Hey Ococpunt, yes, i've had quite a bit of experience with this. Sadly, there are quite a few who will say they do tantra but they have no idea. The first time I tried it was in Cairns many years ago by a kiwi woman. It was indescribably pleasurable. She stated that the goal of tantra was not the orgasm so not to be disappointed if i didn't cum. fuck me rome, cum? It is the first time I've ever had multiple orgasms. unbelievable. i later did a tantric massage course in melbourne which gave the similar spiel about orgasm and again the massuese worked her shit to finish with the most incredible lingam massage that again left me with multiple orgasms - 4 within 10 mins. The course went for a couple of months and included much detail around chakras, breathing, massage technique and of course bonding with your partner. i've been to others here in Brisbane, but none reached the heights that either the chicks in Cairns or Melbourne did. there was one at Beenleigh years ago but i haven't seen her advertising for some time. I went to her and her technique was nothing like those i'd experienced before and she just seemed more focussed on a vigorous almost sports-like massage with plenty of prostate massage - not what i'd call tantra. i have noticed someone advertising bondassage and tantrassage here which could be interesting and if she knows her tantric shit would be worth going to, but i haven't gotten around to seeing her so can't comment. My advice is that if you can find a true tantrika then go for it. But tantra is far more than the ending, it is a truly holistic experience so keep your mind open when you go in. Certainly ask them if they are a genuine tantrika, where they studied etc and google the shit out of it to verify. I should also point out that there is such a thing as riding the wave of bliss. Even after having multiple orgasms I rode this wave for days where it was almost sub-orgasmic. Truly an experience.