Quote Originally Posted by garfield View Post
I think if you pay for a nude hj, it is acceptable to touch, just don't be too rough or try to touch pussy. I'd in doubt you can always ask, and they will tell you. If you ask nicely usually not an issue.
Hmm, I personally don't like going by hard and fast rules like this, just because different people have different sensibilities and expectations, and what one ml might find acceptable, another might want to slap you for.

I don't like going down the route of asking if touching is ok, just in case I end up looking like a creep with a ml wearing a bad attitude for an hour. I like blackbird's approach of putting in the effort to build rapport, then after some time, taking baby steps and working my way up from there. Though I have to say, it's not like I make it my mission to eventually grope a ml everytime I punt.