I'm seeing a girl, I think she's an escort

[Maxybro]

Do you seriously think Snoop Dogg is a good source of wisdom?

Syd99 is not exactly full of wisdom either.

[James_jones]

And the fact that you already are having sex! One would think if she is a WL or escort, she would have more sex than she needs?

"Normal" women have an entourage of beta orbiters they don't fuck and then other guys they do (alphas). They use the former for feels and validation (and moving house/etc) and the latter for sex and different sort of feels.

Your assumption is that clients provide sex in the way WL want and that they only require some orbiters for feels and validation. While a small % clients might it would probably a reasonable assumption that overall they do not. They either are not attractive - especially to higher SMV women - or because they pay they devalue themselves in her eyes. This leaves room for guys who can provide the equivalent of what alphas would provide to a "normal" woman. They might find some through work but depending on the girl this might not be possible - he is worth "less" in her mind because he started paying her.

[ksteve_m28]

How was the daily communication,..texts...
As punter, we can know the working hours of wl/ml.escort... how busy is she? Are that interval hour break? Can you talk to her all the time?
Either way, it's been a month.... a real scam would have move on after 30 days...

[Punterman]

Hey all
I met this beautiful Korean girl on eHarmony.
We have been seeing each other for over a month now.
Sex is great, too good maybe, like she knows a lot.
She knows nothing about my past. I can't seem to find out anything about her.
I can't see her during the week, only on Saturdays.
She always makes excuses when I ask her to meet my friends.
She has her own apartment and car in Olympic Park but she's still a student as well????
She's been here about 9 years she says, has PR but still speaks bad English.
I'm suspicious.
I need advice please.
How will I know?
Her name is Ellie.
Thanks

Pm me her number. I live in Olympic Park and I will try and book her

[rooter]

Relax bro, it could be worse, she could be a lawyer, or worse still a real estate agent.

[cassius]

i'm with rooter. do you enjoy being with her or not? and if you want to advance the relationship then the question is, do you take the (admittedly big) risk to discuss what's happening?

[123brainer]

Why do you want to know ? What have you got to lose ? If nothing to lose, just enjoy the moment while you can !

Agreed, enjoy it

[puntercouple]

Koreans are a close-knit society. If she is single, rich, young, hot, good in bed and on eHarmony and dating a non-Korean, let alone a non-Asian; chances are that nobody in the Korean community wants to date her for some reason... probably a good reason too. Maybe she's a former hooker, maybe she's a serial cheater, etc. I suggest you keep your guard up and your eyes peeled.

You also said that you've been seeing her for about a month and you meet up weekly. In total you have met her approx. 5-6 times, and you've had many sex sessions? If that's the case, don't hope for a serious relationship. Normal Asian girls, especially Koreans, are not so quick to jump into bed with you.

[Xorak]

Everyone has secrets or a past. If you're enjoying yourself then just go with it. Don't get so inside your head over this.

Normal Asian girls, especially Koreans, are not so quick to jump into bed with you.

What the hell does normal mean? I absolutely slayed it in Korea and they weren't WLs.

[Speechwriter]

Everyone has secrets or a past. If you're enjoying yourself then just go with it. Don't get so inside your head over this.


What the hell does normal mean? I absolutely slayed it in Korea and they weren't WLs.

Agreed Xorak. "Normal" is a dangerous word.

"Asian" is also dangerous if you're trying to use use it to describe a large and diverse group of people from Indonesia, Malaysia, Thailand, The Philippines, Japan, China, Korea, Singapore, Taiwan, Laos, Burma, Cambodia, Vietnam, and Nepal. It's a word that's almost banned in business circles, for example. How you do business in China bares no resemblance to how you go about it in The Philippines.

It's folly to use a collective noun to describe the diversity that is Asia.

My limited experience with non-working girls in Japan and Korea -- as well as Japanese and Korean girls I've met in Australia, the US and Europe -- is that they're happy to race you into bed as fast as any nationality.

A short anecdote...

Good mate of mine who now lives in Melbourne once upon a time lived in Tokyo and taught English to JAL flight attendants. This mate is the epitome of tall, dark and handsome, so that helped his cause no doubt. He said the JAL hosties (and other Japanese women he came across in Tokyo in the mid to late 90s) were by far the most promiscuous women he'd ever met, anywhere.

He married one of them, and now lives in Melbourne with her and their three beautiful sons, aged 18, 16 and 14.

[insanekicker]

OP can you describe her body ?

[jwcool]

Just enjoy the ride!!

[Xorak]

My limited experience with non-working girls in Japan and Korea -- as well as Japanese and Korean girls I've met in Australia, the US and Europe -- is that they're happy to race you into bed as fast as any nationality.

If not faster.

Japanese... were by far the most promiscuous women he'd ever met

Preach it! My trip to Korea was practically PG-13+ compared to my trip to Japan (XXX rated). IMO they are the easiest and most approachable girls on the planet. I'm moving heaven and earth just to move back there.

