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    What is the appeal of SM?

    Just trying to understand why some people like SM? I find it kind of sickening to be honest. Isn't sex meant to be enjoyable, where is the enjoyment of getting hurt? Getting hit in the balls is the biggest example - I find it extremely odd some people would enjoy let alone want this. Not only does it hurt a lot physically, it also hurts mentally. The balls is what makes a man a man, it produces testosterone. To have it hit by a girl just feels so wrong and the fact that it is such a fragile spot... don't know how i feel about this but I sort of feel less of a man, it's a confusing feeling. Anyone care to explain the appeal? Just seems bizarre.

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    Everyone is made of different stuff mate, what is good for some is not good for others, I am not a fan myself but each to their own.........whatever floats your boat................
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    It's more sickening if he likes to inflict hurt on the girls.
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    Quote Originally Posted by wilisno View Post
    It's more sickening if he likes to inflict hurt on the girls.
    +1!

    If someone is into S&M and getting his fix, he could be pretty harmless except for his own body, much worst when he turned violent and became a serial something something !

    Just watch Silence of the Lamb ! And all the SVU and the Criminal Minds series , very scary stuff !

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    Same question could be asked for men who enjoy getting their bum hole licked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by scooper View Post
    Same question could be asked for men who enjoy getting their bum hole licked.
    Although I'm not into it myself, I can see why some people may be into it. The tingly sensations are pleasurable to some since it feels a bit like getting your balls sucked. But I'd be interested to know where the pleasure from SM is...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Bastard View Post
    Everyone is made of different stuff mate, what is good for some is not good for others, I am not a fan myself but each to their own.........whatever floats your boat................
    Totally agree, not for me but each to their own. It is a far bigger community than most would believe, i guess like the male punting community. A lot of women are fully into it!

    For those inquisitive minds here, may i suggest checking out some of the BDSM dating sites/forums. Whilst most of us vanilla guys and gals still won't get it, still makes for very interesting if not bizarre reading and in some cases watching. On that I am aware of is Fetlife.

    https://fetlife.com

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    Quote Originally Posted by wilisno View Post
    It's more sickening if he likes to inflict hurt on the girls.
    +100000000000
    You're so right!

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    Quote Originally Posted by scooper View Post
    Same question could be asked for men who enjoy getting their bum hole licked.
    I don't understand why someone like to lick bum hole too.
    Quote Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR View Post
    +1!

    If someone is into S&M and getting his fix, he could be pretty harmless except for his own body, much worst when he turned violent and became a serial something something !

    Just watch Silence of the Lamb ! And all the SVU and the Criminal Minds series , very scary stuff !
    Have to admit that that's my favourite kind of movies. So scary but irresistible

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    SM...

    Ever Fantasied about being tied up, and being given a handjob job, and the lady kept tugging after cumming, when its ultra sensitive.

    I have... too scared to go to a SM though..

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    For some of us, we're in control of 100% out our lives all the time. At work, at home we always need to be in charge. Having a break from that is relaxing. But also I've never wanted someone to kick my balls

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