Fwb are much better when free
Hello fellow bros,
I have come up with an idea, so let me know what you think. I want to find a female paid fuck buddy, so it will be like a fuck buddy arrangement but I pay her per session.
I think this is better than punting because it could be a little cheaper and she won't have other clients (looking for a girl who just wants a bit of money in spare time, not relying on it for full income).
I would have to pay because I want a hot one, and the only fuck buddies I have ever had were very average looking.
So can you bros tell me if this is a good idea, and if so where I could start to look for someone who would be interested?
Fwb are much better when free
"My soul has been spoiled by the world, my imagination is unquiet, my heart insatiate. To me everything is of little moment. I have become as easily accustomed to grief as to joy, and my life grows emptier day by day"
If you can tell me how to get a Swedish model to have sex with me at no cost then I'm all ears bro.
It might sound like a good idea in practice but girls always come with lots of baggage. I have done this a few times with several girls over the years but unless you are the sort of guy who always wants to keep seeing the same girl, it can quickly become boring. You also have the hassle of setting up where to meet and when etc.
Once the novelty wears off which for me is say 3 or 4 visits, I have then often moved on looking for my next conquest.
Is it a bird, is it a plane, no its Punterman. Always seeking out good value bbbj, DFK, DATY for $150 hr in the Western Sydney brothels.
It’s not a fuck buddy if you are paying for it.
It’s prostitution.
But that's just semantics.
Anyway there are hundreds of girls on dating sites who will ask you for money in return for sex.
Finding paid for sex is definitely easier than finding free sex.
Just go to any of the dating sites.
Not the serious dating ones like eHarmony - they are full of good girls looking for a husband.
Go to the more sexy ones like F-Buddy, Hookups 365, Fling.com, Insta bang, naughty date etc.
Basically 95% of the really hot single girls are either fake usernames created by the people who own the site to lure gullible men into joining up and paying the subscription fee OR fake usernames created by kids or trolls or losers or gay guys, OR are girls asking for money in return for sex.
Semantics I agree
If u spend time on her where u could spend time working on urself for money then she is by association a prostitute.
Time spent on girl will usually cost more than hooking
However if u enjoy the time u spend with her and find it enjoyable then great that’s what free sex is
If u spending time on her for sex then it is no different than seeing a pro
Good point. If you want a fuck buddy get a girlfriend. If you want to fuck around then go and pick up girls or visit brothels
The dream of the fuck buddy is probably male fantasy most of the time and girls have different views on sex / relationships in my experience.
My fuck buddies if that is the correct words as Rooter says, if you are paying them then they are really just prostitutes, have been a combination of:
Brothel girls who will see me at their home or in hotel on their days off but expect payment. A bit cheaper than the shop.
WL's who are students and need some extra cash. Sometimes get the odd freebie but there is always that expectation hanging around that you help them out financially in return for their pussy. These girls are also looking for love and proper partners too so my agreement with them is that I will see them when they are single and they can drop me when they get in a relationship.
I will generally only see these girls if they offer me the best "extra" as if they don't then I may as well go to a shop.
I like seeing girls away from the shops as it is a more relaxed environment and you get them to yourself for a bit longer as there is less clock watching and no other punters waiting in line.
When I go to a hotel with them I will go at about 2pm, we stay and fuck for a few hours and then I normally go home at 6pm ish.
The girls often stay the night there on their own enjoying the luxury as the student girls live in cheap shared accommodation.
Perhaps they call up their other regulars after I leave to earn some extra cash in the hotel but if they do that is fine by me as I don't own them. $150 for a hotel room and some good sex for a few hours is money well spent in my books.
Is it a bird, is it a plane, no its Punterman. Always seeking out good value bbbj, DFK, DATY for $150 hr in the Western Sydney brothels.
I have had a few fuck buddies in my time.
There was definitely no exchange of money involved.
In fact some of the women were earning more than me and had a much more impressive investment portfolio.
There are women out there who have a "male" attitude to sex.
They just want to catch up have a few laughs, maybe a meal or a drink and definitely some awesome sex.
And then they want to fuck off or want you to fuck off.
These girls are gems.
I feel privileged to have met a few of them.
The same way Demi Moore fucks Michael Douglas and Sharon Stone fucks Michael Douglas - what’s wrong with Michael Douglas and he kept getting casted to be fucked by alpha females !!
Ps. I think he was also in a movie with Kim Basinger where she was the First Lady and him the security.
You are talking about a lot of grey areas man !
If you paid someone as your fuck buddy, where do you draw the line if she has another 20 paying FB on her books ?
And how would this paid FB be different from a WL / ML who sees you outside the shop and you paid her for sex ! And the same apply to any private girl you may see ?
Such an in-depth talk about a bit of pussy hahaha there is so much to it isn’t it hahaha
I get the appeal about this, it's the idea of having someone exclusive (FWB) and not a WL who does it as a job full time. The closest I've had to this is a sugar daddy/baby arrangement. Managed to get a great long term arrangement going with a 20 year old Aussie born girl, young and innocent, quite good looking and currently in university.
I paid her $300 per meet, and usually we went out on a date and did some normal stuff. Then it was straight to the bedroom, the sex was more natural and it was really like a FWB arrangement. She was exclusive and tested so we went bareback which was great and some days we would fuck a few times over 2-3 hours.
The best part is that it wasn't timed, for $300 I could see her for hours or for however long she was keen. We enjoyed each others company quite well and were quite open about everything, she knew I had a partner and we never learnt each others real names. I bought her outfits and she dressed up in whatever way I wanted (I'm a tight dress and heels kind of guy).
The downside is finding a room for the dirty deed, and also paying for meals etc as we went out.
Yeah, if the OP is looking for this, I think someone posted a site called: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/login
It's got college students in there who would probably agree to $300 ongoing arrangement.
But if the girl is really hot, it's more likely she will probably want a lot more than $300 (shopping, gifts, and what not)
I read few profiles and some girls have even laid out the rules, like for example, one girl says she want someone to lavish her with gifts, hefty allowances, and travel with her to exotic locations.
That's a lifestyle of a millionaire. Living beyond your means isn't an option, at least for me.
Some people have ridiculous expectations. I can't see too many millionaires trawling a website to find sugar babies. I reckon they wouĺd be just sitting around their private penthouse and they wouĺd be like flies to honey. They would have their own network and the last place I would expect to see them is a sugar daddy site... this all just my own personal opinion and I could be wrong...
I knew a guy who use to train ladies to be your servant.
Alas you had to pay big money plus give them a apartment.
Also a agreed amount of holidays together.
Contract for one year.
They would be available 24/7
I am not sure how the law would see this arrangement as.
Yeah, you are certainly right on this.
But there are rare occasions where you will be surprised.
There was a WL/student from Hong Kong I used to see in 2012 who bagged this rich customer.
The guy bought her a Mercedes; then even bought an apartment in her name.
Eventually, she left him as it was all about money.
When I asked her: Why would you do that to someone?...He must be devastated.
She said: He is too rich...loosing an apartment, Mercedes, and few thousand dollars is nothing for a guy like that...
She then added with a big grin on her face: You see I am a devil...people don't realize that when they see my pretty face...
I was shocked beyond belief at that time...