Originally Posted by
yug
What he said!
To OP: Until the girl chases you, it ain't real. Even if she chases you, you have to know her real intention. In ML/WL case, it is usually money. Plus they have heaps of excess baggage. They are either married and divorced. They are single mothers. Her life will be shredded with mysteries; the kinda mysteries that will eat you alive every time you think about her; make you bitter each day until you begin to hate humanity itself. You might have guessed it: I have been there and done that. Don't make the same mistake.