And as Speechwriter said, the point is that it naive to live under these assumptions around cultural stereotypes. Also remember that the majority of South Koreans and all of Japan don't reside under a religion that actively tries to sexually repress them.

[Riff888]

I love this forum, you guys are funny as well as well informed.

I'm seeing her only on Saturdays and I'm trying to keep it like that.

But I'm starting to get obsessed with her. So I guess I'm falling for her.

But it's really hard to have serious conversations with her. Been here over 9 years with such bad English. She says she does night school.

She also says she imports cosmetics.

I like want her to meet my parents but something is not right.

I know a few Thai Wls that came to Sydney, they could not speak a word of English. Most of them speak really well in under a year.

So yeah, it would be easier if I knew she was a WL or ex WL.

The first thing I would do is book a session with Yuna or Aki from PPP.

[James_jones]

My limited experience with non-working girls in Japan and Korea -- as well as Japanese and Korean girls I've met in Australia, the US and Europe -- is that they're happy to race you into bed as fast as any nationality.

I agree. Going back even 10 years (more realistically 15) this may not have been the case but the more "modern" countries (Japan, Korea, China) have caught up with the west in relation to "freedom" and removing stigmas attached to sex outside of marriage. 18-20 year olds from China are much more "free" than their compatriates who are 30-35 were at their age who were quite chaste and subservient in comparison to western girls 10 years ago.

They change on trends from the west so fast. Now they travel here to live and ride the cc where as our women "find themselves" by going to third world countries and banging everything that moves (tour guides, locals, guys they travel with, etc). This took the better part of 40 years to mainstream here but seems to have happened at a much faster rate in the more "western" asian nations.

[6sixty9nine]

Does it matter mate? Every girls a hooker one way or another.

Hey all
I met this beautiful Korean girl on eHarmony.
We have been seeing each other for over a month now.
Sex is great, too good maybe, like she knows a lot.
She knows nothing about my past. I can't seem to find out anything about her.
I can't see her during the week, only on Saturdays.
She always makes excuses when I ask her to meet my friends.
She has her own apartment and car in Olympic Park but she's still a student as well????
She's been here about 9 years she says, has PR but still speaks bad English.
I'm suspicious.
I need advice please.
How will I know?
Her name is Ellie.
Thanks

[rooter]

I caught up with a girl the other day.
I think she might be a WL.
Maybe I'm being too suspicious or paranoid but the following things raised my suspicions:
1. I met her in a brothel
2. I paid the receptionist money to fuck her
3. We fucked within 5 minutes of saying hello.

Like I said, I am probably being too suspicious and paranoid.
I am sure there is a perfectly innocent explanation. Clearly just a case of mistaken identity.
here are some:
1. She works for deliveroo or menulog and was delivering food to the brothel, then she saw me, found me incredibly sexy and wanted to fuck me ASAP in one of the empty rooms
2. She is a Christian missionary and was door knocking the area and innocently entered the brothel, then she saw me, found me incredibly sexy and wanted to fuck me ASAP in one of the empty rooms
3. She is an undercover cop and was investigating the brothel, then she saw me, found me incredibly sexy and wanted to fuck me ASAP in one of the empty rooms.
4. She is a school girl collecting money for the Salvation Army and was door knocking the area for donations, it seemed like she was a WL just wearing a school uniform, but she really was a school girl, then she saw me, found me incredibly sexy and wanted to fuck me ASAP in one of the empty rooms
5. She is the district nurse testing the WLs for STIs. She seemed like a WL wearing a nurses uniform but she actually really was a nurse, then she saw me, found me incredibly sexy and wanted to fuck me ASAP in one of the empty rooms
6, She is a Marxist feminist student doing a PhD on sex workers and doing some research in a brothel, then she saw me, found me incredibly sexy and wanted to fuck me ASAP in one of the empty rooms

[Mr Bastard]

Maybe shes married.......

[Uptight]

Sorry Bro She's an Escort, I fcked her the other night, Good root to btw so just keep pluggin away there sunshine she may fall for you, then again she may not

Hey all
I met this beautiful Korean girl on eHarmony.
We have been seeing each other for over a month now.
Sex is great, too good maybe, like she knows a lot.
She knows nothing about my past. I can't seem to find out anything about her.
I can't see her during the week, only on Saturdays.
She always makes excuses when I ask her to meet my friends.
She has her own apartment and car in Olympic Park but she's still a student as well????
She's been here about 9 years she says, has PR but still speaks bad English.
I'm suspicious.
I need advice please.
How will I know?
Her name is Ellie.
Thanks

[sydneycheapass]

After all that BS..... Why you ask these kid of question here anyway?

I do have a solution for you though. You said she has a car? If she use it often next time you have the chance, hide a GPS tracker in her car and you will know exactly where she is going...... as for the rest, I think you know what to do.