe me he will), he'll never forgive you. Then again... how good friends are you?
That's just my opinion... which often in this world is disregarded.
This is how it goes. I saw her many months ago while drunk and had no idea who she was. She just looked incredibly familiar.
I thought she got out of the industry but is now back.
She's not doing it for "family reasons" or "anything heroic". Just purely so that she can have that extra dollar when needed to buy some expensive bags or something extravagant. I clearly feel bad for the bf. But, as the saying goes "Nobody thanks you for bringing bad news".
Hence, I did annonymously FB her to tell her she should change her career. Her being back is just DUMB. If she is reading this, you know who you are and just either change ur bf and/or leave the industry.
Other thing is that I've decided not to see that friend as much after I found out what I did that night. Everytime I see them on the street, I need to do a 360 degrees turn which is seriously annoying cuz it happens quite a bit.
And NO, that particular friend doesn't know I punt. He's such a freaking goodie goodie... I also doubt whether the gf remembers me or not (which is good).
Also, we ain't the best best BFF's. But I'd certainly consider him a mate.
Shit. What a dilemma. 360 sounds like a good idea.
Some of the comments suggested here are mean and sickening and have total disrespect for the woman involved by assuming she is just a money grabbing slut.
We are better than this
So it's OK to punt and lie to your wife or gf but it's not OK for a WL to work and have a bf? Some of the comments here are so hypocritical.
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