Originally Posted by
vitamin
Hey babyC
I think everyone is answer Q2 (GFE) instead of Q1
because GFE is what most people want.
and GFE really boils down to, familiarity.
If you're going though the motions without any connection (physical and mental) then it's just a Serivice. empty, cold.
I think what most punters are trying to say (correct me if i'm wrong here fellas) is when they say they want GFE. They want that sense of familiarity. like you know them or they know you (hard to do on first visit) best of friends who's is about to get sexual.
That you know each other, are comfortable together, and intimate.
So the GFE is just having that connection and add the RNT service.
anything to detract from that will ruin that sense of closeness. For example
1. You find them dirty, don't want to touch them,
2. Don't want them to touch you,
3. Don't want to kiss because they have bad breath,
4. Taking time out to clean up,
5. Wasting time, as if you don't want to do it and just punting it off as long as possible instead of jumping on them as if you can't last another min.
6. Walking out, to get things as it's you're preparing to cook. (things should be ready)
7, Projecting an aura that you can't wait to finish the session,
8. Being distracted and just going through the motions / series of steps. not paying attention to them. etc.
Just think if you wanted a boyfriend experience.
when you see your boyfriend you're immediately comfortable, close, familiar with them.
and imagine if he was distant, didn't talk, didn't' want to touch you or acted like you're dirty. not a good feeling right?
hand job, bj etc are all very standard. It's that connection to that person what everyone is searching for no? it's mentioned a lot of on forum. whenever someone has a good punt. They always make sure to mention there was a "connection" in the AR